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Cynthia Khano posted a condolence
Thursday, February 11, 2021
I am so sorry. Your story touched me. Thank you for sharing. Rip Shawn.
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Tonja sturgill posted a condolence
Thursday, October 11, 2018
I do not know you or your precious Shawn but this touched me so much. I too have a Shawn , and he too is a drug addict. My heart is breaking for you as I know exactly wht it can do to our children and families. I pray God comforts your hearts and holds you in his arms and gives you rest . Abrest that you have not known I’m sure for awhile. My son is 44. Has been an addict for over 15 years. The unsettlement of every day holding your breath.. I am so very very sorry for your loss. He is with Jesus now and his pain is gone. May God help you through this and thank you for being so candid. Addiction is a ravishing disease. May God Bless you
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Marcia Mann posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 19, 2017
I'm sorry for your loss but thank you for your honesty. Hopefully, this will save someone.
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Monday, October 9, 2017
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Thursday, June 29, 2017
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Joseph mcnamee posted a condolence
Monday, April 24, 2017
I'm very sorry. I can relate how hard it is to fight a addiction you have to fight everyday of your life. it is not easy at all you have to find something you love. I diddnt know Shawn but I want to give my condolences to his family may the lord bless you. Rip Shawn you are in a better place now and you won't suffer only the ones that loved you are and that hurts bad
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Monday, March 13, 2017
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Karen posted a condolence
Monday, March 13, 2017
My deepest sympathies for your family in in difficult time. My heart aches for you all as I know first hand the sadness you are going through! I didn't lose my son for good to this horrible addiction, but very close a few time's until I finally begged for help for him and he was strong enough to overcome it! He is now over 3 year's clean and going strong. I pray every day they catch and lock up all the dealer's! So sad you and your family had to have it end like this! All my prayers!
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Sunday, March 12, 2017
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Monday, November 7, 2016
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Wednesday, November 2, 2016
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Praying for your family during this difficult time.
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Monday, October 24, 2016
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Scott E Moyer posted a condolence
Monday, October 24, 2016
I think this being an election year....there would be more focus on this epidemic.
This year alone, I personally know of more than a dozon deaths due to herion over doses.
One is to many! I dont have an answer, but I do know its not going to stop, till we deal with it head on.
These are not all bad people as portrayed in movies and television. They are our children. They are our neighbors. They need Help , not prison's that offer NO help physically or mentally. Please.....help is needed now. Lets help our children before its to late. This is everyones problem, not just homeless junkies. Our children and friends are dying.....I say ENOUGH !
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Thursday, October 20, 2016
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Wednesday, October 19, 2016
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im sorry i did not know Shawn but he sounds like he was an amazing young man i pray that his love for life smiling and adventure continues to shine even tho his body has retired
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Tuesday, October 18, 2016
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Barbara Doody posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2016
So so sorry for the loss of your beloved Shawn...Your words, though extremely painful to write, send a powerful message to all. The courage and love you showed by your heartfelt words are a testament to your hope that others like Shawn may find a way out of addiction's grasp. May you find comfort and healing in the days ahead, knowing your words may save a life...
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Roberta Simon posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2016
I did not know Shawn but saw his obituary on Facebook. Thank you for sharing Shawn's story. I am so very sorry for your loss.
I have been trying to help a lovely girl named Laura for many years. I will continue to share on Facebook and ask her to read about Shawn's life and death. Maybe she will finally "get it". I am sure that you have touched many lives with your story. I believe your sharing will save lives.
Thank you. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Julie Umstead posted a condolence
Saturday, October 15, 2016
I do not know you but, I know your pain. My daughter, 21 yrs old, started using at age 12. She is now 5 years clean. However her fiancee just relapsed and passed from a dose of heroin laced with fentanyl at age 23. My prayers are with you that one day you may find some comfort by paying it forward to some one who comes along in a situation like yours.
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Saturday, October 15, 2016
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I'm so sorry I didn't know him but also lost a nephew last month to drugs rip shawn
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Tracy Hines posted a condolence
Saturday, October 15, 2016
Thank you for writing this. A friend shared this on Facebook. I did not know Shawn but when I read this I was really amazed that the family was able to be so frank and honest about this.
I do not use drugs however I know a lot of people struggle with this issue. May God bless your family during this time. I pray that your hearts will find some healing.
My mother died and my grandfather died this year and I miss them both everyday. There is no replacement for having them to talk to everyday.
I know your family feels this way also.
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virginia posted a condolence
Saturday, October 15, 2016
I never knew Shawn or anyone in the family but how brave you were to share with the world how he died. It will surely help someone else struggling with this demon. Very sad story. Prayers to all of you survivors.
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Kia Williams posted a condolence
Saturday, October 15, 2016
May god forever keep him in his arms, safe and no longer in pain. May god bless over and give strength to his family and friends! I currently know of someone battling the same demon. I will be passing this young fathers story on. God bless (you) his family for having the courage to share his story! Thank you!!
Sending my condolences and love to everyone effected by this loss!
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Annette posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
My prayers are with you at this time, I to have a family member that battles addiction. I pray your loved one has found peace and God's loving arms. sincerely, annette, Athens Georgia
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Maria A posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know your pain. I lost my son five years ago October 22nd from an overdose while he was in a program. My heart goes out forand you family. If you ever need to talk please feel free to me at 56.angel.ml@gmail.com.
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Maria L. Angeloni
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Carol Hamrick posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
I did not know Shawn or his family but his story is a familiar one. To his family and friends may you find comfort and peace. Just know that there was nothing you could do to save him. I am sure he knew he was loved by friends and family . This is being sent by the mother of a drug addicted child who goes to bed every night terrified of that knock on the door to tell her that her childs life was also taken by drugs.Thank you for sharing Shawns story.
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Friday, October 14, 2016
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Linda Kornosky posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss of Shawn from heroin.
It is a battlefield of the mind; read Battlefield of.the Mind.by.Joyce Meyers and.you will not only be blessed but your loved ones will and their friends and family will also be blessed.
My prayers continue to go out for you in your time of sorrow.
I do pray that your testimony in the loss of Shawn will prevent others from a similar fate ....specifically my nephew Kevin Cowell who I pray for often. Kevin watched his own friend die in his presence from a heroin overdose.
The evil one has come to steal and destroy but God and the power of Jesus Christ has overcome the evil one. He gives us the victory to be conquerors in life and through death if only we accept him and.ask him into our life. Hallelujiah! Praise be to God on high!
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Trisha posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
My daughter is also a heroine addict. It's just a matter of time. So sorry for your loss.
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Melissa from SC posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
I am keeping you all in prayer during this difficult and hard time. I pray God wraps you in a warm and love like Shawn clearly gave you at his best. I pray for you during the on going months of sadness. I ask that the Lord will comfort you on days you don't even know you'll need it. That He will give you signs of Shawn in all that you do.
Thank you for sharing your story b/c I know it has touched hearts already. I commend you for sharing.
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Cathy Klein posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
As a parent and grandparent, my heart aches. Thank you for posting the reason for Shawn's death. I hope it touches the hearts of those who may be traveling down the same sad road. God Bless You.
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Lisa Handfield posted a condolence
Friday, October 14, 2016
I didn't know this young man but I am a recovering addict and I know the struggle is real I too have lived this awful life and have hurt a lot of people that I love dearly and I can remember a number of times I have played with my life and am surprised I am still here but there are a lot of people that I have lost in my life because of this awful disease and people I still see struggle with this disease but I really wanted to say how sorry I am for ur loss he looked like a good person that just got into a horrible horrible situation that took his life just wanted to give u my sincere condolence May he rest in peace and so sorry for ur loss
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Dawn Riley-Baptista posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
May Sean Rest In Peace. Although I did not know Sean, there have been many Sean's in my life. They die of a "sudden death". Everyone knows why. It's a secret & no one ever faces the truth. I commend you and your family for their honesty and courage to face the truth. Heroin ruins loves. May your efforts save another life. I am sorry for your loss.
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Laurie gancarz posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
So sorry for your loss very tragic and sad
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Debbie posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
Im very sorry for your loss. My son has been on it off and on for 6 yrs ay 30 yrs old. im not sure how ge survives. Love and hugs to you all.
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Phyllis posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
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melodie fugate posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I don't know Shawn however I'm happy you shared his story so I can show people and children what will happen to them doing drugs. I'm am so very sorry for your loss and the lives taken so early by this senseless unforgiven drug. Bless you and Shawns family .
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Amy Justice posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers of comfort to all.
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Thursday, October 13, 2016
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Patty Corriveau posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Such a handsome young man. TY for sharing his story. I hope a lot of young ppl see this and learn to get help early enough so their family and friends do not have to go through this. My prayers are with you during this time. Again thank you for sharing this on his obituary!
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Pamela Palmer posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
God Bless this family. May He comfort you and bring you Peace. You are very brave and very loving to share this tragic story with the public. My best friend lost her son to drugs. He was 38. It changed her life forever. I pray God will be with you. If your sharing will change one addict's life it will be worth it.
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Elaine Morgan posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
What courage it took to write this tribute and obit. We have to get people more aware that this addictive drug ruins your life, the lives of those who care about you and does kill. My heart hurts for you but thank you for trying to make more people aware. Praying God provides comfort and understanding.
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Kori Eder posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
My prayers are for your family . My son is also a heroin addict. He is six months clean. You don't know me but we are all in the same boat. May your son have peace. God bless you
One loving mother to another loving mother
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cheryl rock posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
May God give you and your family strength through this difficult time. I also lost my son to an overdose. It's a tough disease. My heart aches for you. Hugs
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joan Murphy posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss... Heroin is horrible... I have 2 grandchildren over the age of 20... I am certainly going to share this with them....so maybe it will open their eyes before there is a problem... Seeing this in real time will help lots of people... Reality is key I think... thanks so much for caring enough to share... love and prayers for all of you... Joan Murphy... Greenfield, Ohio
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kris stewart posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
My sincere condolences to you and your family upon the loss of your loved one. I am sorry that heroin took his life from him and all of his loved ones. You are very Brave to face this head on like this. I wish you strength and peace.
sympathies and prayer,
from CT.
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Thursday, October 13, 2016
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Thursday, October 13, 2016
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Julie Yates posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for the family.
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Hilarie Detweiler posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I don't know thi's young man or your family but I and my family know of the evil of heroin. You are all so brave to be able to help during this horrible time in your lives and the loss of an amazing family member. My families prayers along with mine are with you all. We as families can continue to help fight this demon heroin, and one day win. May God's strength get you all through this and know we are all in your support.
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Debby posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know him but he sounds like a wonderful person. Thank you for telling his story at this sad time. Prayers for everyone.
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Thursday, October 13, 2016
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Susan radford posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
My condolences for your loss. I am a recovering addict but my drug of choice was crack cocaine and I think towards the end there it was spiked with heroine. It is a hard battle to fight and your words are very touching. I am very blessed to have my family by my side I have hurt so many loved ones my son is the only one that has anything to do with me, my two older daughters say I am dead to them even after I have cleaned up. I have stole from my boyfriend which he could of had me locked up for instead he is in debt because of me but he still loves me and we are in different states because he is working a job that pays good but we talk every night and he comes to see me. I moved from the area where I lived at with the addiction which was a help in fighting it. I am so sorry you lost your son to the addiction, no one deserves to go through that pain but believe me an addict go through pain too you just don't see it...no one does...I know its our fault for that first time for saying yes to it..but there's a reason we said yes something pulled us in and then the drug took us from there and its all darkness from there on out you just feel numb all the pain is gone and you want it to stay gone then you end up hurting someone and then you have to take that pain away its a forever going process.. Please believe me its never meant to be...we the addicts are so sorry
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Kimberly Dawn posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
Bless you for having the courage to let others know about the destruction of a life and the lives of those around them due to heroin. My prayers are with you during this terrible time in your lives and my wish is that someone will read Shawn's obituary and will seek help for their addiction. Bless you all.
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Liz aaron posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
So sorry for your loss its hard I know bit all is not lost y'all have memories that will bring joy take care n remember things will get better.....
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Lisa Ludington posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have never met you or your family but I saw your story on fb. Thank-you for having the courage and strength to reach out and try to help someone else even in the midst of your grief. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Sidni Norwood posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
So very sorry for your loss I know first hand the devestation heroine use brings your family is in my prayers.
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Conda posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I appreciate very much your the openess of your son and you trying to help other people who are addicted to drugs this must have been the hardest thing you've ever gone through in your life and then to open up about his life I think is very warm and sincere I will pray for you and your family and hope that Shawn's life will be a help to someone else who is addicted before it's too late
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Tina posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
My deepest sympathy goes out to his family . I myself have struggled with addiction most of my life & have watched so many people that I love do the same . Addiction has been the hardest thing I have ever had to endure thru out my life. My heart goes out to y'all may y'all find peace and comfort in God. My prayer is that his story can save a life . But for the Grace of God there go I.....
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Virginia Griffin posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
SVS FOR YOUR LOSS I ALSO LOST A NEPHEW TO THE SAME THING :(
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Kim Belcher posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I'm unbelievably heart broken for his family. I have a son and 3 of his friends in this very same situation. I have just gotten 3 of the 4 of them I need rehab. However as I'm sure your very aware herion continues to be that little voice on their shoulders that says you can use just once it's ok. This world is so sad for these young people. My meant and prayers go out to you guys. Somehow through your voice try to turn this tragedy into a triumph for others battering addiction
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Krista Rose posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I Thank you for the honesty of Shawn's obituary, and I'm going to help make this go viral. Heroin is an epidemic stealing the lives away of thousands and thousands and breaking the hearts of the millions left behind that have to make sense of it, live another day and carry on.
God Bless you all.
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Sally willis posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
So sorry for your loss! Heroin is no ones friend, I hope this open and honest revelation of shawns struggle helps others. I admire your courage
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Shelly posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
My prayers are with you. May God comfort and support you through this devastating time. I will be sharing this heartbreak in hopes of reaching someone in need.
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Jamie Whitley posted a condolence
Thursday, October 13, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss, I hope he is remembered for all that he was and not what his addictions led him to be. <3
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Wednesday, October 12, 2016
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My heart goes out to your family. Your in my prayers. Deb
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Pete Trzos posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My condolences for your loss. I just lost one of my best friends to a heroin overdose, possibly cut with carfentanil, last Tuesday. Same age as your loved one.
I really respect what you wrote in Shawn's obituary; it took a lot of courage to do, and is spot-on with what Brian's friends and family are going through as well. Thank you, and I hope you can find peace.
~Pete
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Belinda Cargill posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I'm so very sorry for your loss so glad your talking about it hope it'll help someone I know at least 2 people who died from drugs one shot him self in high school 25 years ago if never forgotten the other was a boss son who died with supposed friends while driving around instead of taking him to a hospital or police station they pushed his dieing body out of the car and left him on the side of the rd to die his family still has questions and no answers like who he was with and why they'd leave him
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Marsha T. posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss..You do not know me, but wanted to know how brave you are to include the circumstance of your son's passing..What you wrote could be the same but my son name instead..I truly know what you are going through and will be praying for your family..May God's love and peace be with you..
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Wednesday, October 12, 2016
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Wednesday, October 12, 2016
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Patrice Pooler posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. Many prayers for Shawn's family.
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Marjorie L. Roblin, LICSW posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I saw Shawn's obituary on Dave Piersma's FB page. Dave is an OCS classmate of mine, Class of '67, and I do recognize the Paquette name.
I wanted to offer my sincere sympathy to Shawn's family and friends, and comment on what a powerful and helpful use of the obituary to reach out to try to help others who are in trouble with addictive substances and behaviors.
My last 40 years have been spent as a licensed clinician in mental health, and as such, I have witnessed the destruction and deaths of so many truly wonderfully endowed people, who like Shawn, did an addictive substance, only to find that very soon, IT was doing them, and they were not able to be in control of it, or of their lives.
Until there are better treatments, and more and more comprehensive and lasting treatments for addictions, help, care, interventions, medications, living situations, AA, NA....are what there is to at least try to assist men and women like Shawn . Using his death to try to help others is a tribute to him, and to his family. May The Source, what ever you call it, how ever you believe, and good memories of Shawn comfort you and bring you solace in these long sad days.
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Jill posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I do not know your family at all but I want to send my thoughts and prayers to you all. The honesty in this written memorial may help to save another's life. Addiction is not pretty yet it is not something to be ashamed of or to hide. So many people deal with demons that are both seen and unseen and your brave stand on bringing it to light in your own familiy's struggle will certainly not be in vain. God bless your family.
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Wednesday, October 12, 2016
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Laurie Root posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My sincerest condolences on the passing of your loved one to the wicked one known as addiction. My three children lost their father to the same evil force in 1997, and no one's lives have been the same since.
In closing I want you to know that your entire family including his daughter will be in my prayers. Be sure that she knows her father loved her best he could. Much love and sympathy from upstate New York.
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Cindy Brannon posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I never met this young man but I wish I had.so sorry for your loss.praying that the Lord Jesus Christ will give you comfort.
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Michele Mcglothin posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Life is so precious, I'm so sorry for your loss Devastation is horrid!!! Just try to remember the special moments! I do!!!
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Melissa Maurer posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Dear Family, I have no idea who any of you are, however your sons obituary touched my heart immensely! I too am a drug addict, thank God i found recovery so my babies could have their mom back and my parents could have their daughter back and my husband could finally fall in love with the real me not the active user. Im so very sorry that the demon known as heroin stole your baby from you and i only hope and pray that you can all find peace about his passing. His body no longer aches and cries out for the drugs, his mind is clear and his soul is free from the beast. How heartbreaking it must be to bury your child especially to something so sinister and evil. Ill say a prayer for your family. God bless and may time heal your pain.
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A recovering addict
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Abbie Dueppengiesser posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with you!!
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stephanie ciaramella posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I applaud you for your honestly..My only child my daughter is an heroin addict although she is doing better now it is an everyday fight...What happened to Shawn is my worst fear, I understand the struggle of the family. People don't understand that the one's who love a drug addict are affected just as much as the drug addict, the only difference is we dont have something to numb the pain...I am so very sorry for your loss and even though I did not know him this breaks my heart
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Debbie Sikich posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I do not know you, but am very sorry for your loss!! I am the mother of a heroin addict. This touched me in a way I can't explain. This could be me one day and I will pray for you all!! Much love to you all!! xoxo
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Sue Borger posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I am so sorry for the loss of Shawn Carter. Although I don't know you or him personally, I have a dear friend who also lost her son to heroin addiction. This is a horrible disease affecting so many people in our country, young and old. I pray for all of you. Thank you for sharing the truth of his passing, hoping it can make more people aware of the dangers of this and all addictions. Sincerely.
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Deanna posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
May he rest in peace. He was truly a great guy. He will be missed.
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Valerie posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I saw this on facebook...I do not know you. I'm so sorry for your loss. I just wanted to commend you on saying exactly what happened. That's so amazing....gave me chills. My sister accidentally overdosed 15 years ago, and we were not strong enough to write it out like you did. I hope it helps you in your grieving process to know that you've touched so many people with his obituary.
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Deirdre Aronson posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
What a beautifully written obituary, for an obvious beautiful person. Condolences to family and friends.
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Janie Daniels posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
So sorry for you loss but know that you did everything that you could to save him. Being a parent is no easy task. It takes everything to raise them to an adult. Then it is largely up to them. You advise, you pray and pray. I can tell from your note what a good person he was and that his heart was always open to helping others. This is a terrible loss for you and your family and the thought of what might have been is painful. My heart aches for you for I have had friends that have buried their children. Illness and auto accidents have brought much grief and it never ends but does get easier with the help of God. You will be in my prayers..
God Bless,
Janie
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Megan posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I didn't know your son but I just read his story on Facebook. My deepest condolences to your family. My cousin is in her early 20's and is a heroin addict. I've also lost a uncle from the addiction. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
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DOTTIE BIESKI posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Please accept my deepest sympathy and thank you for the wonderful, heart felt obituary you placed for Shawn. I hope it helps someone realize how much this killer drug hurts everyone. Your family doesn't know me, but I felt compelled to acknowledge the sorrow this has brought to your family. God Bless
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tammy EASLEY posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
So sorry for your loss prayers for you all. I have two children two adopted children and two I took in and they are all drug addicts fighting meth addiction it's very hard on the families
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Wednesday, October 12, 2016
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Jane A. posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss, but I deeply thank you for sharing Shawn's story so honestly. I am a recovering alcoholic, so I know the shame and torment of addiction. No one chooses to live that way. Many people don't believe it, but it happens to nice people like Shawn. Sadly, so few people find a way out. I believe your openness will help others find help for their terrible struggle.
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Linda King posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Thank you so much for sharing Shawn's story with the public. I certainly hope this will have an impact on other heron addicts. Our family has personally gone through several young adults with addictions. Fortunately some have turn their lives around, one is in prison and the rest are still fighting their demons. I will share Shawn's story with them and pray. I also will pray for you and all your family and friends and know that none of you could have changed his course. Many people try to take the blame on themselves for a love ones addiction but I have been through enough counseling sessions with my son to know the fault lies with them.
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kristen kohr posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I will pray for your family. you don't know me but from one mother to another of sons dealing with this dreaded disease. my heart goes out to you I can't imagine the pain that is consuming you. may the Lord give you comfort at this time.
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Bernita posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I have never read a more heartfelt wrenching obituary. Thank you for posting so honestly in hopes others may find a way out of addiction. I'm so sorry for your family and especially for Shawn. My prayers are with Shawn and all his family.
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The Murphys posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Please know we are saddened to read of your loss. You are all in our thoughts & prayers today and the days to follow.
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terri werner posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
How very brave and honorable to do this. I have been to 2 funerals of very decent people myself due to this insidious disease. God bless you. God bless shawn. May you find peace and comfort !!
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Patty posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My most sincere condolences, to all the extended family. And you all sharing this story was so brave,of you to do,but their is nothing wrong with sharing the truth,and at the same time,trying to open the eyes and minds of so many people that are addicted to those horrible drugs.Thanks for sharing.
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Sharon posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I don't know Shawn or any of the family that hold Shawn near and dear to their heart, especially his little girl. But I wanted to let his family know that I saw this Testimony, not obituary, and am truly thankful the way it is written, the way the family reaches out to others and most of all for the ones that Shawn can still help! Prayers to all of you and may God bless each and everyone of you for sharing such personal information to help another you may or may not know. Love and prayers,
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CB posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Thank you for your courage to share the truth about Shawn's death. I sincerely hope it helps someone else find help for their addiction. Peace, love and light be with your family. Blessings.
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Susan posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I didn't know Shawn or any of his family. His obituary was shared on a friends Facebook page. Your words touched my heart as I have a family member that struggles with addiction.
My deepest condolences to you for your loss.
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Cindy posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My deep condolences for your loss. May God comfort you during this time!
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Bonda Bays posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I don't know your family but I am sincerely sorry for your loss. The fact you are sharing his story about addiction touched me deeply. I have a daughter who's an addict and continually fear the phone call that she's dead. If you sharing his story can impact even 1 life it will be wonderful. I know it wasn't easy for you to share but may God bless you for doing so. I will pray for your family and especially for his daughter. God bless you
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Today is my neice's 25th birthday and I have no idea where she is. Heroine has taken her from her 3 year old daughter, her two sisters, her mother and her grandmother who worry about her every day and have their heartbroken every time she shows up, wears them down, and steals from them again and again. I will pray for you and your family, this young man became victim to such a powerful and damaging demon, and we all need to find a way to prevent this from happening time and time again. My heart goes out to you and your family.
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Cindy Jackson posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I do not know Shawn or the family, but I am so very sorry for your loss and appreciate your wanting to reach others, even as you grieve. May God give your comfort and strength during this time.
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Becky Cox posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Sorry for your loss sending prayers and hugs through this difficult time may god embrace your family in in arms on the loss of your son
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Judy Crowder posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I do not know any of you, but I was so touched that you had to courage to state why he passed, and the strength to encourage those trapped in the nightmare to seek the help they need. I have known 2 people in the last month who died way too soon from the same thing. I know other people who are still trapped and one who has (hopefully) been cured for now. It means everything to me that you did this, and I plan to push harder to those I know who have not succumbed yet to the disease, in the hope that it will change their lives before it is too late. I may make some enemies along the way, but I would rather have them as enemies than have them pass away without trying.
Thank you so much for your courage and strength. I hope you are able to continue your life with memories of all the good times you mentioned. It sounds like he was an amazing man.
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Corky Clark posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I don't know Shawn or his family personally & yet I do..as a Mother who lost her son to this enemy I am sending my heart and love to you ,his family & his child who is left behind as so many ,too many are > your honest words can be such a help to even just one person , hugs and love to you on this new nightmare journey of grief >
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Jennifer Bryant posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Addiction does not discriminate, it grows stronger as we sleep and continues to devastate the hearts of many. I do not know Shawn personally but know addiction intimately. I ask for peace, forgiveness and serenity to my Higher Power during this time of sorrow and pain for your family. Let Shawn's story be heard from rooftops and know that you are not alone. You don't have to suffer from this disease alone. Seek help.
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Shelley Saunders posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Hello I don't know Ya'll just wanted to say I'm very sorry for your loss I'll keep your family in my prayers
I pray God gives Ya'll comfort during this difficult time
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Barb Hamilton posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I'm am so deeply sorry for you loss . You don't know me and I don't know you but I needed to say thank you for reaching out to others through your pain . This drug is taking far to many people into it's evil grips . I hope you find peace in helping others . He sounded like an amazing person .
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Sarah Hawthorne posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Did not know your son but wanted to say how Sorry I am for your loss. Drugs have some of my family and it is heartbreaking to watch the destruction. I appreciate your bravery to post what took your son. I pray it will touch others.
The widow of a former Navy SEAL
Sending many prayers and ((hugs)) to your grieving family,
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Karol posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My deepest sympathy to your family, I didn't know Shawn or his family but I lost a nephew at 25 yo to this terrible drug. I pray for your family and hope that your message reaches many
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Kj posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My heart is sad, because I know yours is breaking. It is so hard for a parent to watch their precious child slip away into this terrible addiction. I am so sorry that your family had to go through this devestating pain, and will continue feeling the pain of his loss. However, I am glad the struggle is over for him, and he can be free in Paradise.
My so is also a heroin addict. I watch him every day try to fight to get clean, but it never lasts. However, I will keep helping him fight to find his way out.
My prayers, and my thoughts will always be with your family.
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Janice Hunter posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
GOD REST HIS SOUL AND GIVE HIM THE PEACE AND LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE THAT HE WAS SEEKING. I LOST A LOVED ONE TO AN OVERDOSE MYSELF, AND I KNOW HOW DIFFICULT THAT IS TO ACCEPT. I PRAY GOD WILL COMFORT HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES, AND GIVE THEM THE STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH THIS TIME OF LOSS, SORROW AND GRIEF. GOD BLESS YOU, AND THANK YOU FOR SHARING THE STORY OF SHAWN'S LIFE AND STRUGGLE.
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Kaye Snow posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I am so sorry for your devastating loss and admire your openness in wanting to help others
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Vincent T Vasquez posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Our condolences to the family and friends, God has a way to stop the suffering and we know in our heart Shawn kept asking for forgiveness but his demon found his weakness. God knows nobody is perfect and we as Christians know God held him in his last moments. I share my Heart in prayers, Amen.
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Rhonda Miller posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My prayers go out to your entire family. Your son was a wonderful young man, and he left you with a beautiful daughter as his legacy. He will never be forgotten. Your decision to speak out against heroin will impact many. Heroin stole our beloved 23-year-old son Ben's life on August 1 of this year. We are devastated, but not destroyed. We will never be the same, but we will recover. There is hope for us who are left behind. We must live and fight and make a full and happy life in spite of our horrific loss. Heroin has robbed us of so much over the recent years, but I refuse to let heroin steal and destroy the rest of our lives. May God's peace be with you.
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Brenda Randall posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
So very deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful young son! It is such a tragic and needless loss!! We too have lost our precious daughter Amanda Beth Randall to the demon of heroin in Aug 2014, one week after she turned 29. The loss is so shocking, the effect so profound, and unimaginable! I will say some prayers for your family's healing and peace.. May God bless and heal your pain from the loss of your precious son..
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Jessica Rock posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Thoughts and prayers with all of his family.
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Nancy quidas posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I am so sorry to hear about your loss! Your words were completely touching and very well said. I myself have a who is battling with Heroin addiction, and just a few months ago her boyfriend overdose to my house he was one of the lucky ones though I was able to perform CPR until the Medics got here. But I kept trying to show them that this is a wake-up call but there's more to life. They went to rehab the boy seems to be following the steps but my step daughter thinks she's better than. No matter how much she tried to tell her but she really needs to get clean it is truly a battle inside their own head if they don't want it they won't get it. I'm going to share the story with her and hopes that maybe it will bring some more light to her situation thank you so much for sharing this difficult time with everyone! My prayers are with you and the family!
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Carol Ables posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Thank you for sharing your family's heartbreaking story. While I did not know him, your decision to share may make the difference to some other person who is battling the demon of drug use. Prayers for all of you.
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Judy Cicora posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Vickie lowery posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
God Bless you all you have my thoughts and prayers , I thank from the bottom of heart such a warm and so real obituary, the families that are in denial need to read , such wonderful
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Robin posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Dearest family,
I can only imagine the tremendous pain you are going through. However, I can imagine it pretty clearly. Drug abuse has affected my life in so many ways. I have known many people taken so young because of drugs and their empty promises... Recently it seems that everywhere I turn, I see it. In my own children, the men I have loved, and countless friends and people I've never met. So young, so beautiful and taken way too soon. You don't know me, and I did not know Shawn. I found Shawn's obituary circulating on Facebook, but it touched home with me and I just want you to know that there are others that have felt this pain and you aren't alone. I wish you peace and comfort today... and every day. I wish your family healing from God and the hope for a better future for you and all those affected by the horrible disease of addiction. Remember that God's love and comfort is with you, as are my prayers and thoughts.. With deepest sympathy, Robin
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Carla Johnson posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Wow! So sorry for your loss. I came across Shawn's obituary on FB. The message about drug addiction is so powerful! Writing this message in his obituary was extremely brave and a message ordained by God! I pray that someone's life will be saved by your honesty. Thank you for being so transparent during your time of grief! May Shawn rest in peace!
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Janet posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
You don't know me, but I am very sorry for your loss. As a family you were very brave to print that obituary. In case you are not aware there is help available to you, the family. I lost my husband to alcohol, he is still alive, but not the same man I married 42 years ago. Please seek out alanon or another program of that type. They deal with dealing with addiction of any kinds of loved ones. It has saved my life. Again I'm sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry for your loss of Shawn. I did not know him, however, he sounds like someone I would have loved to meet. I cannot imagine what you are going through; yet you were so strong to write a beautiful and eye opening memorial. I pray many learn through Shawn's and your experience. Thank you. May peace, love and light be with all of you.
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Susan Andrews posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I do not know and sadly, did not have the privilege of knowing Shawn. But his obituary so beautifully written made it to my facebook page this morning. I believe everything is for a reason. I thank God, have never battled Shawn's demons, but I have a nephew who has and is. I thank God often my nephew is still with us as he has been "lucky" and spent a few months in and out of prison because of drugs. I feel these months have spared his life. I want to thank you for being so forthcoming with Shawn's beautiful heart, soul and love of life and his darkness. My prayers and heart go out to the family. I will forever now remember a young man I never had the pleasure of knowing, and Shawn too will be in my prayers tonight. May he rest in peace in the presence of our Father and in the arms of his mother.
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Sye Morgan posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Sorry for your loss. .
May God keep his hand over all the family and comfort you.
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Robin posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
May God Bless & Comfort You. i Understand Your Pain.
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Katherine posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Deepest deepest condolences to your family. I pray that your memorial and the love you have expressed for Shawn may touch many lives. When it does, you'll not know this side of heaven; for that individual... he'll remember Shawn's story, and he will walk away and live.
May God grant you comfort during this time.
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Gerald Phillips posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Though I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Shawn and his family I'm saddened none the less. This young man, son, brother, grandson, cousin...this father had an impact far greater than the legacy of his disease. To the family, especially his child left behind I hope you find the peace you deserve and the strength to remember the smiles he gave and the memories earned. I wish Shawn could have found deliverance from his enslavement. I wish he could have broken the chains of addiction and find fulfilment in one's own self worth. I find worth in Shawn. I find worth in his story and it needs to be remembered, shared and with that his memory will continue on always. You have my deepest condolences and gratitude for being brave enough to write Shawn's story...END THE EPIDEMIC
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Debbie Harrison posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I didn't know you but felt a need to pray God to bless your soul. I knew many addicts and a few taken from this world. I'm so sad because I know you would have never left your daughter. I'm sure you would have taught her all the things daddys teach their daughters. I'm mostly sorry for your famly. I know you never meant to hurt them. Praying you are sitting with God. Praying you are with the ones gone before you. Praying your friends and family can somehow find peace and understanding to this needless death. Praying others learn from your mistakes and your death wasn't in vain. Sorry for your loss. God bless. Drugs are the devil. It almost had my kids but Thank You Jesus they are healed. I wish you had been. From a stranger with a broken heart
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Anne Nicole Pulliam posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My friend shared Shawn's obituary on FB. I read it and felt compelled to address your ability to separate the person from the addiction... I am so very sorry for your loss and I praise your sharing Shawn's story with us all. I know you're saving lives and I commend you for it. You honor him... you honor the many unknown... and I thank you. God bless you!
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i did not know him, but my heart breaks for his family and loved ones. May God Bless each and every one of them during this difficult time. My Deepest Condolences.
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R.I.P. Shawn
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Kellie Kobleski posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I dont know any of you...but none the less, I want to send my condolences on your loss. Why you may ask, we'll, the answer is simple...i myself am a recovering addict, with 10yrs sobriety under my belt each day above ground i have come to take as a blessing. My heart breaks when I see people loose the fight against drugs while fighting to take their lives back....amd in this, I want you to know my heart feels your pain and loss and with my deepest sympathies i humbly say his death will not be in vain, as with his death brings awareness for those still fighting!!!!
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Robin Ritchie posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
I did not know Shawn but I am a mother of a heroin addict. My son went to jail a few days before his 28th birthday after we had him arrested for stealing from us. It was a time that he finally decided he wanted to get clean. The judge gave him a break and sentenced him to 3 years intense probation on the condition he complete the program at TROSA (Triangle Residential Options for Substance Abusers) in Durham NC. He has been clean over 5 years now and is on staff there. I know it won't save Shawn but if any of his friends need and want help please check into it. It is a 2 year in house program (non profit) and it doesn't cost you anything to go but you have to work and learn how to live without drugs. I want to express my sympathy to your family and friends. We lost my step son in December 2013 to drugs and I can say I feel the pain you are going thru. It may sound strange to write to a family you don't know but please share the information to anyone that may need help. Website is www.trosainc.org. God bless you and your family.
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Debbie posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
My prayers are with the family ! I'm very sorry for your loss but thankful that you are making others aware that there's help out there ! I'm a detox nurse and praying others will see this and get help thank you for posting !
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Donna Lytle posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Sincerely sympathy for your loss! I could put my son's name Keith where Shawn
Is named. He died at 34 yrs, not from overdose, but from being killed by police in his hometown. He was addicted to cocaine and ran fr police every time they got after him. All because my son was an addict. So I know how you all feel.
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Lori Schmerler posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
your struggle on earth
Will be able to seize ..
Sorry to the family friends and his love ones especially his little girl
So sad How many more Children will have their Father Mothers taken from them due to this horrible disease ..
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Matt posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your lose. When I read the news that another young person had been found victim to an overdose my mind began to race. I too have felt the effect of heroins power, My best friend since 4th grade was taken from me 2 years ago after fighting this battle and two months later my big brother was taken as well . The best thing we can do is never forget, support local and national agencies that specialize in this battle. there is a stigma against methadone and suboxone clinics with addicts and people often with no familiarity to addiction, will say it's just another drug. The truth is it saves lives, it is under the control of Dr's and the chances or someone relapsing and overdoseing in a maintenance clinic are the lowest out of any other sobriety program addicts can go to. My brother was on maintence for 5 years we had him back after two years of "doing it himself" we lost him. All I wish is for people to not have to feel what your family is at this time, maybe family's and loved ones will help make there suffering loved ones not feel ashamed for trying ANYTHING to get that person they remember back from a certain death.
God bless Shawn and his family
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Quinntina posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Wow! I am so sorry for your loss! I also applaud the person who decided to tell the truth about what happened! I don't know you all, but I too have family members who are drug addicts! Addiction is a horrible disease! Again you have my condolences during this tragic time! Blessings to you all.
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Amy moertle posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So sorry for your loss. It was a brave thing to tell the truth about this young man and the horrible way heroin affected his life. I'm a nurse and see it too often. Also am a sister of a recovering addict and I pray everyday that he continues to stay clean. God bless you and keep you all safe. I will pray for your family.
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Tracy posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
As a recovering meth addict myself, 16 yrs clean, I can say that I've been in Shawn's shoes. I know how the drugs can pull you in. I was one of the fortunate ones who during a bad trip made a decision to never touch drugs again. My daughter was my life saver, at 4 yrs old she gave the strength to walk away and not look back. Unfortunately, not all addicts can do that because they have allowed the drugs to take such a strong hold on their lives and their ability to make rational decisions.
My heart breaks for his daughter and the other loving family members he left behind. No family should ever have to go through this. My cousin shared this obituary here in Utah, she had lost a son to heroin as well. This hit very close to home for her and for me. I thank you for being so honest and letting others know that this is not something to be taken lightly and I hope it touches others lives and it did mine. It was a reminder to be thankful everyday that I survived. I only wish that it was something that never had to be written.
I hope you find comfort in knowing that the author of this obituary has touched so many lives, and maybe saved some too. May you find strength within each other and the love you all share help you through this most difficult time.
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Jessica Scott posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Sending my condolences to this family. I can't imagine what you all are going through, but unfortunately heroin has no preference who it destroys. I'm watching one of my best friends go down the same path and I know one day I'm going to get the call that I've been dreading. I'm going to share your son's story if you don't mind. The epidemic here in my small town in South Carolina is frightening. There are more people doing herion than not doing it, overdoses and deaths everyday. My prayers are with you guys and that god wraps his arms around you and holds you tight!
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Monica posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I send this family my condolences in this time of need..prayers for all
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Lindsay Frye posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for this loss...Shawn always made me laugh I hope people learn from tragedies such as this.
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Phoenix posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I didn't know your love one but I respect your family's decision to be true to how his life was cut short, despite all of the other beautiful ways he lived his life & gained, your love-addiction is real & the cost is immeasurable. Your truth in your grief, may have saved countless lives. God bless your family & give you peace. Deepest Condolences,
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fran posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry to read on facebook of the loss of your loved one. We have family members who fought addiction and continue to do so. I pray for peace within your soul. And am truly sorry for your loss.
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Rhonda Rohrer posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Thank you for sharing the truth of drug addiction... what a beautiful boy...that the drug stole him from this family... I am truly sorry on many levels... love to all
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Shannon McBride posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I did not know Shawn or any of his family but, I will say some prayers for you all. One of my friends posted his obituary on Facebook so, I read it. It is so incredibly powerful and true. May the Lord wrap His arms around all of his mourning family members and friends in comfort and love. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Bennett Kistler posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss of Shawn. I did not know him but could not imagine the pain of such a young life gone to soon. I'm also a mother of addicted sons. May Shawn rip and may God be with his family thru your sorry.
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Courtney posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Thank you for being so open with Shawn's struggles. It affects many families, including mine. I have lost a cousin already, and I worry everyday about other family members and friends. Thinking of you!
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Sue Fox posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your family and friends loss. I didn't know Shawn but I have family and friends who have lost their battle w addiction. My heart goes out to you all.
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linda sewell posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Hi, my name is Linda and just want say how sorry I am for your loss of a beautiful person. I know someone who deals with the same addition. I has been the hardest thing to break. Unfortunately she is still dealing with it on and off after much counseling. My heart goes out to all of you. I pray peace come to you all. Sincerely Linda
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Michelle Flowers posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for your family for healing. Thank you for being so honest in his obituary, and hopefully it will help someone find sobriety. God bless him and your family.
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Theresa posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I've never met your son or family. My niece passed away a year ago July 5th. She committed suicide. Words can't express my heartfelt sympathy. We as people should pray this sickness ends and quits taking our kids. My prayers are with you. I'm sending my angels to help heal your hearts
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Kiryn posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for your brave tribute. There are so many families that are suffering with addiction. May happy memories fill your heart.
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Christina posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I would like to send my condolences and prayers to your family and friends during this time. I heard of this tragedy all the way in smalltown MI, where heroin is stealing lives everyday. I myself am a recovering heroin addict and this hits close to home for me and my family. Many prayers and love to you all, may God Bless you and keep you, RIP Shawn.
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Tammy A Hall posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I want to say God bless you ..Both my son's are crystal method addicts and I'm a RN but can't help my own children .I live in dread that every day that overdose call that comes into the ER will be one or both of my boys.I pray for your peace as I pray for sobriety for my boys .
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Karen Williams posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I truly feel your pain and am so sorry he is gone. I do understand a lot of what you've been through because meth took my daughter away from me. She is alive but still gone. I commend your honesty and obit. Maybe it will help someone and I think that is just what Shawn would want. My heart goes out to you all.
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Sharon Mills, Addictions Counselor posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I will pray for your family.
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Patty posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so aorry for your loss, prayers and love to your family
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Jill h posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
May you find strength and love surrounding you
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Autumn Simmons posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I did not know Shawn, however I am truly sorry for the loss of his young life. Thank you for your bravery and selflessness to share Shawn's story. Hopefully, by sharing this truth about this tragedy, it will be able to help someone else. Prayers for your family and friends.
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Carol Urquhart posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm so sorry he is gone. God bless you.
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Joanne Capner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My deepest sympathies for the loss of your dear son. I lost mine in the same fashion and it is truly heartbreaking to keep reading these stories. Peace to you and your family.
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nancy posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Beautifully written. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know my prayers are with you.
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Deb Whitlock posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son. It was very brave and I'm sure difficult to share Shawn's addiction. I have the utmost respect for your family. Shawn is now in the arms of the angels. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
I live in northern Illinois and heroin is rampant in the area. Last November there was a death a week for 3 weeks. I don't know what the answer is to end the terrible tragedies that come from drug addiction and alcoholism. God bless you and your family. Shawn may you rest in peace and be your daughter's guardian angel.
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Shirley Moran posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So very sorry for the loss of your beloved Shawn. Praying the Lord, gives you comfort, strength and peace.
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Linda Rhiner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My son is a recovering addict but struggling still. I pray for your boy to rest in peace and I pray for your family.
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Linda Rhiner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My son is a recovering addict but struggling still. I pray for your boy to rest in peace and I pray for your family.
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Chan. Welsh posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. This cannot be easy for you. However, I applaud your selflessness in sharing your loved one's story. As I have happened across this obituary hundreds of miles away, others will find it and be motivated as well. Be encouraged your loved one's flame will light the path for others.
Thank you.
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Sonya posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I don't know you all but I understand your families pain.
Thank you for honoring his life in the good and being honest about the lie.
I hope you find support from Alanon or another source so you are able to move forward and find peace in your insanity like I did.
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Linn Kovacsiss posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am very sorry for your heart breaking loss of such a fine young man who was gone far too soon. May God bless all of you & give you comfort in your sorrow. May Shawn rest in peace.
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Sheri LaVigne posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My heart goes out to your family and friends,You will be in my thoughts and prayers, I appreciate the way you shared how his life was cut short by Herion ,My Son is 27 and hes O.D. 4 times that i know of so this very well could of been my Son thats in Rehab now for the second .Iam on the board of a support group for addicts and there family, I so know how hard this is for you all ,If there's anything we can do for you please just add us on Facebook ( Halo Lenawee ) And Another Man with good information is Tim Ryan From Dope to Hope he was a guest speaker here in our town at the College, Again iam so sorry for your tremendous loss :(
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Sheri LaVigne posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My heart goes out to your family and friends,You will be in my thoughts and prayers, I appreciate the way you shared how his life was cut short by Herion ,My Son is 27 and hes O.D. 4 times that i know of so this very well could of been my Son thats in Rehab now for the second .Iam on the board of a support group for addicts and there family, I so know how hard this is for you all ,If there's anything we can do for you please just add us on Facebook ( Halo Lenawee ) And Another Man with good information is Tim Ryan From Dope to Hope he was a guest speaker here in our town at the College, Again iam so sorry for your tremendous loss :(
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Thomasina Stathopoulos posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So very sorry for your loss..I lost my nephew to this disease also.... PRAYERS SENT
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Jill posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm sorry for your loss. This is the first obituary I've read that reaches out to save others. This will be his legacy. You shohld be proud of this act. He sounds Like an amazing man. Again I'm sorry for you and your family's loss. Sending you prayers.
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M.R.Chludzinski posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry to read this. There are no words to comfort you now I am sure. Prayers for your hearts pain. I'm forwarding this in hopes someone out there will maybe learn from this heartbreak and avoid this. Very sincerely
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Melissa Brown posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So sorry for the loss of your loved one, I am an avid believer that something good will come out of this tragic loss, I have friends and family that are addicts and this truthful obituary was shared on facebook by a friend, I am going to share also and hope and pray that someone some where will read this and change their ways. I pray for every family member, friend any and everyone his life has touched, please know there are people all over the world praying and sending love.
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Diane Grose posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
R.I.P. In God's loving embrace & may God's perpetual light & love shine upon you & your loved lines forever❣
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Libby posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I am part of a nonprofit in Tucson Arizona that helps drug attic's move forward and put their lives together by providing housing food and support. I see the effects of heroin on a daily basis . We receive calls from family is looking for Family members in hopes of finding them before Halloween or other drugs take their life. The use of heroin has increased so much and I agree that the effects are so devastating.
I have seen the lasting effects of children born drug addicted with all their medical needs And disabilities more in the last 10 years and than ever before.
I'm so sorry that your family and friends had to suffer through this. My prayers are with you.
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Bridget Corey Whitley posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Infinite love & gratitude,
To you and for you,
To Shawn Michael Carter
and for Shawn Michael Carter.
Infinite love & gratitude,
To All and for All.
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Amber Schairer posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am very sorry for your loss,I did not know Shawn,someone I know shared this on face book.I wanted to say thankyou for sharing your story of what heroin does to good loving people.There is a crises in the U.S and if more family's like you put the reason why these good kids pass,maybe it can help a addict.To show how real it is.That death can take anyone that is using drugs.My prayers are your family.God bless
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Molly posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Bless your family always. May this help one person you did right putting it out there. Forever against the deadliest disease.
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Karol Wells posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My heart goes out to Shawn's family. I volunteer at a local hospital in Lima, Ohio, and we see cases like this too oftern. I wish this horrible drug would just go away & never come back. We're losing way too many of our precious family members & friends. May God bless Shawn's family at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Del & Karol Wells
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Donna Carroll posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Sorry for Ur loss of a wonderful Person.....Peace Shawn ......May U help others -♡
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Barbara largent posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
You don't know me. That was and is a beautiful obituary. Sorry for your loss. Thank you for the words of encouragement for other drug uses(plenty in my family)
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Melanie Binz posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
May you find peace and comfort during this time. Shawn will be remembered for his courage never to be forgotten. He is with Sam Binz now and the two will share their afterlife together and be our angels forever. Let them fly high and do their work together. God has them now in all His glory.
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Susan LaSpina posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Thank you for sharing your loss and the lesson within Shawn's story to the world. It was a brave and, I am sure, difficult thing to do. We all need reminders from time to time. Each one lost as he was is still someone's son, sibling, spouse or friend - not "just another junkie." If one person reads this and heeds the call to seek help before it is too late, it will be a blessing to countless others. May you find solace in that. May God Bless you, keep you and help you through this. PEACE be with you.
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Heather Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
To the family and friends of Shawn Michael Carter,
I, too, lost my son to the terrible disease on May 1, 2016. He was just 1 week shy of his 23rd birthday. I can't begin to tell you how brave and strong you are to have publicly admitted that your son was an addict.
To his mother...my heart breaks for you!! Please know that he is not struggling anymore. He is safe, healthy and finally at peace. Also, you are not alone. Unfortunately, you are now a member of a club that is continuously growing. Please feel free to contact me via email at any time.
All my love, sympathies, and prayers!!!
Heather
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Cris Frantz posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
To Everyone Who Loved & Cherished Shawn,
I know you don't know me but your loved ones obituary has reached us here in Pennsylvania.
First I would like to say I am so truly sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine the pain and heartache you all are feeling. May God watch over you all and comfort your hearts so you may begin to heal from such a tragedy. Keep all the good memories you shared with your handsome Shawn, let them wrap around your heart and overpower the grief and turmoil of what this horrible drug took from you.
I admire your strength and courage for being so open as to what took his life. Heroin use is on the rise everywhere, here close to my hometown it's being used like candy and it's frightening to know a person can gain access so easily. If your openness of Shawn's death saves one life, what a wonderful blessing that would be.
I needed to let you know how brave I think your family is and my thoughts and my prayers are with you all as you go this this very difficult loss.
May God give you all the strength you need to move forward and heal from this.
Continue to be a voice against this vicious drug and how it takes away. Your words have truly touched many in our area and the world needs more advocates against drug use like you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Cris Frantz
Windsor, Pennsylvania
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Flossie posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss . Our family lost a big hearted father and son of my sister to this horrible addiction ! I know this devastates family and friends ! God Bless your son and all of your family.
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So sorry for your loss,May God wrap his loving arms around you and give you peace and comfort knowing that your love one is no longer hurting and no longer in pain .God bless you and your family . I do not know any of the family and I have never heard of anyone that knows any of them , I saw this on Facebook . My heart goes out to you all this is a terrible thing that happened to your love one and to you all . Amy Smith from Gordon GA !
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Stephanie Napier posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I have you all in my prayers I didn't know Shawn but I too was a addict so I know your pain as I have caused it to my family please believe he did not do this to cause you pain it takes control of your complete being.i will pray you find some peace and know he is no longer in pain with all my love may God guide you through the pain you are going through.
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Teresa M.Newsom posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry about Shawn's death. I know your family is hurting, as you have for many years during his addiction. I have three recovering addicts in my immediate family and the years have been one struggle after another. I cried while reading Shawn's obituary. It is heartbreaking. I pray for God's peace for your family and His grace to touch your lives in the days ahead.
Sincerely and God bless you, Teresa
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Jeff Dubiel9bFeO posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Any loss is a big loss to those who knew him?
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Holly Luther posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I do not know you or your family. However, I am compelled to write something out of respect, not only for your son, but for your brave decision to share his journey that led to addiction. I have seen many friends lose everything, most important - their children. I have spoken out in desperation to try and help, but realized the decision is only theirs. Now, I have to tell you my story. After the hatred I had for this drug, I did the unthinkable! Our of desperation, after dealing wuth a 10 yr abusive relationship, I ran into someone I know used. I didn't know about what it looked like or how to do it. He did it for me and I overdosed. Luckily I was revived in the ambulancs. I am now going thru treatment, domestic violence counseling and everything asked of me, not cuz they asked, but cuz i want and need to. Why? Because I lost my beautiful, living 8 yr old daughter. She is now with my sister. We have faith and my daughter lives God and had so much intuitive and is beyond her yrs in many ways. I have to believe now that it happened for a reason. He is out of the picture. When my daughter and I reunite - I will be happy and healthy in mind, body and soul. I owe that to her. She had told me right prior to this, " Stick up for yourself, Mommy". How sweet those words mean now. God knows that had I not physically "died" , would I ever have done it again? I am ashamed of my choice and judgement, but learned my lesson the hard way - I was one of the lucky ones. Thank you for bringing what now has become an epidemic. I am going to share this hoping that your son's legacy will be to save the lives of many people and bring the needed attention that everyone needs to hear. My heart sincerely goes out to your family as you mourn his loss. God Bless You! Thank you so much for Your bravery in sharing this incredibly moving and personal story. With Love, Holly Luther
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May God bless each of you with peace. Love and prayers from Charlotte, NC
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Brenda ROGERS posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss .Shawn's story sounds so much like my grandson's Josh .He was found in a motel room from an overdose of herion in May ,he too lost his daughter ,a place to live and burned all his bridges .He had been clean for over 2 yrs and came out for 6 mos and happened to go to a Er for stomach pains and they gave him opiates for pain which just stirred up his need for more .We too had all the regrets if we had only done things differently ,i still do .My thoughts and prayers will be with you as my grief is still new .God bless you and give you peace .Thank you for letting other people know .Shawn is with Jesus now in peace and healed by the blood of the lamb. In Jesus Name
Brenda Rogers
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Debbie in San Antonio TX posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I admire that you shared Shawn's story to help other addicts before it's too late. My 23 year old son is an addict & he has been clean almost a year. He is facing 12 years in prison though. It is so sad that heroin is taking & ruining so many lives in our country. We need to speak up & do all we can to stop this epidemic. Thank you for doing what you can. I will pray for your family's recovery from this devastating loss. God bless you.
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MURIEL MAY posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My Son too is an addict. I pray for you and all who are suffering. May God send you many needed blessings.
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Carrie Anne N. posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Saw this on FB and just wanted to say how sorry I am. I did not know him, but I know the struggle and how hard it for ALL involved. God bless you and yours throughout this difficult time.
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Elaine Jewart posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction is an insidious attack on our families and loved ones. Thank you for having the courage to bring his story to light. He sounds like a wonderful young man. May his soul rest in peace and may you find comfort in your family.
Sincerely,
Elaine Jewart
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Gannon Ezell Seago posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know your son/family member. But I could be him. I'm in recovery and doing well but there was a time not long ago where my family was wondering if they were going to be laying me to rest. So I will think of your son/family member and the many loved ones that have lost their battle to this monster the next time I'm wanting to get fucked up. So just know that he will be saving a life even if it wasn't his own.
God bless you,
Gannon
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another good angel lost to heaven
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mary brandis posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
im so sorry for your loss
may healing hands touch youand yourfamily in this time of need....
godbless you all
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Barbie Lambright posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My heart hurts for you right now and as hard as it is Shawn is at peace, no more pain, no more troubles. We miss our loved ones so much, but we have that promise of seeing them again and I believe it will be soon. I pray God comforts you and wraps his loving arms around you.
A mother of a recovering heroin addict ((disease)) who also overdosed but God wasn't ready for her yet. We have to continue to pray and teach ourselves about this terrible disease.
In Christ Love
Barbie Lambright Ohio
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Pam McCoy posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Thank you so much for publicly making a statement about addiction through this young man's obituary. Too many families are hiding the affects of heroin addiction.
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Kelly french posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So so sorry, thank you for writing the truth..Awareness Awakens , I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Deborah posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Beautifully said, that could be any of our family members. Praying for comfort for you all
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Roberta Rhodes posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My condolences on this tragic loss. Lost.one child to.an overdose after over a year of being clean. Another one is in recovery. This drug takes far too many of our loved ones. I applaud your honesty and hope that.by sharing this your young man may provide those.using with a reason to seek out treatment. May the peace only God can give help you through this.most difficult time.
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BETTY MINSKE posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
SO SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. TRULY HEARTBREAKING, AND WISHING YOU GODS LOVE AND BLESSINGS AS YOU ALL TRAVEL THROUGH THIS JOURNEY.
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Jennifer posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My deepest condolences for your loss. This is a heart breaking truth that many have lost or is struggling with addiction. Thank you for sharing your story, and hopefully from this tragedy a life is changed for the good.
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Gin Owens posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
A friend shared this on Facebook. I don't know your family but I am very sorry that heroin took Shawn away and your pain is beyond anything you could ever imagine. I do want to let you know how brave all of your are to share this story in his obituary. How it WILL help someone and thank you for being able to do this for that someone. Praying for all that knew him. God Bless.
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sharta posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I must say that this was the most beautiful genuine thing i have ever read and that i didnt know shawn but he must have been amazing. The fact that you guys cared enough to tell his story of life and show your absolute unconditional love for him says a million words. I too am an addict I am currently in recovery an dhave been for a few years I struggle everyday and am blessed to have family like you. my goal in life today is to be the best person I can I am a mother , a sister , a daughter , an aunt a girfriend I also am compelled to help as many people as I can. I just wanted you to know I am sorry for your lose but it is people like you that are not ashamed of who we (shawn and myself ) are that make the difference and if we together can help just ONE OTHER PERSON WIN THIS BATTLE ..............THEN MY FRIEND .... WE WIN AND OUR LOSES ARE NOT IN VAIN .........GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND GOD BLESS SHAWN ...GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN !!! THANKYOU
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Karen Robinson posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so very sorry for the loss of such a wonderful young man. It sounds like Sean was loved very much but unfortunately plagued by today's horrible epidemic. Sean sounds a lot like my brother who I lost to the same disease. My heart hurts for your family and all who loved him. Love and prayers for you all.
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Lynette Schultz posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So sorry to hear of your loss. Shawn's story is heartbreaking. I'm sending hugs and prayers to the family and hope that all who read Shawn's story will find strength. I wish this had never happened but I hope you can find strength in the pleasant memories and the peace that Shawn has found. So sorry.
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Amy Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your pain and the loss of Shawn. It is especially heartbreaking when a death that could have been prevented, wasn't able to be despite all your love and I'm certain, best efforts. You are instead left with an ending to a story that could have and should have been so different. May Shawn find now the peace he was so desperately seeking in his soul in life and may all his loved ones find comfort in the happy times they shared with him.
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Stacy Eddy posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Prayers for family and friends. . Im from Ohio and came across this on Facebook. . .I'm an addict who has been clean 1 year and 1 month and 2 days. I'm a mother of 5 children. .a wife. .a daughter. .a sister. .but what defined me was being addict!!!. . .My small town of Cambridge we have a epdimic here as well my classmates friends many are dying. Not a week goes by that someone I know/knew has past from overdose. Most are left to be kept quiet no one speaks of the cause of death. I find this so moving and honest because you took his last words and turned it into a message. Hoping to save even one life who reads this. Such stigma n shame has surrounded this disease that most blame the user "it's their choice" not knowing yes it maybe a "choice" but one made for some by doctors others thru pain . . .we need to lift the shame and this is what u have boldly done . I pray for ur comfort and to find peace in his memories while god embraces your family!! Know your message is spreading and because of this he did not die in vain!!!! MUCH LOVE . From Cambridge Ohio!!!!
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Natashia posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Sorry for your lost. There's a fight to fight in order to save loved ones from this horrible disease. Prayers to you all. Idk any of you, but I can imagine how it has affected everyone. It's hard to take the good from bad, but get his story out there. It might help others. Peace to you all. Natashia gambrilk
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Ellen posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My condolences I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story about how your son died. I hope you can help somebody. I shared your story with my children (16, 15, 11, 11)
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Marlaina Pertile posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Keeping Shawn, his family and friends in my prayers.
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Dianne Harrison posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My deepest condolences go out to you and your family. I pray that the love of God and the good memories of Shawn carry you through this difficult time.
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Rae Keefer posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My prayers are for your family this morning. I do not know you personally but we are kindred spirits in that my son too has an addiction to prescribed medicine and who knows what else. Thanks for sharing your grief and pain. It cannot be an easy thing to do. But , your words do help me remember that addiction is an illness that the whole family must fight. God bless you and your efforts to make a difference
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Cheryl Post posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
May your family be blessed forever by speaking the truth and reaching out to other addicts. This was the most beautifully written and sincere obituary I have ever read. May Shawn find eternal peace, love and happiness with our Lord in heaven.
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Carole Roper posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I understand how drugs will take your life. I lost my son 9 yrs. ago to suicide because of a drug habit. I lost my step son 6 yrs ago to a drug habit. It is devastating to the family. Two young lives lost. God be with this family and all who have to suffer because of it.
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Ronda Ramey posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am sorry for your loss. My prayers for your family
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Genie Marchese posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So very sorry for your loss. So sad when such a beautiful soul gets tricked by this terrible drug. I lost my brother to a drug overdose. Thank you for sharing, you may save someone else. May your Angel Shawn always watch over you all and inspire with all the great things he was. God Bless all those left behind and may God watch over and comfort you all.
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Donna posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My deepest sympathies and prayers for your whole family. I too just lost a son to heroin and it's been a very difficult time making sense of everything. I pray that you find strength and focus on his life, not his death. Thank you for sending a message and encouraging people to get help.
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Kerrie b posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
As an addict in recovery it hurts me so to see these obits..I'm so sorry for your broken heart ...I pray comfort and some type of peace for you!
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Bonnie posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
This has reached me in nottingham, England. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope that this story can save a life. And that his death was not in vain.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God bless each of you and give you the strength to move forward in life knowing that Shawn isn't suffering from addiction anymore. Peace be with you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have been on both sides of addiction and loss people I loved.
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Christine Hawks posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know there isn't words to describe what you are going through. If there is anything the public can do to fight this battle against this addiction.
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LuAnn B posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Thoughts and prayers to Shawn's family and friends, as you grieve this young man's loss... to lose someone so young and vibrant is hard enough, but in such a difficult way is even worse. My prayers for you are for peace in your hearts and minds, and comfort that he is no longer a "prisoner" to this substance, and is "whole" again... and that you remember and cherish the good times and the love shared with Shawn. Thinking of you all (even without knowing you).
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John Steiner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
So very sorry for the loss of Shawn! ❤️❤️❤️
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Anita Anderson posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Thank you for sharing. I did not know him but the message was needed for so many.
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Jami Bryant posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. I like so many others have either lost someone or dealt with someone with addiction and it's not pretty and if you can help just one more person by speaking out in this obituary like you did and that's one more life saved against this awful battle. thank you and again I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Maggie posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Please dear Lord be with this young mans soul....please be with his precious child and give her and the rest of his family and friends comfort at this devastating time...in Jesus name Amen
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Betsy R Conner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My sincere sympathy & prayers for the family and friends. Such a tremendous message for us all. God give you continued strength.
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Jonathan Barnes posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I hope that you are able to find the peace that so eluded you in this world. Imagine if life were easy and painless, we would never have turned to drugs for a way to cope. You are a victim of our society and it's unrealistic expectations. We are judged by people that have no authority to do so. There is a place better than this and you will never have to know the pain and suffering from the world again. Instead of crying we should be celebrating your journey to the Promised Land. Rest easy brother.
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Cathie Baker posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Wow!! I want to commend you on the strength it took to write this final tribute to your loved one. I don't know him or anyone in your family but you know me. Well not me personally but my story, as I am a recovering addict. While my DOC (drug of choice) was not the same the basic promises from my DOC were. I think if more people were to share the true reasons for the loss of their loved ones it would help to shed a spotlight on the end result in the life of an addict and possibly save lives. I can only hope to continue my sobriety in an effort to keep my family from having to place a final tribute to my life such as this one and will share this with everyone that I can in an effort to save others. Maybe by sharing this, it can possibly bring new meaning to your loss and help another family from suffering the same loss!! My thoughts are with you at this time and in your future days while you find the best way to cope. Godspeed
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DAWN TUCKER posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
For years I watched my only son struggle with opiate addiction. I sat with him in the hospital emergency room over and over too may times to count when he would go into withdrawal. I lived in fear that he would over dose or his heart would stop during a detox attempt. I watched his life fall apart again and again and again.
I understand what your family has gone through. I understand your struggles to find ways to cope, ways to help, ways to keep going.
I got lucky they started a program here in my town and he was one of the first in it. He has been off street drugs for three years now. I am so grateful.
Here in my town we are loosing about one person a month to opiates.
I have taken your son's memorial and sent it on. It says so many things so perfectly. It will inspire others to get help.
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sheena posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so very sorry for yalls loss i will be praying for the family and friends of Shawn!
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Hope Matteson posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My heart aches for family & friends who are impacted by this. No one intentionally overdoses, and no one chooses to be an addict. Addictiction is a disease. I'm saddened to hear that Shawn has been labeled an "addict". "What makes your addictiction for the love of money, or the love clothes, or the love chocolate, or the love of cake, whatever your addiction is any better than the next?"Please remember that next time while trying to place labels on beautiful souls." My prayers and thoughts go out to his family & friend's. May the angels know what they have. God Bless!
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Mary Benko posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Please accept my family's most sincere condolences on the loss of your dear loved one. We only too well know the suffering your family has to endure, and the sad story of the battles against this addiction. Remember the boy at heart, the happy times shared, and the love that will never cease , Love never dies. He will be with you all in spirit, doing in Heaven what he was unable to achieve here in this life. Our hearts go out to you all, and pray you find some ccomfort knowing he is at last at peace. We are so sorry for your loss. God Bless
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Sandee Payne posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I looked at the face of this beautiful young man & felt instant heartache that he passed way too soon. Thank you for such truthful & honest words of his addiction. I will keep you all in my thoughts & prayers. I think the best tribute to his life, his memory is to share his story in order to help someone else.. God bless you!!
That bad thing doesn't have him anymore, he's flying high in heaven & in my mind he's fishing!!
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Emily posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I'm so sorry for the loss of such an important piece of your hearts. I know these words are just that, words from a stranger in another state but understand that this story is becoming to common to so many people. I hope you understand that my words are true and I hope his precious baby sees the true person he was not the addiction that takes over. I am in recovery and my children are my world and I am so happy to not have to look back, but I don't sympathize and have so much empathy for the poor parents that have to say good bye to their loved ones from heroine. I send you all my love.
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Wendelin ringel posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
My deepest sympathies at this sad time I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know him but Shawn looked like a great guy
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Ashley Turner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I want to let u all know you r in my prayers, I myself was in an 15 year addiction (meth) it was and is a daily struggle for me but I am clean and sober now. I lost my very best friend to there addiction. Which hit me like a ton of bricks and helped me get clean. So from Alabama I'll keep u and yours in my thoughts and prayers.. RIP Shawn
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Ashley Turner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I want to let u all know you r in my prayers, I myself was in an 15 year addiction (meth) it was and is a daily struggle for me but I am clean and sober now. I lost my very best friend to there addiction. Which hit me like a ton of bricks and helped me get clean. So from Alabama I'll keep u and yours in my thoughts and prayers.. RIP Shawn
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katherine chase posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers! Thank you for this message!
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Bodine posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for his family.
This is the best story I have ever seen for someone's obit. I pray that it will reach many. I wish he had been able to accept help and get well. Addiction is a disease and very few get through, I can only hope that more is done to help rehabilitate and saved these precious family members. God keep you all close and help you heal.
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Amy posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I have seen so much of this in the last few years and I commend the courage of your family at this terrible time for speaking out against drug use. And trying to help other be aware. I know personally the devastation that addiction brings to a family and that there is no part of the family unit that it doesn't reach in it's destruction.
My prayers are with y'all.
Much love and prayers for peace and courage at this time.
God bless.
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Kimberly posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So very sorry for your loss my prayers and deepest condolences. There is way too many of these senseless deaths.
Kim LaBarbera, RN
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Cindy Harry posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss! Heroine is just about as evil as it gets and I'm sure watching you son,father ,husband lose his life to it was an awful thing to go through! My heart ,thoughts and prayers go out to all! I pray this young man is at peace now!
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Virginia Rucker posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
God saw his struggle and pain and decided to take the pain away. He is at rest. RIP Shawn
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Ann Churchey posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I have no words of comfort to give for family other then just know that I'm a correctional officer that works for the Wash. Co. Detention Center and I'm off on stress leave right now going through some very difficult family issues of my own and just know that I'm praying that God will give you the comfort and strenth that you will need to make it through this most difficult time in your lives and may God watch over the little girl that I know he loved so much but the drugs took over and he didn't servive the terrible fight ! I have seen too much of this and it is awfully hard on the family and friends of the person who get addicted to the demons that they put in theyre bodies ... I pray that one person gets help from the demons they are facing and what wonderful obituary wrote on his behalf ! I will continue to pray for each and every inmate or should I say human being as I see them because I realize in the postion that I have taken in the past 19 plus years not all of my co workers do the same nor do adminstraters... Life is to short to treat people in such a way that you would not want to be treated yourself even if you have made a or a few mistakes ... May God watch over YOU !!!!
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Ann Churchey posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I have no words of comfort to give for family other then just know that I'm a correctional officer that works for the Wash. Co. Detention Center and I'm off on stress leave right now going through some very difficult family issues of my own and just know that I'm praying that God will give you the comfort and strenth that you will need to make it through this most difficult time in your lives and may God watch over the little girl that I know he loved so much but the drugs took over and he didn't servive the terrible fight ! I have seen too much of this and it is awfully hard on the family and friends of the person who get addicted to the demons that they put in theyre bodies ... I pray that one person gets help from the demons they are facing and what wonderful obituary wrote on his behalf ! I will continue to pray for each and every inmate or should I say human being as I see them because I realize in the postion that I have taken in the past 19 plus years not all of my co workers do the same nor do adminstraters... Life is to short to treat people in such a way that you would not want to be treated yourself even if you have made a or a few mistakes ... May God watch over YOU !!!!
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Alicia Rudd posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I do not know any of you, and I didn't know Shawn but my heart goes out to you. I seen his obituary on FB and I had to let you know how sorry I am. I hope someone somewhere reads his very honest obituary and gets the help they need. I'm sure you have changed someone's life by sharing your sons/loved ones struggle. Again I am very sorry
With love from Delaware, Ohio,
Alicia
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Marinemom posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I do not know who this person I see but, I work in the Mental Health Field. And see addictions daily, it is sad but tru that these great soles do feel there is nothing else but drugs to help ease their pain I give the family my condolences and pray this DOES help someone by reading ...May he RIP....And I pray the family will heal as well from this.
MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES
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Fenicia posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I just read this on FB... and I dont know your son but his obit touched me. I praying for peace and comfort in the Lord during your time of need. God bless your family. Fenicia
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Michelle Carr posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am sending many prayers to you and your family. We just lost our youngest son to suicide this past Tuesday. Trying to make sence of it all is impossible, but know that relying on God will help bring some peace. We are happy to talk with you anytime you need. Having family friends and faith will help you all thru this time.
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Michele Gray posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for the loss of your love one. I only know the pain of seeing what drugs can do to the ones you love and care about more than anything because I have two brothers and a nephew that is got a drug problem and I am so scared of getting that call one day that something has happened to one of them. My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of Shawn's love ones and friends.
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Monday, October 10, 2016
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RIP! So very sorry for you loss!!!
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Bill and Linda Gordley posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
As parents we are heartbroken for you. May God bless you in ways that will comfort you in the days ahead without him. So sorry.
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Robin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My prayers are with you. Your courage is commendable beyond belief. I know it will touch someone's heart.
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Deb Carter Burwell posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Your tribute to him is lovely. Addiction has no boundaries. It strikes all walks of live. Prayers for all of your family. Hope you can find peace and as a parent of an addicted child I know you did all you could to try and help him. But the addiction is just too powerful.. you are all added to my prayers and hope your post will help someone in their journey to know that help is available..
Deb Carter Burwell
Small town in Illinois
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Lois Jones posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for sharing his story if you can reach one person it was well worth telling. I wish there was something I could say are do for you at this most heart breaking time in your life. But the only thing I can do for a family I don't know is send up a prayer.
Lord I ask you to please give this family a touch from your nail scared hands they have a pain that that no words can heal for the loss of their loved one. Lord help them understand and and to help them explain this to his daughter some day. Give them rest and assurance that you are there. Amen.
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Karen Rednour posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know your family but your son's obituary was shared on Facebook. My heart goes out to you all. This addiction is a terrible thing. My 25 yo daughter has lost several good friends and more people that she grew up with to this terrible problem. I see the heartache as I've attended way too many funerals this past year because of it. Thank you for speaking out while grieving your loss. My prayers are with your family during this tragic loss.
Karen Rednour
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Rodney smith posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sorry to hear of your loss prayers for the family drugs has cost me a lot your story has opened my eyes
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Nyna Fleury posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry this has happened, I just put my daughter in rehabilitation this morning. I hurt for you all
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Marcia Rowe-Smalt posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart breaks for you. My family has also been turned upside down with the death of one nephew and the incarceration of another in the name of heroin. God Bless you all as you heal. Thank You for bearing your soul. Addiction needs to rear its head publicly. Being treated like a dirty secret prevents one from seeking help.
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Kali Dutenhoeffer posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart goes out to the family , thank you for his obituary , 17 days clean off meth and Thur your pain I learn . Heart breaking best wishes
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Dennis pitts posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm sorry to hear of your lose. I lost a family member to drugs and have a brother that is bad now. But this obituary was the greatest I ever read and I hope people who is an addict really feel what you guys have written and that Mr Shawn Carter will live through recovery addict's my God bless his soul n his family.
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pat rushing posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My hearts for this family,i would not wish this on anyone,I pray that you find peace and know you did nothing wrong,so sorry for your loss,I have been there and I know how you feel,
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Melissa Stallard posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart breaks for all of his family. Praying God will give you the strength and comfort that only He can give.
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Shelly Byrne posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry. This is so painful.My heart goes out to you and you try to make sense of it all. Much love to you in this time of heart break.
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Scott wilson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sorry for your loss. I didn't know him but it's a great loss to lose a father,a son, and a dad
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Mary Craker posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
This is so sad,im going through this fight with my niece.I have custody of her 2 girls,and she's not even seen them for months at a time.I worry for that phone call in middle night,where she be just like this..PRAYERS FOR THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS!!!! GOD WATCH OVER ALL ADDICTED PEOPLE,PLEASE TAKE THAT DEMON OUT EACH OF THEM ALL..IN JESUS NAME,AMEN
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Gina U. posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heartfelt thoughts and prayers to all of your family and friends. I have 7 years of sobriety with 100% Help from my higher power"God" one day at a time. I pray that you can all celebrate his life and know he is no longer Suffering in his addiction. This is a horrible disease that wants us all. I pray that God has his arms around each of you.
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Kim Shearin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
R.I.P. Shawn i feel for hiscfamily an friends most of all his daughter my son is an herion addict as well hes 23 in prison an has a son 3 yrs old i hate hes thete but in all honesty im glad hes there bx i can sleep an function knowing hes alive one of my biggest fears is him getting out overdosing he lost his aunt to this drug as well the love of his life i just hope he comes home an continues to be clean an sober so sorry for yalls loss trulywish this outcome wouldve been different!! God bless us all
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Ericka posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for sharing your sons obit.
It's horrifying that our country faces this epidemic that no one talks about.
I'm aware this is happening, but fortunately know nobody it is happening to. I'm just a huge heart with my own trials and I feel grateful that others can share theirs openly.
Peace to you and your family during a most difficult time in your lives.
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Sharon posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heartfelt condolences in your loss of a son,brother,father,partner. I too lost my son at age 34 by accidental overdose. He had lots of pain and thought chewing 100 mil grams of a fentenyl patch that it would take away his pain. Instead it took his life. He left 4 children. I too share his story in hopes of saving at least 1 life. God Bless you all.
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K posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I don't know you or your loved one however I see on a daily basis the traumatizing effects heroin and other drugs are having on families. My heart goes out to you for your loss, my respect goes to you for your heart wrenching honesty - may you find peace and Shawn rest easy.
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Emily Lumpkins posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I myself am I recovering addict. I am one of the few that took my life back. I do not know y'all someone on my Facebook shared the obituary. I am terribly sorry for yalls loss but I pray someone's life is saved by reading what y'all chose to put in the obituary. My prayers are with y'all and his baby girl!!
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Lisa peloquin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart truly breaks for you. I will pray for you and your family to find comfort during this time .
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Kathy Davis posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my son Sept.8, 2016 from the same thing.My God have mercy on their souls.
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Amy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Bless you and your family. Thank you for the gift you have undoubtedly given to others by your honesty. Rest in peace to your son, brother, father, nephew and friend.
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Krissy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Very sorry for your loss! Addiction is such a terrible thing! May the lord bring you peace and comfort! I don't know you, but have a young addicted teen. I pray for us all daily! Big hugs!
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Debbie Ranier posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Shawn. I too lost someone to heroin a month ago. My cousin Gregory was a couple months shy of his 28th birthday. He had been clean for 14 months. We are beyond devastated but know he is now free. There are no words to express the emptiness even when you are surrounded by many loved ones left behind. I pray the Holy Spirit will give peace to all who loved him. ❤️
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Pat Patterson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Your loved one will touch so many people that none of you know. Thank you for providing such a heart-felt, beautifully worded tribute. I have lost too many loved ones to alcohol addiction that they could not overcome. The pain is great. My deepest condolences to everyone that feels the pain of his passing way too soon.
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Rest in peace and with God's grace take you wings. My condolences to the family
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Weslie McKnight Littrell formerly of Heath OH posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I want the family of Mr. Carter to know my thoughts and Prayers are with you at this very deep and dark time. I hope for the best for his daughter and his family and may God keep them close in the palm of his hands. My deepest Condolences from the McKnight family of My late father Selden W McKnight SR., his wife VI Mcknight and Weslie and Kyle McKnight formerly from Heath OH and Alumni Bulldogs of Heath High School classes 1981 and 1984. So Sorry.
The McKnight Family
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No longer an addict...your body is cleansed and whole again.
REST IN PEACE SHAWN
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Ashley p posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I didn't know shawn but I am all to familiar with his story ..drug addiction took my brothers life at the young age of 33 and almost took mine ..I have been clean almost 5 yrs now thanks to God's saving grace ..my thoughts and prayers are with your family right now during such a hard hard time ..I pray u guys can just rest in the arms of the Lord !!
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Lisa Turek posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I can relate to the pain of a family member with an addiction. My nephew is a heroin addict and I lost my dad due to alcoholism. Thank you for sharing your story. If it reaches only one it will be a Gid send. Prayers to your family.
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Lisa peppler posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry to hear this, my heart goes out to your family. My son is an addict and luckily he was sent to prison and later boot camp which saved his life. This drug unfortunately is everywhere and is taking so many young lives which is so very very sad. Please know you all are in my thoughts and prayers, hugs and love...
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Joleen posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I was once told that a person doesnt take heroin, it takes them. Thank you for sharing Shawn's story and spreading awareness of this horrible drug. May peace be with all those who knew him.
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katherine carlyle posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am the mother of a heroin addict & I love him tons. He has a serious disease, the only disease that has shame attached to it. These beloveds are sick and unless they agree, cannot receive help .... they have to be willing. In the meantime, there is a place for me to go where I can get help to deal with the sorrow of such illness. This place is al-anon, and while it cannot do anything to help my son, it is a place where I can find the love, care, understanding and the support I need to deal with this disease. Our beloved addicts have an illness, but so do we and there IS recovery! I wish you your family lots of love and hope that, as you heal, you will discover all the gifts this life can give. Blessings to you all.
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Robin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry, way too many passing way too younge. Please understand I grieve with you for all that could have been and understand no single person can prevent this! Yes our family has been struck many times by this most evil issue!! Step up help others, we love those who have been lost and will fight to help even one!!! Love and prayers are with you and your families.
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Sharon Holloway posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Such a great obituary. The best and worst of a life. My heart goes out to the family and daughter who will never have the time deserved with her father. Prayers for ALL
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Pat posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I lost our son, Michael, on Sunday, September 18th, also to a heroin overdose. I'm still in total shock and cannot believe he is gone. The description of your Shawn is so much like my Michael. But this demon had such a hold on him, and he could not free himself. I truly believe he is now at peace, happy at last, and no longer in pain. Again, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved son.
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Chandra Bare posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart goes out to your family. Prayers to your family and friends.
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Amy Breedlove posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Dear family of Shawn,
I do not know you, and you do not know me. I also did not know Shawn. Your obituary has circulated on FB and landed on my newsfeed. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am reaching out to say to you that I sincerely appreciate you using Shawn's obituary as a way to reach out and warn those who may be also struggling with heroin or other recreational drugs. You must be a very strong and loving family. I have noticed most people hide these things from the public because of pride, shame, or other reasons. Thank you for using your tragedy as a platform to reach out and give a warning and hope to others. Praying you will be comforted by family, friends, and our Lord during this time of grief.
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Wilda posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for your heartache and loss. Your words of honesty and truth are brave and sincere. My heart aches for you and your family. May God bless your entire family during this time and may you feel his loving arms holding you as you grieve.
I too, lost my son, Anthony, a year ago. He was 29.
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Christy C posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
You don't know me, but I wanted to send my deepest condolences to your family. I Uxbridge family in the throws of addiction, and live with the fear of losing them every day. I pray for comfort for your entire family, as addiction and a loss because of it affects everyone who lives the individual. Your family will be in my and my family's thoughts and prayers.
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Jeannie posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am just an American citizen that saw your obituary for Shawn. My prayers are for you and the family to get through this sadness that is deep within your hearts. I praise you for being honest about Shawn's addiction. I pray that at least one addict gets help with their addiction after seeing how drugs can take so much from family. Deepest prayers, a friend you do not know. Bless you all
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Sheila Skains Hopkins posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I didn't know Shawn, but, my most sincere condolences go out to his grieving family and friends. Drugs are so very evil. They destroy so many and so much. Shawn has escaped. You all are left in pain. May God be with you all. Sending Sympathy and prayers.
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Andi posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Bless your souls. I hope maybe you'll find some comfort in knowing he no longer hurts.
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Tina Douglas posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sorry for your lose,he looked liked a great person to be around. Now he's in a better place with Jesus and God and all the Angels watching over him. May he rest in Peace now. God Bless you all. AMEN
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Cindy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for your heartache and loss. Your words of honesty and truth are brave and sincere. May God bless your entire family during this time and may you feel his loving arms holding you as you grieve. I will be praying for your family. Cindy Tedmon. Waxahachie, TX
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Juanacha Lawrence posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So truly sorry for your loss.. my deepest sympathies
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Deborah Blue posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
You have my deepest condolences for your loss. God bless!
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Mary Tierney posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So very very sorry. The saddest death of all; young.
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Patricia Souza Munroe posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so Sorry...strikes a cord for me...my worst fear...my Son same age...is fighting A heroin addiction...it's horrible to see such beautiful people being loss to this... The Heartache and destruction left behind! SAD!!!
My thoughts and prayers to the family... may the sweet memories of him forever comfort all of you!
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Terri Boggs posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I just want to send my deepest sympathy for your family in the loss of your son father brother and addict. I am the mother of a surviving addict who has been clean for 8 years and I know it fear of losing someone because we almost lost her many times. My heart goes out to your family in your time of loss but just remember the good times with him and you will again see him one day. May you always have him in your heart and again sorry for your loss.
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Debbie posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Prayer's to the family an friends. Sorry for your Loss.
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DianaLong posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I don't know you or your son, but thank you for this. My adult son is also an addict, so I feel your pain. People tend to forget that addicts are not just their disease, they are so much more. They are human beings, with so much potential. May God bless and comfort you.
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Pamela Stracner posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Although I didn't know him or any other of his family or friends my heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort as time goes by.
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Barbara Daines posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So very sorry for your lose, I don't think there is any lose like the lose of a son. I know from experience. Mine died from Cancer. My thoughts are with you at this time. May God be with each and every one of you.
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Suzanne cherochak posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
God bless you all. Such a tradgedy to lose someone so young to addiction. My heart aches because of such an evil drug. May you all someday walk in peace.
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Karen A. Tengeres posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am sorry for your loss of a loved one. Sending prayers for your family and friends .
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Patricia posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Im so sorry what ur going thru.. I myself am a drug addict even tho i beat my addiction five months ago cold turkey i will forever be a affict. I was addicted to IV heroin n liquid methadone.. This obituary opened my eyes up for sure n brought tears to my eyes.. Thanks for sharing...
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Sejal Patel posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I don't know you and I didn't know Shawn but I'm a psychologist working in a MA health center that's taking this epidemic very seriously. A CT Facebook friend shared the obituary and I wanted to express my deep condolences, not just for your loss but for all the fear and suffering you and Shawn experienced leading up to his death. I deeply admire your courage in writing such a heartfelt homage and hope that it touches someone, anyone...a person currently struggling in addiction, a family member enabling it, a healthcare worker not asking about substance use, etc. Thank you for not succumbing to shame or hiding in the shadows and please continue to reach out and raise awareness in any capacity you are able. I wish you all the best in your healing.
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Janet kohler posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for the loss of your son I too also lost a dear friend of mine due to a cocane over dose
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Sierra Miller posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Reading this obituary all the way from Southwest Ohio, where it was shared by family friends via Facebook. Our community like many others around the country has been taken over by the heroin epidemic. Seems everyday we loose someone else to it. My thoughts and prayers are with your family, and just know that your message is being shared. We must fight back! <3 God Bless
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Leric Istre posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am sorry for by your loss. I hope your family overcome this horrible tragedy and continues to grow and flourish with love light and blessings from God. Our condolences are with u.
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Anna Velazquez posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My condolences for such a loss. Many prayes to the daughter that will never know Her father and to a family that has lost a brother and a son.
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Rebecca Stricker posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for the loss of your son. I too loss my Son last July from this awful drug.He was 31. My heart Breaks to hear so many young ones are passing from this everyday.I Pray that our Lord comforts you and gives you strength during this physical separation.And know that one day you will be together again. God Bless
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Ann Koch posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to his family and his friends. May he find peace. May his family and friends always remember his happier days and know that he has joined his loving family members in Heaven. Watch "Heaven Is For Real" if you have any doubt he went to heaven. He is now free of his adiction. Remember he is always near you encouraging you and loving you!!! Again, my heartfelt condolences!!!
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Donna posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
To Shawn's family: My deepest condolences to your family and friends. I do not know you or Shawn and saw his obituary when it was shared by my friend on Facebook. She does not know you either. Both of us, however, were touched by the words of hope Shawn's obituary offers to those in desperate need of encouragement. Your words in Vermont reaching out to someone here in Illinois and possibly beyond. I pray in your time of need now and to come, your family can find hope and encouragement in this knowledge. Your family and Shawn's precious child are in my prayers today.
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irene posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I dont know you or Shawn, but i know many who have and are still battling the same demon. You are so courageous to share your story. Your family are in my prayers♡
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Cindy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry to hear about Shawn's death. Great obituary . we also lost a young man 37 . left his daughter behind
Due to drugs. I was happy to hear how you made a negative to try to help others. My heart goes out to you.
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Peggy Hill posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Shawn sounds like a loving family member who just made a mistake. You're very brave to share his story in the hopes of helping others. I hope for Shawn to be at peace now that he's free from his addiction and knows how much he is and has always been loved by a supportive family. For the family take comfort in knowing how much Shawn loved you and how he is safely in God's arms. My prayers are with you.rqgpy
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Catherine Dennington posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for your courage in detailing Shawn's struggles with addiction. I am the parent of a child who also lost their life by way of addiction to heroin.
I understand the pain of a life cut short by this horrific disease. Shawn and my daughter were born the same year and she also left behind two daughters. Please accept my prayers for strength in your time of loss.
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natasha stroud posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My aunt shared this with me for I lost my husband to the drug herion. I send my prayers and hugs to your family for I to have been here. May he rest in peace
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Wendy Meyer posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
What horrible tragedy for your family... prayers for healing & acceptance. I do not know you, but wanted to take time to thank you for confronting this horrible epidemic! There needs to be more awareness & you speaking out in your time of grieving shows the love & compassion of your heart. Knowledge given in hopes to save just one person from this monster called Heroin! Peace be with you & finally with your son. ♡
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Amanda Dodson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. Heroin addiction is a horrible thing. I'm a retired junkie of 6 years and I have been 13 months clean and ice seen many people lose the fight. Right in front of my face. Please continue to share Shawn's story and give other struggling hope. I share mine bc I want to go back into Hell and pull people out of flames. My heart breaks for you and your family. Sending lost a of love and prayers from Cincinnati,OH. I'm so sorry. If you ever need to talk (sometimes a complete stranger can be a better listener than our closest family and friends). My email is amandadod1313@gmail.com. keep spreading hope bT
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Kristine Beechler posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My prayers are with you all. Thank you for a beautiful obituary. So sorry for your loss.
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Julie Gates posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I know all too well how evil addiction is. I thank the good lord above I have two years clean. I believe Shawn's story will help people thank you so much for sharing. He is at peace now. No more struggling to just exist anymore. I do pray for all of his family and friends who are left here to grieve.❤❤much love!!
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Sherri Anderson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry or your loss and the toll heroin has taken on the family. I admire your forth right wording of this post and I hope it will make others stop and think about their life. God bless you all. Much love from a stranger in WV.
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Sue Grampp posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I would like to express my heartfelt sorrow for you. I too lost my son to an overdose on December 20, 2008.He was also 32. My heart hurts so much everttime I read about another life taken too soon from this drug. I hate to say and mean this I know exactly what you are going through. Keep his name on your lips and remember the 32 years he was with you..YOu have a part of him in your granddaughter. I was not that fortunate.
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Sandra posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss may God bring peace to your heart and your family
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Sherri Norris posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. But I want to thank you for your brave honesty, so maybe just maybe, it may speak to and help rescue another from the grip of addiction. Again, most sincere condolences.
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ALICE PADGETT posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending this obituary to my daughter Katie who is 25 in Springfield, MO. (I live in Virginia and am 66 years old.) She is a heroin addict. She has been an addict for 6 years. She has had 2 children taken away from her. She has lost everything now and is trying to live in her car, but winter is coming on. I expect to get THE call every day. I will pray for your family in the upcoming days. This last part of addiction must be the hardest, but the day to day wondering if they are okay and where they are and what you can do to help is a horrible walk that I know you have taken. May God give you peace in that you did everything humanly possible to help him. Again terribly, terribly sorry for your loss.
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So Sorry from Kentucky!
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Michele Sachs posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I did not know this young man, but looking at his picture I see a very handsome man with a great infectious smile and I'll bet, a great personality, too! It's a shame drugs took the upper hand and ended his short life. My deepest sympathy and condolences go out to his family and friends, may he RIP and God Bless!!
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Ursula Polignone posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I think this is one of the best obituaries I have ever seen. My condolences to you and your family.
I also lost my 24 year old son in 2009 from a heroin over dose. At the time of his funeral we did not know the cause of his death. If I knew I would also have done what you did. I am not afraid or embarrassed to tell people what happened to his. I just hope they can get help before this happens to them.
Again my condolences.
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Zipporah Moore posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Even though I did not know your son, you have my deepest and heart felt prayers for your continued strength. Shawn seemed to be the joy of many people's lives. I applaud your family for being so open and honest and for sharing Shawn's story with the world. May he rest in peace, and your family find comfort in knowing that even in death, Shawn's testimony may be helping to save someone's life...
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Shelby Cox posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I send to you our condolences. I also send our prayers, compassion, thoughts, and love. Our upmost respect. I am going to light my husbands candle.
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Kareen Williamson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart goes out to all of you. Although we have never met, we share a common bond.
I lost my 27 year old daughter on June 5 of this year, from an accidental overdose of heroin.
I know there are no words that can comfort. I know what you have, are, and will go through in the days to come.
I hope you can find some comfort in the fact that Shawn is now free of this horrible addiction. I know the frustration, the pain, and the hopelessness that an addict suffers. I saw my daughter go through it. I know what it did to her life, and to the lives of those who loved her.
And I know your pain.
May God bless you all. Give you strength, and comfort.
Kareen Williamson
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Regina posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
How incredibly brave of your family to be honest about Shawn's death to raise awareness. Much more candid talk is needed if we as a nation can tackle the opiod crisis. You have my sincere condolences. May you continue to encourage those who suffer as your family has.
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Lisa posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I did not know this young man but my Heart Breaks for his Friend's and Family, Prayers for all of you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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Julie Annunziato posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for this horrific loss. I lost 2 brothers to the same disease, both accidental overdose. My brother Michael was also 32 and my brother Peter was 39. I understand the devastation and please feel free to contact me if you wish to talk❤️
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Julie posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry to hear this. Many prayers for his daughter and family <3
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Angela posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I just wanted to tell your family how very sorry about your loss. But using his obituary to try to help others is very noble of all of you.
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Cindy Tokich posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I did not know your loved one, but I know what you went through, because I am going through that myself with my son. I am sitting here reading this as I am waiting for my son to complete his intake interview for inpatient rehab. My heart aches for you & your family will be in my thoughts & prayers. May Shawn's memory be eternal!
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Mom from Ohio posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Lots of prayers for your family. My nephew is fighting the same struggle. It's such an awful fight.
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Candace Fortier posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep Shawn and your family in love you prayers.
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Karen Blessing posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so very sorry for your unimaginable loss. I applaud you for speaking the truth about about his addiction. He sounds like a wonderful man, friend, father, brother and son who unfortunately fell victim to the horrible disease of addiction. I wish you comfort during this terrible time.
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Joann posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I did not know Shawn may he rest in peace I was profoundly touched of the honesty of his obituary my deepest condolences and prayers for the family.
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Linzer Pope posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. May God keep you in his loving arms during this time.
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Casey Penhollow posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I just wanted to say that I'm sorry for your loss. Im a heroin addict and I have six months clean. It is an endless battle! I have lost so many firends this past year and a younger cousin McKenzie who was 23! Please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers..
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Linzer Pope posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. May God keep you in his loving arms during this time.
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Mary Bunn posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I want to send my prayers to Shawn's family & Friends. There is a way to get help. Please do not let another Handsome smile like Shawn leave this world so early.
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Amy Travrsa posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Your honesty will save lives. I wish you peace in knowing that you loved one will help others heal. My sinceee condolences.
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Kathleen Schroeder posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. This is going to be a long road for your family. Its a terrible addiction. This disease doesn't care what it takes from us. I know I lost my daughter Krystyna June 25 2015. She was my only child. So many years of trying to stay clean, it was a roller coaster ride. Just a suggestion there are many support groups on line for the family. GRASP is one. TCF loss of a loved one from addiction (Compassionate Friends) There is also The Heroin Memorial. Please reach out, this is a hard road. I was very impressed with what you wrote about Shawn in his Obituary. Stop the Stigma.
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Bridget Bertrand posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Dear loved ones of Shawn: First you all have my deepest condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot tell you how much it meant, to see a family not ashamed of putting the reason for a loved ones death, that was due to an overdose/ addiction in their obituary. . People need to see the faces of our loved ones that have passed due to the terrible addictions many of us suffer from.
I truly commend your bravery. I have watched so many loved ones die of an addiction and way too young. If they only knew how loved they were.
I see the families obits and the majority of the time, it just reads that they "passed away suddenly".
The truth is, it's not sudden. It's a very long and painful road, for them, and all of us that love them. Because of your bravery, I have no doubt that you have saved lives with your openness, and his death will not be in vain.
It has made me remember where this disease can take us. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Thank you so much for sharing that with us.
Sincerely ,
Bridget Bertrand
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Sandra Truchan posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Deepest condolences for all your sorrows. God. Be with you all!
Sandra
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MARY LIVINGSTON posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I did not know Shawn or his family, but I want to commend them for their bravery and honesty in sharing his story. You didn't try to make excuses - you said it outright and that took so much courage. I will pray for you in the days ahead that you will find peace in this tragedy. You will never know how this act of bravery may have saved others. God bless.
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tAwnyA underhill posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
hi I'm so sorry for your loss... my son is an addict and is currently in jail and is adamant that he will not go bk to it, I hope n pray he does not it is a strong evil drug from what I have learned.. I will do whatever it takes to make sure he does not end up like this, I cant believe how many lives this drug has taken, its crazy.. rip lil man and plezz watch over my boy and keep him strong with many others
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may God be with each of you during this difficult time~~
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Linda Kight posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Please accept my condolences in this tragic loss of your loved ones life. My heart aches for you all. May God give you comfort and help you find peace. Hold the good memories you have of Shawn close in your heart every day.
Sincerely,
Linda Kight
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Amanda Bonee posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your families loss. loss of a love one is something we never get over, we just learn how to live without them day by day. I hope u rest easier knowing Gods loving arms is around your family during this time and always. God bless you all. may u find peace thru all your loss, and heartache. Amanda
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Renee Bolton posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I didn't know Shawn, but his story is touching. I'm going to share this for the lives of others using drugs and feeling helpless. God bless Shawn's family, friends anyone else he touched. God bless you and heal the hearts of all.
Renee Bolton
Jacksonville FL
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Kim posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I don't know you, I didn't know Shawn. I am so very sorry for your loss. I had a nephew like Shawn, his name was Lance, an accidental overdose took his life too. I admire you for putting this in his obituary in hopes to save another family from this devastation. May God wrap His loving, comforting arms around your family and heal your broken hearts.
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Beth posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I am the mother of an addict and understand the pain it causes. I hope the obituary for your son reaches someone to give them the courage to ask for help. Maybe my child. God bless you and your family.
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Brenda posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart felt condolences to your family. Thanks for being so open with the cause of Shawn's passing. Hopefully your tragedy will help just one person overcome this non-discriminating drug. Praying for all of you, and may Shawn rest in peace. Hugs
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Robin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My deepest of condolences to you all. The grasp of heroin is so tight, few can shake it. Lost a niece to it 14 years ago and we are entering a fresh hell with HER niece who is facing the same demons. Thank you for sharing Shawn's story, hoping it will reach others before it is too late. Wishing you peace as you adjust to life without this kind soul.
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Gail posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I too have a son who struggles with this horrible disease.
I pray that you will find comfort and peace some day with your beautiful memories of the special young man that Shawn clearly was. I pray that is smile shines on in your heart......heaven has gained a beautiful angel.
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Lori Atkins posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I did not know Shawn but I wanted to express my condolences for his family and friends. I'm so sorry for your loss and pray for peace for you all. While I am not a drug addict, I too lost a loved one to heroin. I was 9 and he just turned 18 and was the best brother a girl could have.
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Darla posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I will always remember you as the obnoxious little boy that kept me on my toes. Obnoxious, but always willing to do chores, and forever had a smile on your face. You warmed our hearts. I truly hope you are at peace.
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Tina kilgore posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Iam so sorry for your loss god bless you and your family..thank you for sharing your story..
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Stacie posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So very sorry for your loss. I lost my husband to alochol. God bless his daughter.
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Wendy N. posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sorry for your loss, prayers are being sent your way .
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Ruell Chappell posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
God Bless Shawn all all his family members. Addiction is a horrible, life devastating disease. Some of us are lucky enough to escape. Many, through no character flaw of their own, are not. God Bless him and his family. //
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Jennifer, RN posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for these words. I work with addicts everyday...all sorts of addicts. I tell them, "We've all got something." Shawn's story will continue because of your transparency. Bless your family and his sweet little girl!
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Betty. Herrera posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Rest easy. Shawn. Condolences to the family.
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Marilee Staples posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss.We are fighting alcohol in my family.We never what our journey will be or what roads it will take us down. Sending prayers for all.
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Renee posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss ..I pray that God comforts and strengthens your family..this is so sad and such a terrible epidemic..it's killing so many people of all ages..my daughter lost her friend of 30 years old and couple of months ago.
She had two small children that will now be left without a mother..she will never see them on there first date..graduate..get engaged or married..God bless your son and family..
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Deb Edfors posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Our daughter died in 2014 of an overdose. I know the anguish you feel. Deepest sympathy to the family
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jeanne marie cathey posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My very deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the family and friends. I didn't know Shawn, but I buried my only child, my 24-year old daughter in 2013. I know the pain you feel, and am so sorry heroin took another precious, valuable life.
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Roberta Mander Maghouin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Peace and Blessings to you and everyone touched by this. I lost my kid sister to different drugs but similar circumstances.
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Daneen Rearley posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
May God be with you all... Thank you for sharing this story and raising awareness instead of hiding it. ❤
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Concetta Arre posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Hello, You do not know me I read this obituary on FB. I am truly sorry for the loss of your beloved son, father, brother, family member and friend. This unfortunate obituary is both heartfelt, touching and heroic. I too am an alcoholic. With today's blessings I have been sober for over 35 years. It is my hope that your courageous honesty may be able to save a life or lives. Again my condolences to all of you.
Sincerely, Concetta Arre
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Rose posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so very sorry for your ioss. I too just lost my son to heroin addiction.may God bless you and may you find comfort in him. . Rose Mclaughlin
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Angela posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray to God that our young children don't get caught up in this mess...
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Lou Cutter posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for the loss of Shawn. Heroin took my 19 year old grandson in the wee hours on Labor Day. He had been fighting, but the demon of heroin was too strong for him. These deaths are so tragic and so needless.
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Karol Whitmire posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
He sounds like he was a fine young man. My heart breaks for his family and friends. I know the pain of your heart. May you find strength in the Lord and the peace that passes all understanding. Zlafj
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May Shawn RIP may his love for his family & friends live on. I have walked in your shoes with a loved one and know the heart ackes oh so well. Drugs are the demon himself. We can only pray for all those who have lost a loved one like we did. May God bless you & your family in your time of need. May your hearts be healed and surrounded by love, laughter and support.
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Capri Newman posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My deepest condolences!!!! May God rest his soul!!!
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I know your pain. I am so sorry for your loss posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I don't know you but I do know your pain. I am sincerely sorry for your loss as I too had a little brother that was a heroin addict. He was killed 13 years ago Oct 9th in a head on collision due to nodding off while driving on his way to a doctors appointment. Sadly the head on collisions took the life of his neighbor in the other vehicle.
I want to thank you for using his passing by acknowledging his addiction and imploring people to get help before it is too late. It is very brave of you to do this and I thank you implicitly.
Godspeed.
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May you be comforted and find peace in knowing his battle is over
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Renee posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for the loss of this beautiful soul!
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KDS HENDERSON posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Blessings and condolences go out to you and your family. I wish you all prayers of peace, strength and comfort in this time of hurt and sorrow. This speaks volumes to so many out there in the world. I am touched by your openess and truth. I don't know your family but I know your plight. God bless.
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Yolanda Forte posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
First and foremost, I would like to express my heartfelt condolences to Shawn's family and friends. I did not know Shawn personally (someone that I know shared his obituary on FB), but I would like to thank his family for being honest and open enough to share such a personal, powerful and positive story in an attempt to reach out and save a life as you say say goodbye for now to Shawn. Strength and bravery are the first two words that came into my thoughts as I read Shawn's obituary. If one soul is saved by your words, then Shawn's death will not have been in vain. God's Blessings to the family and friends.
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Gale Galloway posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you so much for sharing your story in your time of grief, to help someone else who may be going through this same journey. Earth has no sorrows that Heaven cannot heal. Look to God for the strength you need to make it through life without Shawn, however, I know that he will always be in your hearts.
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Lisa S. Hindle, DVM posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss, and yet so proud of the obituary you put out there. Real people struggle, good people struggle. You have already begun helping others by writing about Shawn's struggle. Thank you, and God bless.
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Veronica petersen posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for ur loose.. I'm a recovering addict myself and know the feeling of being alone.. It's never easy when a loved one overdoses,it's very devastating and hard to come back from.. But u must stay together as a family and hold each other together during this time of hurt.. Again I'm very sorry for everything going on for ur family
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Karen posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My utmost sympathies and condolences to Shawn's family and friends. I too know the pain of losing someone much too soon due to the destructive nature of drugs. It was crack cocaine in my case. My sister was taken by crack about 17 years ago. She was only 34 and left behind a 4 y/o son too. Thank you all so much for telling the truth about how Shawn died. If it saves only 1 life, then he didn't die in vain. I have told my sister's story to anyone that will listen but especially anyone who I know who has drug issues. Just remember that Shawn would have wanted his friends and family to carry on with their lives and try to be as happy as possible even though this tragedy has stricken your family.
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Cheryl Dobson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm from Wisconsin I saw this on Facebook. I just wanted to say how truly sorry I am to see such a sad outcome for Shawn and his family but mostly for his family who has to go on without seeing that smile and for his daughter. If only they would think what a devastating loss it would be if something like this would happen and so many have lost their life from this horrible drug. I live in a small town in Wisconsin and there have been so many lives lost to this horrific drug not that this helps your sadness and loss. I'm so so sorry for all that has been affected by losing Shawn it's to bad he didn't realize that it could happen to him. Thoughts and prayers to Shawns family and friends!!!
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Tammy Ayers posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
To the family and friends of Shawn, I didn't know Shawn or any of his family but I felt compelled to send my thoughts and sympathy. Praying that God will comfort you all and that someone will benefit from Shawn's experience and the thoughtful and brave way you are handling his passing by letting others know that you all have been in the same situation that they may be in. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
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Marcella Crago posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
It is said with a heavy heart that this epidemic of herion is taking our children way too soon. My heart goes out to this family as I have a son who is a recovery addict. I was in tears as I read your story and hopefully this powerful message will reach out to those who need help. My prayers are with this family and may God comfort them in this time of need.
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Ken Machol posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thoughts and prayers to friends and family.
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I don't personally know Shawn but I live with his situation everyday with me daughter. I pray that his family and friends find peace in all of this heartache. It is so very sad that young beautiful, smart, talented people die everyday due to chemical dependency!!!
My God be with as you travel on your path.
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Claudi Fox posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Dearest Ones,
I am so sorry for the heartbreak that you must walk through at this sorrowful time. I saw this obituary on Facebook and was compelled to let you know I care. I pray Shawn knew Jesus. It has been a year and ten days since I lost my son, Alex, also to the bondage of heroin. Alex at 33 years old, was a very dependable auto mechanic and left 4 daughters and a son. I am praying you will let the Lord comfort and provide for your hearts and minds, it is the only way to survive this deep loss. Give his daughter hugs for us and keep her tightly surrounded by family. My loving heart grieves with you at this time.
Claudi Fox, Indiana
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Theresa fowler posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! I did not know him but I saw this on Facebook n it's so sad how many people are loosing their lives because of heroin! I'm very sorry!!
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katherine burch posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
so sorry for your loss.May God be with you and your family
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God bless from another family suffering!
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Chrissy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your family's loss! I can't even imagine what you all are going through. Praying for you all to find some peace and comfort in this tragedy. My family suffers the same addiction with my nephew. It's been horrible! He had so much going for him. He ran cross crountry in school and set records, played football and was the star. He had scholarships lined up but was injured in high school and it all started with pain pills. Then he had to move on to something stronger. He has broke his family's heart over and over. He had it all, beautiful girlfriend, beautiful baby, great supportive family, a great life ahead of him. Now herion has took first place over everything and his life is just a mess. I'm scared I will be reading his obituary soon if he don't get help or God intervenes! God bless your sweet family and know that people are praying for you all!
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Marian posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
God bless u all in ur time of tragedy & pain u choose to help others. Heroin is the devil in,disguise. May God watch over his beautiful daughter.
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Pat Jimenez posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
First off I would like to offer my thoughts and prayers to the family of this young man. I do not know him or his family, but after reading the obituary I only hope that others will take heed to the warning that this family shared with everyone. Thank you to the family for the open, honest and heartfelt story. My deepest condolences to all.
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Lillith Bear posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for your honesty. I know it will do good. I'm sorry for the loss of such a kind soul.
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Pauline Pruitt posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I didn't know Shawn I seen this because it was shared on fb and I want you to know I am praying for your family.
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Tracy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am terribly sorry for your loss. May God comfort you each and every day as you start to heal.
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treva ringer posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My sincere condolences. I am a recovering addict. I always thought my family didn't love me due to the lack of love I felt for myself. Recovering and trying to help a man I loved with all my heart get his demons under control and find recovery, I understand my family did love me immensely. Ultimately there is no help for a by addict until they reach a place if brutal honesty about themselves , and accountability for the condition they themselves are in and the wreckage of their lives. It's so sad that such a beautiful precious man like you're lived one had to destroy themselves but before yhey could reach that point of honesty. This point of destruction is only reached by not accepting the love and support willing to be given by his family and friends. Please know this event in no way is s reflection of any failure but his own. He loved as well as he could in his glazed state of mind and soul he chose to maintain. I understand the need to numb yourself but is due to how u you see yourself of those around you . Going your loved one had found the peace and love in the arms of angels that surrounded him in his life. God bless all if you. Especially his daughter. May you all find understanding peace and love always
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Elizabeth Stevens posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I wish for your family peace during this storm!! You all do not know me, but I truly admire your courage in writing this obituary to heighten awareness to such an epidemic in this country! As I read this, I can only hope that so many others read it as well! I pray for your family, his daughter, -and his friends in the coming months and years for healing and understanding! God Bless!!
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Peggy Burkhardt posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
To Shawns Family and Friends, I am truly sorry for your loss. I understand. Drug addiction is so cruel and creates a helpless, hopeless mentality for the afflicted, but also for their family and friends also. We so wish and hope every time we try to help them they will conquer this demon and free us all of these negative energies we devote to them in the midst of their pain. We all would have loved to take this energy and showed our love in all our positive ways instead of trying to be always strong and sensible to just help them rise above this curse. Four times now, they were dead, but she was brought back to life. I am sorry for you and will pray for Shawn and your family. God bless you.
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Danny Seman posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
This just breaks my heart. My condolences to his wife, children, mother, father and all friends and family. We grew up together. . . .
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Paula Clark posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for you loss I admire your courage to face and speak the truth about Shawn's illness and death. It may save someone else from losing the very difficult battle againt drug addiction Prayers for family and friends. I'm sure such a wonderful young man will be greatly missed
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Cathy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. My niece passed away from heroin and my son is an addict as well as my grandsons mother. It is so sad that this has to be such an epidemic. Im praying that people read this obituary and know that this is a disease just like alcoholism.
Again I am so sorry for your loss
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Gloria G posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My prayers are with your family! So sorry for your loss!
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Jeff Drost posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. What a powerful statement. Drugs are horrible and only the addicted and the hurting family members of the stricken can understand the depths of pain. Unfortunately Shawn is in a better place now but his family will have the hole in the hearts forever. God Bless.
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My condolences to your family that will be changed forever due to the loss of your beautiful family. Time does NOT heal-only change us. I lost my son to the disease of addiction two years ago. He was the same age as your son and also a wonderful person. He and I actually wrote and published a memoir of his struggles. With your permission, I would love to send you a copy. It may help you understand how you are NOT alone. If you are interested, please send me your email and I will put a copy in the mail. Again, my deepest sympathies.
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donnie farris posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
my prayers are with the family i love you as christ does that i hope is a comfort to you the family and daughter and friends god bless
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Wanda Powell posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am sorry for your loss. Thank you so very much for sharing Shawns story and adduction. My son is a herion addict and know exactly how it tears the adduct apart and the family. All of our lives are effected by this horrible drug. Prayers be with you all.
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Lisa Owens posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to your family. Thank you for your honest words about Shawn. I do pray that your family can find some peace during this tragic time.
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Brandy & Eugene Parfitt posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. I to am a recovering heroin addict. It's such an awful & hard addiction to overcome. I pray God will wrap his loving arms around each & everyone of you & comfort y'all in this time of bereavement.
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Kelley Hall posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Deepest sympathy for your loss!! I don't know you or Shawn but his obituary has been shared and is so touching and true! I lost my brother August 9, 2016 to the same addiction and it is now a fight I am taking on for awareness!! It is so very hard as a family member to watch them and no matter how hard we as family fight to try to get them away from the drugs it breaks you down that they continue and no matter how much we love them nothing breaks it. To the person that wrote this obituary I shared it in hopes that one life may be saved from you oh so true words. Thank you for having the courage to say this so openly.
I feel your pain and wish there was something I could tell you that would lessen your pain unfortunately I have found nothing and just have to keep reminding myself that he is no longer suffering or struggling. My brother was 47 but reading your memories you would have thought these 2 were twins so very similar even in the work they did. Peace be with you one and all. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelley Hall
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Rebecca posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss of your beautiful son. This is heartbreaking, as a recovering addict I know how difficult getting sober can be. I pray that God keeps his loving arms wrapped around you all in this time of sorrow.
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Sylvia McLaughlin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for sharing your story. My heart breaks for all those with addiction problems.
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Debbie from Ohio posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Iam sorry for your loss, my son is 35 and has the same battle. He has overdosed and know suffers from brain damage, my thoughts and prayers goes out to your entire family. Thinking of you in Ohio.
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Deborah Hunter posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Your family has my deepest empathy. I will say a prayer for you all. I dearly wish your family will have the strength to pick up he pieces and move on. I have a daughter who was a heroin addict she only got her act together after her grand daughter was born and her daughter refused to allow her to see her. This was 2 years after she quit using. Even though she was not using the addiction still cause a lot of drama in her life. I am truly sorry that Shawn could not find his way out of that life. My daughters best friend, who was like a daughter to me also died from an over dose. So I do know what you all are feeling. You will never know why it had to happen this way. Just remember that God loves us all even when we are wrong. Shawn does not have to live with that fight anymore, he is in haven where there is nothing to worry about. A beautiful place with eternal peace. May God Bless You All.
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Sheryl Williams posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am very sorry for your loss. I do not know your family but was touched by the obituary. I also have a child who is an addict and it scares me to think of what can happen. Your obituary really helped me. I thank you and am very sorry for your loss
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Katrina posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart goes out to you. My daughter struggled with heroin addiction for years. She has lost many friends to this horrible addiction. Sadly, it has become an epidemic. My prayers and thoughts to all of you.
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I am so sorry for you loss. Please accept my condolences and my prayers.
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Kathy Cockman posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I do not know this family or Shawn-- his obit was posted on my facebook page. I praise you for posting such an honest tribute of love and understanding of what drugs can take from all of us. May Shawn have peace now and find the happiness he was looking for now in the arms of our LORD
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Kreston posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
May you fly high with the Lord now. No pain, sorrows, or bad habits, just the heavenly wind flowing through those wings. Rest easy man.
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Jackie stamm posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart goes out to u and ur family my son is 23 and also a drug addict he has been Incarserated almost a year and clean for that amount of time.I have never had to deal with something so hard He was probably days away from dieing wen he got arrested I prayed for that day to come I would rather see him through a TV screen on visitation day instead of a funeral home.I'm praying this has changed him He seems like a new person now but I've never known an addict to stay clean.I will b praying for ur family in this devastating time.
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Mary posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Praying that God help to ease the pain in you're heart and in the hearts of those who also loved him.
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Brenda Bridell posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I do not know you, but I do know the story of addiction. I applaud your honesty and love of your family. Condolences for your loss.
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karie meunier posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your famiy is held close in my prayers. My deepest sympathy he's out to yours.
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This is very touching and so very true .... Im sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers go out to all family and friends ... Great words spoken here about addiction
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Robin Dick posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Such a tragedy! Someone so young taken too soon! I'm so very sorry for your loss! I hope and pray that you all find peace and comfort in the hard days to come. I also hope that his obituary helps someone get clean as they can clearly see the only place the drugs are taking them to with his story. Thank you for sharing the truth so others can see what happens in the life of drugs. May God bless each of you and May he give you the peace that passes all understanding! Love to you all.
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Mary Lynn Ashby posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss. I also want to say thank you for your honest candor when telling about Shawn's heroin problem. I can only imagine the hurt and anger you are feeling right now. I will forward Shawn's obituary with hope that it will save at least one life from the hell of heroin. Thank you and may God help you find peace. Sincerely, Mary Lynn
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Joan Emery posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss and for all the pain brought by this horrible disease. May God bring you his healing peace.
Thank you for printing the truth , may it be the beginning of healing and cure for others that suffer.
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Karen posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. The family are in my prayers.
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Gina from Florida posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
God be with Shawns Family & Friends I am sad to hear of your lose
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Linda wright posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction effects everyone. Thank you sharing his story. If it is shared and saved 1 life...your heartache will not be in vain.
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Tracie posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Shawn but I do know addicts. Many have died and many still struggle and some still fight the fight and I pray they win.
My heart aches for you. And I thank you for such a wonderful, thoughful, caring obituary.
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Cathy Benoit posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
R.I.Paradise!! Fly with the angels. May your family and friends find peace. Another life taken way too soon. Thoughts and Prayers to all family and friends.
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William Ryan posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My deepest sympathy. I to have lost alot to drug addiction.
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Joyce Smith posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I didn't know Shawn,prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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Jennifer Hebert posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for sharing Shawn's story. We lost my husbands son to a drug overdose. I hope your story helps many. Praying for your family and for Shawn.
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Laura Castoe posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am terribly sorry to hear of your loss . You don't know me I am a Mother who lost my son to this terrible drug our sons are beautiful and have so much to offer seeing them die this way is heartbreaking every time I hear about another death it saddens me to know end please accept my condolences and if you ever feel you would like to talk feel free to contact me Much love to you and your family
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Dawn Jenkins-Kirgan posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My condolences to the family of this young man!! May you find peace..
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Vanessa Amerson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart cries for you and your family as it's cried from losing so many friends to this fight. God Bless You.
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Dawn Taylor posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I wanted to tell you how deeply sorry i am for your family. It was deeply moving hopefully your story will help someone. A beautiful life taken by drugs. My baby brother committed suicide from drugs, if only he would of reached out as well. Daniel was a senior in high school. Sorry for the long message just wanted to tell you, youre not alone on losing a loved one from drugs, and just maybe you stopped someone.
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Tammy Heavenridge posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Our family has dealt with drug addiction of a loved one and a great fear is will it win. I'm so sorry for the hurt this addiction has caused. My heart goes out to all of you.
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Tammy Heavenridge posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Our family has dealt with drug addiction of a loved one and a great fear is will it win. I'm so sorry for the hurt this addiction has caused. My heart goes out to all of you.
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Jodie Quinn posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Please accept my heart felt condolences on the passing of your son, father, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend.
You do not know me, but I just finished reading Shawn Carters obituary and I want to thank you for having the courage to post why Shawn is no longer with you.
If this deters just one person to not start using or gives one person the reason to seek help then Shawns passing is not in vain. I realize this is not much comfort, at this time. Again, my heart felt sympathies to your family.
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Makayla Montes posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sorry for your loss praying for the family
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Valerie Burch posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I pray for Shawn's daughter and all who love him. I pray for God to give you comfort, strength, wisdom and guidance. Thank you for your honesty in his passing. I ask your permission to share this obituary with my Celebrate Recovery groups, both in Charles County, Maryland, Detention Center and on the outside. Perhaps your deep loss will be someone's gain. I ask also that those of you who have struggled with him through his journey will attend Celebrate Recovery meetings for yourselves, to lead you to healing and peace. I ask that you commit to attending 3, then if it's not for you, get help elsewhere. . The fact that you bared your heart tells me you don't want another family to be torn apart by drugs. I pray that God will heal each of you individually and as a unit. In Jesus' mighty name. Amen
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Wendy kilpatrick posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Hi I'm sorry for his family's loss..and I pray that their hurt and pain eases and gets better over time I know it will never go away but he will always be with you in your heart I completely understand what he went through battling his addiction because me myself I battled addictions it's an everyday process I understand that no I didn't know him personally I didn't know his family personally but reading his obituary really hit home I've been clean for going on 16 years now and I pray everyday that I stay that way and it continues to be a battle I pray that the Lord put his arms around his family and helps ease the pain but just know one day you will see him again his bright smile and beautiful eyes his loving personality as described and I'm sorry for your loss again God bless and may y'all meet again
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Ronald Blagg posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sorry for your loss. Prayers for the family. It's a Family disease, everyone is affected by it.
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Valerie Mikesell posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am Sooooo sorry for your loss :( Heroin is a monster !!! My son fought it for years 4 overdoses ...last time on life support, He still will battle it all his life !!! I Pray for your family and friends ...May God reach out and wrap his arms and help you through this time of pain and sorrow !!!
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Monday, October 10, 2016
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Patti Meeks posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your tragic loss, I pray you will find comfort in each other. Grod Bless. My 3 year old granddaughters mother is fighting the same battle with herion. I'm afraid she's going to overdose. This little girl l loves her mom & misses her so much, and she's still alive.
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Terri posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you so much for your candid obituary. I know you are hurting, and although I dont know, I am sorry for your loss. So many people need to see your post, naybe sone good will come of this. Please continue to spread the word of this terrible addiction.
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nancy sadowski posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am truly sorry for your loss. I to was an addict and buy the grace of God and my family I was able to over come my addiction, it was a long hard battle, thanks to God and my family I went on to live my life and be a real mother to my children. And not a min.too soon. Once again I am sorry for your loss, God bless and always remember him for who he was as a person not his addiction, so that he Mau rest in peace knowing he was loved and will be missed dearly God bless . Sincerely Nancy Sadowski
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My heart breaks for the loss of your beloved Shawn although I did not know Shawn his obituary came up on my face book news feed and I shared it.Your courage of writing an obituary of the truth of his passing Should be shared I personnaly have lost three wonderfull childhood friends over this past year also.So many are losing the battle with this addiction.It does not make them bad people, just those who could not kick away this terrible monster. With all the love I write this and with tears in my eyes for your family and friends. May many hugs and lots of love surround Shawns friends and your family through this time and beyond. <3
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Matthew Fredette posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart is in pain for you and especially his daughter. I have lost so many, as we all have to addictions. I want to personally Thank you for telling the truth about how a addiction affects all that know or love someone with a drug problem. R I P to all that have passed on from the pains of addiction to be with Our Lord in Heaven, you have finally found peace, enjoy it.
I pray that this will help at least one person stop or never pick up again.
Sincerely Matthew J Fredette 7x70
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Eileen DeGregoriis posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have lost so many to the drug Heroin. I can only imagine your pain at losing Shawn, but I can understand and relate to what you went through while he was using and trying to stay clean. Thank you so much for your very brave and honest obituary. I hope that it helps other victims of heroin before it is too late for them. God bless you, Eileen
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Brenda Wilcox posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I know you not but your families love for you is highly evident in their beautiful tribute. I pray for your family and friends and those traveling the heartbreaking journey you went down. My prayers, my thoughts and my love are with the family now and in the days to come.
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Kathy Hutchindon posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I pray for your family. You have suffered an unexplainable senseless loss. A young man with a supportive loving family was taken from you. I lmow this is a problem across America. It is a growing problem in our small Michigan community. I have a 24 year old son and he has lost friends to this. I have talked with him and he says he is smarter than that and not to worry. I do worry. I'm sure Shawn thought he was smarter and could handle everything. I pray I never have to feel this loss and that you find comfort in knowing you are thought of during this time. Much love to you all.
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Deana Harrison posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss; I also lost my son to a heroin overdose August 21, 2013...he was only 26 and also fought hard to get clean.
My hugs and prayers are with you and your family; please check out my group page I started after losing my son to help fight for change, end the stigma, educate, and hopefully save lives
Project Hope Michigan
https://www.facebook.com/groups/531536313581606/
We also have Project Hope groups in TX, MD, FL, IN, NY, VA, WV, PA, and DE but welcome new admins for more states or to help our current groups so if you are interested please inbox me. "Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much" Helen Keller♡
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You don't know me and I didn't know Shawn. I'm from Punxsutawney, PA but a mutual friend had his obituary on her Facebook page. I couldn't help but be curious as to what took the life of such a handsome young guy. Let me tell you how incredibly proud I am of you as his family to tell the public his cause of death and put the paragraph in regarding what happens with heroin use. My step-son died of a heroin overdose in March 2009 and my step-daughter fights addiction also. You all have my deepest sympathies for your loss. I hope peace comes to your hearts knowing there are people who care even though they are miles away and don't know you.
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Lorie Morrissey posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for the loss and the heartache that your family is experiencing now my brother died on March 30th of this year of an accidental heroin overdose he was clean for 10 years and he slipped and it only took one or two times before it took him away from us forever
. Thank you for such a beautiful obituary and not hiding the fact that he died from an accidental heroin overdose.. once again my condolences to all of his family and friends and loved ones as you travel down this road now without him may God wrap his arms around you all and help you find peace
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Lorie Morrissey posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for the loss and the heartache that your family is experiencing now my brother died on March 30th of this year of an accidental heroin overdose he was clean for 10 years and he slipped and it only took one or two times before it took him away from us forever
. Thank you for such a beautiful obituary and not hiding the fact that he died from an accidental heroin overdose.. once again my condolences to all of his family and friends and loved ones as you travel down this road now without him may God wrap his arms around you all and help you find peace
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Leslie VonWolf posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Greetings Loved ones of Shawn. I do not know Shawn; His obituary was brought to my attention by a fellow recovering addict like myself. I amtouched deeply by your love of Shawn, and your courage and honesty in motivating other addicts to get help. My tears are surely not as great as yours over the loss of your beloved Shawn. On behalf of him, I thank you, will try harder to live a clean life, and pray for your peace. Love and God Bless,
Leslie
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Mary spicer posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I don't know this nice looking young man but my heart is saddened cause I have a son I'm very sorry for your loss I hope that I never face this ,we're just at gods mercy everyday & I hope he will comfort your hearts .
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Donna Roberts posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Our deepest sympathies to your family and friendsb
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cindy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I don't know you and I didn't know Shawn but my heart goes out to all of you. I will keep you in my prayers that all the good memories will get you through this sad time.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal.
Love leaves a memory no-one can steal.
my deepest sympathy <3
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Amy posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I have no idea who Shawn is but I saw this article and am praying for peace and comfort for the entire family. May he rest in peace and have no more suffering.
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Carolyn..Bristol,Tn posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My sincere thoughts and prayers. My son at only 22 just found his father dead in bed at only age 52 from accidental drug overdose. You are not alone...:-(
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May God bless you all and give you peace,guidance,and understanding forever more...in his Name I pray, Amen
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Dawn posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sending my condolences to the family and all who loved Shawn. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I commend and applaud you for having the courage to be honest about his death in hopes to help another. God bless you and may God rest Shawns eternal soul.
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Amanda Drew Bell posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart and prayers go out to each and every soul he touched... I just lost My Son in July... He was one Amazingly Awesome, Intelligent, Kind and Loving Son, Brother , Dad to 3 boys 8,6&3 yrs old, Nephew, cousin and friend ... Depression, diabetes and other health issues not to mention the intentional mental cruelty and mistreatment from "significant others" and life itself caused such horrifying sadness and self-doubt that he started believing he deserved how he was being treated and after relentlessly attempting to save his Children's Mothers and get them to stop using he ended up joining them in using. Drugs eased his physical pain but intensifies any depression, and lack of self worth that he sadly reached the point of no return... After being horribly mistreated he started Believing everyone was better off without him and he could never have been any further from the truth... As I know your hearts hurt as Our families do and there is no greater pain than what has happened .... My sincere condolences
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Tiffany moon posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for bringing light to the horrible face of drugs I'm so sorry he lost his fight may this never happen to another family.
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Kimberly. helms posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My heart is with you drigs took my son as well and I am praying for comfort for your gamily
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Tammy OBriant posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Dear Family of this handsome young man. My son too has this terrible addiction. He's been clean for 3 months now. I just wanted to thank you for sharing his story. If it saves just one life it is well worth it. I sent this to my son and can't wait to hear his response.
May God bless Shawn and his daughter and wonderful family.
Again thank you so much for sharing your story and I am so terribly sorry for your loss!
Sincerely,
Tammy OBriant
Roxboro, NC
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I did not know Shawn, but I know the struggle of addiction. So I just wanted to light a candle for him...As sad as this is, who ever made this page, did an amazing job..!!
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Hannah Newton posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I came across this obituary in a friend's timeline. I was deeply moved by this young man's story and that of his loved ones. I can only imagine losing a loved one to addiction. I pray that you may all find some sort of peace as you mourn his loss. I also pray that others will read this message and that your strength may be felt thru it leading them to the help they need. God Bless your family and give you comfort in the time to come.
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Pyrette Pyro posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
This is so true. I am sorry for the loss that you all are enduring at this time. I have lost my mother, Unkles and my best friend. My heart goes out to you all.
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Emily Zenon posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I'm sorry for the loss of your loved one. I pray that God heals and wraps his arms around his child. Letting people know of how he was is really a nice thing to do. People need take heed to that because God has better plans for us to have a better life and have a bond with our kids and family. I'll be praying for yall may he rest in peace
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Sarah posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Thank you for sharing Shawn's story. I'm sorry he wasn't able to find a way out.
Please know that your honesty and frankness is giving Shawn a legacy that is being carried far. I've never met him, but unfortunately, I've seen his struggle in a loved one of my own.
I hope you can find solace in knowing that your family is not alone. And, thanks to you, others like Shawn and your family will know that they are not alone.
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Kristen Michelle Seefeldt posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I am truly sorry for your loss. I want to thank you for such a beautiful obituary. So many families are ashamed that they lost a loved one to the disease of addiction. I applaud your courageous honesty and appreciate your compassion. I too have the disease of addiction. I am recovering. Your message is so needed among our afflicted. There is help, we can recover, we can heal and I am so sorry Shawn lost the fight, but through your willingness to share his story others may live, survive. God bless your family! I pray other families follow your lead because if they do someday.. all will recover and no more will have to lose the fight! I love you for this.
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Angela Laughlin posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. On Friday, October 7, 2016, our small community of friends, co-workers, & family also lost a loved one to a drug overdose. He was a son, brother, husband, father, friend, a great nurse and paramedic..... He was only 31. Drugs indeed ruin many lives & help is NEVER out of reach. Thank you for sharing your story, maybe your tragedy will help save someone else's life. May God comfort & hold you during this time of need.
~Angela
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Christy Blackham posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
May the God of all comfort be near your family.Shawn sounded like a remarkable young man and I'm so sorry his life didn't last longer.Your honesty was brave and -beautifull and was complete Truth.Thankyou!
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Simone Rel posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. My prayers as with your family at this time.
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Michael Barbara Peterson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
March 14th 2016 the day that will live forever. That's a day our Benjamin turn forever 26. Heroin got him as well. I feel the exact identical same thing that you people feel and I cry for you and I pray for you. Heroin needs to stop now
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Simone Rel posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
So sorry for your loss. My prayers as with your family at this time.
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tonya mobley posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Hello my name is Tonya and i live in Louisville Kentucky. I do not know your loved one but your words in his obituary hit me lika a ton of bricks. I have a 19 year old son who is a heroine addicr and.he has been found once already unresponsive with no heartbeat. I thought it would be his rock bottom but it wasn't. I want him to read your words and maybe it will hit him like it did me. I am so.sorry for your loss but thanks again for the amazing words.
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Michael Barbara Peterson posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
March 14th 2016 the day that will live forever. That's a day our Benjamin turn forever 26. Heroin got him as well. I feel the exact identical same thing that you people feel and I cry for you and I pray for you. Heroin needs to stop now
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tonya mobley posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Hello my name is Tonya and i live in Louisville Kentucky. I do not know your loved one but your words in his obituary hit me lika a ton of bricks. I have a 19 year old son who is a heroine addicr and.he has been found once already unresponsive with no heartbeat. I thought it would be his rock bottom but it wasn't. I want him to read your words and maybe it will hit him like it did me. I am so.sorry for your loss but thanks again for the amazing words.
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tonya mobley posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Hello my name is Tonya and i live in Louisville Kentucky. I do not know your loved one but your words in his obituary hit me lika a ton of bricks. I have a 19 year old son who is a heroine addicr and.he has been found once already unresponsive with no heartbeat. I thought it would be his rock bottom but it wasn't. I want him to read your words and maybe it will hit him like it did me. I am so.sorry for your loss but thanks again for the amazing words.
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Lynn posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
Sorry for your loss may god continue to protect your family during this very difficult time in you all lives
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Joanne Edwards posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
My deepest sympathy goes out to your family.im so sorry.i know.my son guy was killed in 91.was shot in a pizza place in new Haven.i know the pain you endure.my heart goes out to all may he rest now.
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Taylor posted a condolence
Monday, October 10, 2016
I didn't know Shawn but I want to offer my condolences to his family and friends. Let his story forever live. So sorry for your loss. Please keep sharing his story. I have one to many family members and friends addicted to that devilish drug. RIP
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Tammy Robinson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
This broke my heart cause I too have a daughter battling herion addiction. I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. May God hold each and everyone of you to help yal at this most difficult time. I am praying for yal. God bless
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Sandra Vincent posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I did not know Shawn but read this obit on fb. I truly believe through Shawn's Story there will be people who will step away from drugs and lives will be saved. Please don't let Shawn's Story end here. By telling his story you will find comfort and peace. Do not let his death be in vain but rather a way to reach out to many who are suffering as he did. Shawn's Legacy shall live on through you. Start with schools for they are full of drugs and evil these days. Someone will listen, someone will be saved......many will follow many will be saved. One Story one of persons addiction can be the healing hand that many will follow. May God wrap his loving arms around each and everyone who Shawn ever had known and those who weap for him find peace in the arms of the angels God Bless.
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Theresa Ruble posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Though I didn't know Shawn, my heart goes out to him and to all of you..his family and friends.
Thinking of you and remembering you in my prayers. May God give you peace,strength and courage through this difficult time.
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Kathleen Caudill posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your horrible loss. You serve our communities well by your open plea and loving words. Thank you. Thank heavens, Shawn lives through his baby girl and the entire family. I live in Delaware but learned of Shawn's passing and his obituary via facebook. Your caring words will surely help someone.
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Karen Burst posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My condolences to the family . I don't Shawn or any member in his family . I saw the obituary posting and thought what a nice looking young man ,, had a whole life ahead of him .. very sad
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Sorry for your loss
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So sorry for your loss.
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Kris posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I am a mother of a recovery addict. This is very sad! Drugs take control of every aspect of ones life, and those around him/her. Praying for peace for all of Shawn's loved ones. He doesn't have to fight anymore, he is free. His story touched me deeply.
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Teresa McDowell posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you to find comfort and peace during these trying times. May God hold his family close. May his little girl always remember her daddy and that he loves her. God bless you all...
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Amber rohrs posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am very sorry my prayers with family RIP SHAWN
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Samantha posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss..addiction has demolished. My life as well..3 Dui's..loss of jobs..fighting in front of my precious daughter..that lead me in a 9 mile elluding charge 90 miles an hour and 6 other charges...jail for a year and havent seen my daughter in almost 4 years....when. You are in the height of your drug of choice. No one can stop you...people told me to put my daughters picture in the car and look at her before i would drink..didnt matter..it is your best friend..I fight it everyday..stay sober and doing well almost at my job a year and have my own apt..my relationship with my daughter is just now developing with e-mails..not where i want to be but IT'S ONE DAY at a time...your story touched me and know this it helped me in a time of struggle..keep his spirit alive keep sharing his story...God Bless you and your family
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Samantha posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss..addiction has demolished. My life as well..3 Dui's..loss of jobs..fighting in front of my precious daughter..that lead me in a 9 mile elluding charge 90 miles an hour and 6 other charges...jail for a year and havent seen my daughter in almost 4 years....when. You are in the height of your drug of choice. No one can stop you...people told me to put my daughters picture in the car and look at her before i would drink..didnt matter..it is your best friend..I fight it everyday..stay sober and doing well almost at my job a year and have my own apt..my relationship with my daughter is just now developing with e-mails..not where i want to be but IT'S ONE DAY at a time...your story touched me and know this it helped me in a time of struggle..keep his spirit alive keep sharing his story...God Bless you and your family
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Rest in eternal peace Shawn.
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Greg Bridges posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry to hear about this young mans troubled life, and death. I have a family member that has been clean from this same horrible drug for going on 2 years. I know how this affects the family. I will be remembering the family in my prayers. May God fill this void in yalls life and hearts, with a Love and peace, that only he can give. In Christs Love
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Kati Hobson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
God bless you and your sweet boy! Thank you for honestly sharing your sons legacy. My nephew too suffers from the grip of addiction to herion. I pray that his leaving you too soon and your honesty will help someone out there seek help and bring peace to their family. Keep the faith and above all live and love without regret and with honesty!
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Joyce posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for your honesty in Shawn's obituary. I am sorry for your loss and hope that you will find peace now.
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Mary A. Briggs posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My deepest condolences to Shawn's family and friends. Especially to his little girl who will have to grow up fatherless. These drugs are killing our children and it is so horrible and unfair. Rest easy in love and light Shawn. Blessings to you all.
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Ami Brown posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for the loss of your boy. May God give you the strength to be advocites for this horrible epidemic. Prayers to you and his daughter.
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Danielle Stehle posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. It was incredibly brave of you to try to help someone else who may be suffering an addiction. Thank you for your raw honesty. May God keep you and yours close while in your time of hurt.
Highspire, Pennsylvania
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Rhonda Clark posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss and the great sorrow you now bear. I commend and thank you for reaching out to others who may have a drug addiction and pray that your words and your son's story help them.
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Sharon Brady posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for being brave enough to tell us about Shawn's addiction. So many are lost to these drugs. It's the saddest thing I have ever seen or heard of. Again, my deepest sympathy for your loss.
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Jill Ault posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I know you Dont know me but I am sorry for your loss you are in my thoughts and prayers
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Jessy (a sympathetic stranger) posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My condolences to you all who lost your friend , father, cousin, son...heroin is a vicious drug and I am so sorry that it claimed your loved one. My prayers are with you in healing and sympathy. God bless you...
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Samantha posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Prayers to this mans family. I hope God comforts you in every possible way in your time of need. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Evie posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart breaks for all of Shawns people and advocates that loved this handsome man ... I am an advocate for sobriety so I feel the deep pain ... Shawn rest in eternal peace, your obituary is now part of our fight for sobriety. Much love for you'al <3
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Karen Hubbard posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Shawn, I wished you would have reached out to someone. My brother was the same as you. So, as a family member, I hurt with them. They were there & Im sure you had good friends that would have been there for you. My prayers are with your family!!
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Heartbroken Sister in SC posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
This is a heart breaking story.........I am so sorry for the loss of this young life. My brother did the same thing on Oct 5, 2016 and we too are having the memorial service for him on Monday Oct 10, 2016. I am in Spartanburg, SC..........He was 51 years old and his life was swept away just as Shawn Michael Carter.....What can we do to stop these horrible stories? My heart breaks for my brother and for your family as well...May God be with you and your family.
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lisa kay centers posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Im so sorry for your loss, but thank you for the message you put in his obit, may help save a life. May God give you all comfort and peace.
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Marsha Grotts posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am very sorry for your loss and thank you for being so candid about how he passed. Drugs are killing our youth and destroying lives. So much sadness. I pray for you, your family and friends who loved him so much.
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Annita Rowland posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Please, accept my condolences and most sincere empathy for the loss of this young man. Thank you for sharing his story. Drugs steal many of our babies and we hide the truth. Hiding the truth doesn't help us heal or save others. Praying for peace!
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Darlene Varney-Carlson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I too feel your pain. I lost my 26 year old daughter this past February the same way! She left a 5 year old daughter behind in which I now have custody over. It made my heart ache reading the well written obituary. I wanted to write my daughter's the same way to tell the world of the sorrow and pain we would be feeling on both ends due to drugs. But family members didn't want me to so I could protect the family of embarrassment! I commend you and your family for getting the message out there. Such young lives wasted and I am missing my daughter so much still to this day. I pray now that she is in Gods hands no longer fighting her battle and her pain. I am praying for the same for your family.
My condolences to all that will be feeling the pain and loss for years to come!
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Tasha posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing his story.
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PAT TRIMBLE posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST, BUT THANK YOU WHY HE LEFT SO EARLY.MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL MAY HE BE AT PEACE THANK GO HAS HIS ARMS AROUND HIM..
RIP SHAWN..GOD BE WITH YOU..
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Sherri McNamara posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
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PAT TRIMBLE posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST, BUT THANK YOU WHY HE LEFT SO EARLY.MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL MAY HE BE AT PEACE THANK GO HAS HIS ARMS AROUND HIM..
RIP SHAWN..GOD BE WITH YOU..
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Sherri McNamara posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
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Kim Lewis posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Praying for peace and comfort for your family.
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Mary king posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so very sorry for you loss. He was so young. I just hate what any addiction does to people
God bless you all I pray he's at peace
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Katrina Jones posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm sorry for the loss of your loved one. His obituary is circulating the Web and this is how I stubbed on it. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. His obituary is sad but very true on what any kind of drug will do to your life. May God bless you all.
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Susan Hayes posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know Shawn, but I grieve for your family. May you find comfort in your fond memories of Shawn and the joy he brought your family. Thank you also for the openness about what led to his death and I pray that others might take your words to heart and find the strength to get better. God Bless.
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Susan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
God bless you in your loss. Thank you for sharing Shawn's story
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Christy Mack posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss I didn't know Shawn but I understand what his life Has been with addiction I to am an addict and have lost many special friends to it also take in heart now he is happy and smiling all the time and not suffering any longer take care you all are in my prayers God bless
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Glenda Williams posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Im so sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace now
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Cynthia Rodgers posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Sorry for your loss. I just learned last week that my cousin's son that died 6 months ago had died of a heroin overdose. Too much of this is happening to our loved ones and people are afraid to talk about it. Thanks for sharing. Remember the good times. Thanks again, Cindy
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Diane Casey posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart and prayers go out to your family. We just buried a 21 year old La Cross player in Mt. Pleasant,S.C with the same thing we have started a program for Drug Abuse maybe to late for our family but we hope to help others see the the danger of drugs
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Christy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss I didn't know Shawn but I understand what his life Has been with addiction I to am an addict and have lost many special friends to it also take in heart now he is happy and smiling all the time and not suffering any longer take care you all are in my prayers God bless
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Iya Taylor posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
God bless you and your family. I am so sorry you have to live thru this tragedy. Thank you for you living honesty that shows the face behind the pain of those addicted to drugs.
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Bev Schlager posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My condolences to Shawn's family and friends. Thank you for being bold enough to tell Shawn's story. The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy. But Jesus has come to overcome the enemy. My prayer is that in sharing and bringing this issue into the light, someone else's life may be spared. God Bless.
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Cindy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Iam so sorry for your loss. But my nices will be next to this nasty drug. My heart hearts for you and your family
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Sunday, October 9, 2016
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Prayers for his family and friends ... So sad to see such a beautiful person loose there young life over drugs if they only knew what it really does to your family and body .. He is in the arms of God now may he R.I.P.
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Rev. Regina Foster posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Your clarity and willingness to share your loved one's fight with Heroin is powerful and done with great Love or passion
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Debbie Cleaver posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
As a mother of a 21 year old addict daughter I would like to say that I am so sorry for your loss and may God bless you and your family. The obituary to your son Shawn is beautiful and your honesty is commendable. My heart goes out to all the families that have ever had to experience this type of loss. Let's end the shame.
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kelley posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. my prayers are with shawn and his family.
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Lisa posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
May you find peace in this trying time. Thank you for sharing how this addiction can being from any walk of life. I too have a son who is a recovering addict. Heroin his drug of choice, and I thought that one day I to would be bury my son. However incarnation stop this demon from taking my son. May you remember your son, nephew , father as he was before heroin became his life.
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Julia Evans Schrodi posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know this young man or his family. However, I offer my prayers and condolences to his family, friends, and loved ones. I would also like to thank whomever saw the need to be completely honest about his death and the addiction that murdered him.
This is so very sad and hits home for many of us. My niece is addicted to meth. I have watched her go from a beautiful, loving young woman to a bedridden skeleton. It is hard to tell how much longer she will be of this world. I am so saddened by this young man's sudden death and am mad at the addiction that murdered him. May God bless and keep each and every one of you.
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Stacey Little posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I do not know Shawn or any of you, however I would like to express my deepest condolence in the loss of your loving family member. I also want to thank you for selflessly sharing his story. Drugs is a horrible addiction that take the life of way to many at such a young age. I will continue to pray for all of you.
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Elena posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I saw this obituary on Facebook and it touched my heart. I'm deeply saddened to hear about your loss and was also touched because of how open and honest his story was shared so that others might be saved.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for being so open. I hope this helps someone. I am heartfully sorry for your loss. GOD speed to you and yours.
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(Pastor) Brenda Brown-Grooms posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for your greatness of spirit in talking about your loved one's battle with addiction. May your prayer be answered -- someone who reads your words gets help. Bleossings.
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I didn't know Shawn, but I just want the family to know that I'm praying for them. Any addiction is horrible. God bless you all.
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LaShonda Sigee posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
May God give you comfort in your time of sorrow.
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Stacey burton posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know Shawn or your family but as a recovering Meth addict my heart goes out to all of you. I've been clean for a little over 9 years but it has taken those 9 years to regain all that Satan took away. I'm so sad that another life was lost due to addiction. My prayer for your family is for peace & comfort that only God can give .
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Felicia beal mans oh 30yrs old
First and foremost i want so give my condolances to the family and friends of this young man.. It breaks my heart to see this.. but this could also have been my fate.. i have been an active adict for atleast 6 years.. started with my pain dr puahing oxy .. fentenal.. and colopins on me.. me taking them thinking life was finally better and had changed for the good.. i felt no pain.. had energy..i was happy.. felt like i could be the mother.. the person i needed to be for others because i had "relief".. then missed an appointment and got fired,from dr.. wound up in hospital dying because several types of wd.. my body was shutting down.. never wanted that feeling again.. coulsnt find or afford pills.. hello heroin.. the cheaper cure.. that ruined a huge part of my life.. i am 7 months clean now due to very hard work and pain.. ( mentally..physically and emotionally).. working a sober program and changing my life.. i want to say ty for sharing his fight.. im sorry he passed.. hurts even though we dont even know eachother.. but i have lost a fellow fighter in this war.. im blessed i have made it through the storm.. but addiction is always going to be on my shoulder.. every day is still a fight.. and i hope god protects me for the remainder of my lifes journey also.. he is the only way i have made it thus far.. we dont know eachother.. but i feel all of your pain on both sides of addiction.. i love you and ty so very much for sharing his story and encouraging (sp) others to reach out for help
Felicia beal mansfield ohio addict in recovery 7 mths..
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Dawn Woidan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know your son nor your family. I just wanted to say that I was very moved by your message. Its a terrible loss but I commend you for sharing this honestly and up front hoping it may save another. God bless and I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
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Sunday, October 9, 2016
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Trish F posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing his story, I hope it will save someone else from this tragedy.
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I did not know Shawn. I live in PA but this came across my Facebook page. I want to send the family my deepest sympathy and I will pray for you all during this difficult time. In May, I felt what it was like to lose a loved one to a heroin overdose when my 22 year old nephew passed. It's by far the hardest thing I've experienced. Stay strong!
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Joan Berwick posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear of this young man's passing, and especially due to the circumstances. Our world is being robbed of our youth. Addiction is a terrible thing for the one addicted and their extended family and friends. My heart goes out to you. Our family has also been affected by this horrible drug.
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Jeannie in Kentucky posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for sharing this courageous remembrance of another handsome, life-loving, loved young man.....with a terrible disease. My condolences to all who loved and knew Shawn.
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constance nelson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I don't physically know your family. But I KNOW FIRST HAND what herion and other drugs have done to just my family it effects FAR TOO MANY. Prayers too ALL OF YOU.
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Brenda moore posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My prayer will include this wonderful man! My children have gone thru addictions . I live with fear everyday , because my 18 year old granddaughter self medicats herself with alcohol...
I will always include Shawn in my prayers.. God is loving . I am positive Shawn is by his side!!! So sorry for your loss!!!
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Rest in Peace and may God bless your family and give them peace and comfort
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Jana Rueve posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I did not know this young man, but I can honestly say, May our Heavenly Father accept him into the Kingdom of Glory. We need a war on drugs that steal the ones no one can reach out to to make sure they know how wonderful & special they are!! PRAYERS for the family and for THIS YOUNG MAN!!!
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Heather Vande Kolk posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My dearest sympathies to this young man's family. My sister and I lost our brother in may due to suicide related to heroin. Please know this is not your fault! You tried everything you could do as we did for my brother. Be an advocate in his honor as we have for our brother, spread his me and his addiction as loud and to as many people you can. It will hopefully save his life. Thank you for being as honest as we were in the obituary! Love and prayers to his family!
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We don't know one another but we went through this 5 years ago with our son , so we know the heartache. May you find comfort with family and friends and the many memories you have of Shawn.
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Christy Kenworthy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My sincere condolences. I am sorry for your loss. The insidious infiltration of this heinous disease is ripping loved ones from us and is so heart wrenching.
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Deb Bibary posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss
May you find peace
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Terri posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for the loss of your loved one. I will keep you and yours in my prayers.
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Daren Williams posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I didn't know him but it seems he was caught up in this to. But I have made it through.Sorry to you all so much! You will be in me and my family's prayers!
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Nancy Miller posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My sincere condolences and prayers to Shawns family. I do not know you and can't begin to imagine the heartbreak and pain you are suffering. I'm thankful for your acknowledging the fact that drugs are a problem and pray that somehow we can eliminate this disease. Too many families are suffering due to drugs. My prayers are with all of you for the beautiful life that has been taken too soon. God strengthens you during this most difficult time.
Nancy Miller
Wallingford, CT
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DEBBIE posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I do not know you but I am so sorry for your loss. May God strength and comfort you. I have a son who is also a drug addict. I only hope and pray I do not have to write his obituary. God be with you.
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Desi Durkin posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Our hearts and prayers are with your family, friends and loved ones. We deeply appreciate your family sharing the painful honesty of his death. It takes a village and awareness is so very important.
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sarah posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Last year on October 16th I lost my nephew to an accidental overdose. He sounded much like your Shawn, his obituary was beautifully written. My nephew's name was Alex and he was only 21, he had injected a concoction of drugs although not heroin it ended the same way. Addiction is such a sad disease, and we didn't even know Alex was struggling with it. I will be praying for your family as you mourn your loved ones loss.
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God bless you and your family.
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Tiffanie Brooks posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am first so very sorry for your lose and family is in prayers. I did not know any of you but seen this post from my mother and hair dresser. Shawn seem to be a great guy and I appreciate the story as I will post this and keep it going. As I my self was and always will be a drug addict as well but in recovery it seems forever going on 2yrs now at the same time trying to help my brother to get off of pain pills being that we lost our father 9yrs ago to an over dose of meth and it broke my heart. As I say I will keep you guys in my prayers and keep your story going.
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Steven roberts posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
God bless you and your family and sorry for your loss..
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So sorry! Thoughts and prayers are with you!!
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Jessica posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Prayers and love sent your way to heaven above is where you will stay until the day we come your way
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so sorry our family has been there and know the pain may GOD give you strength
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Lisa Carter sanders posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
You don't know me and I did not know your son,. What caught my attention is that he had the same name has my ex husband, my children's father. I now this to be fact that all the carter's are related. I would like to send you my condolencesand sorry for your loss.
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Fran posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My deepest condolences to your family. I don't know you, but I know the disease of addiction. I have been clean and sober for 32 years. God bless you and all who loved this beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing the truth.
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Debbie posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
From West Virginia - we are very sorry for your loss
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Yvonne noonan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm a total stranger but read this message and I'm truly sad that all his loved ones are experiencing such pain loosing him so young. Hugs and prayers for you all.
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Betsy clark posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Beautiful tribute. So sorry for your loss. I am a nurse and have worked with many who share his addiction. God bless your family and I hope this obituary will help one person
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Laura Roman posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
What a beautiful and heart wrenching tribute to your son, brother, father and friend. I am so sorry for your loss. Heroin is a crude - the devil - and I'm sorry it won over Shawn. My prayers are with you.
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Maggie Reed posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
God bless you all for your openness. I hope Shawn's story will encourage others to seek help. I'm deeply sorry Shawn could not conquer this demon. You knew and loved the real person & know he was trapped. Prayers for peace and healing are with you.
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Gina Hopson Harris posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Sorry for your loss. May the Lord be with you in your time of sorrow. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Jody posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart hurts for your family, I too have a addict son so I know your pain when the phone rings or a knock at the door my hearts in my thoart, we are not suppose to bury our kids , may god give you all strength to deal with the upcoming days and your loss , big hugs
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Mona Brewer posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for the loss of your loved one. I don't know him or your family, but I know there are many families just like yours. I always feared that my nephew would die of a drug overdose, but he was taken by lung cancer. My heart is so touched by this obituary. Thank you for being brave enough to be transparent. My prayer is that someone's life will be spared because of it. My prayers are with you now & in the days & months ahead.
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Glen &Debbie Pierce posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
We didnt know your son but we have been there in your shoes .One year ago we got a phone call on April the1st that our aon had died of a herion ovèdose and we thought somebody was trying to prank us because it was April fools day but it wasnt a prank it was real. He had been in prison for 2 years and was home 6 weeks and lost the fight to herion. Its totally devasting to lose a child and he left behind a beautiful little girl who loved her daddy so much. My God be with the through this trying time and we will prayfor your family. Love and prayers.
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Jackie Hoy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
You have our sympathy, my son at age 34 was released from prison one and a half years ago, after 6 years in prison, and was doing very well until this spring. Now his 15, 14, 10, and 8 year old are going through unnecessary circumstances. Makes me so angry. Kelly was sentenced to 5 months back in prison, & 6 months in a half way house. Basically he will be starting over. I am going tp send Shawn's obituary to Kelly. I am so sorry to hear of your loss., once again. Jackie Hoy
Charles City , Ia
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Donna Warmouth posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Your family is in my prayers. Please know your son did not want to be an addict he wanted so very much to be able to stop. How do I know this because I didn't even know your son. Well I'm also an addict and have been in recovery for 8 months. And as an addict I can promise you this we all hate who that devil drug has turned us into. We have so much hope to be able to stop using but after so many failed attempts we loose hope. But we never loose the love we have for you guys. Once again you are in my prayers.
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Sue Cooper posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Grief unimaginable but thank you for thinking beyond your grief to reach out to others. Amazing.
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Therese posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I read your Sons obituary and it hits very close to home. My Son Brian Gerber was born november 19, 1983 and died February 16, 2006 at the age of 22. I am so sorry for your loss and my heart and prayers go out to you and your family...heroin sucks and so does morphine
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Jaxie Rieb posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I live in up-state new york I do not know this very handsome young man, but i am so sorry for your families lose. My own son is about his age, my daughter a little older, as a mother i know the heartache of watching one of your children on drugs. I pray and thank the lord everyday that he is healed, but i never forget what it was like, nor am i so niave that i think it can't happen again. Thank you for making a very very personal story public. I pray it will help many. God Bless You
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Donna Hollis posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry you loss your son......just lost my son 9-18-16 to the same thing.....clean for 2 1/2 years......praying for you!!!! God bless this family and give them your comfort......
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cindy dyson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with this family. Drugs have affected my life also. There doesn't seem to be an end to these types of tragedies.
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Amy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I know I don't know him or his family, but I just want to say my heart breaks for those he left behind to morn his loss. Another young life lost to that monster. So heartbreaking, may God be with his friends and family.
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Patty Jones posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My prayers are with all of you. I so understand your pain. I have seen addiction a lot within my own family and I continue to not only pray but to try and tell them over and over addiction will take everything from you , the end results being only prison or death if a person does not find a way to get clean. Addiction is a disease that more people need to talk about be open about what it does to them and or their families. I have so much respect for the way you handled this obituary and hope that it will save some lives. I pray your family will find peace by just trusting in God and asking that he direct you into restoring your family after what addiction has done to all of you. The death of this young man, a good young man that just did not find his way out. I can only believe he will have his peace in heaven as addiction is a disease and God knows the heart of a man beyond their addiction. God Bless you all and you are in my thoughts and prayers, Patty
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Valery posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
May God give you and your family strength. It is so very sad that drugs took this young handsome mans life.
Life is hard and I xdont know but I think some people escape through drugs. It also is very hard to stop drugs no matter what precious gifts await you.
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Elaine Smith posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry to hear about the loss of this man I know his family loved so much. I know the heartache that addiction can cause firsthand. I will keep your family in my prayers as you morn the precious loss of your loved one...
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Robert lemonds posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I wish your family well, and recovery from your loss.
There is a Christian based help group call C.R.
Celebrate Recovery, most cities have this.
Check with your local churches. One person helped is enough reason to try.GOD BLESS YOU.
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Mandy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Heroin is pure evil. I'm so sorry for your loss. May his story save many lives.
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jill yanke posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to your entire family. I lost my oldest daughter April who was 26 on Sept. 29th due to a herion overdose. Actually the bags were full of pure fentanyl. My middle daughter 22 years old is also an addict with a 10 month old daughter. Something needs to be done to stop this epidemic. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Kelly posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My condolences to the family of this young man who faught a great battle with addiction, that wasn't swept under the carpet like so many others. This was the most beautifully written obituary I have ever read, and it sheds light on how devestating addiction can be to a family as a whole. This man was lucky to have his family here on earth and now while he rests.
We lost my sister to addiction 4 years ago in her 20's and I wish my family could have been this open about her addiction.
Thank you for this beautiful memory of your son it touched my heart.
May he rest peacefully!
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Amy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Bless your family and friends. Although this addiction has not touched my family, alcoholism has. I pray that your obituary reaches those who need it. Social media does have a positive side. Many prayers.
Amy Sturgill. Wife of James. Severe PTSD from multiple tours in Iraq. Rocky Mount Virginia
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Robin Parks posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for being so brave in your loving but truthful remembrance of your son.
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Renee posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My ❤goes out to this young mans FAMILY GOD Bless comfort them .Bless You For Putting THIS Story out .You may save someone's lifey
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Sue Miller posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss! I commend you for writing such an honest and hopefully helpful obituary! Many Prayers for all!
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Beverly Riffe posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
God bless you all. I am a recovering addict in Bluefield, West Virginia. Thank you for the honesty in Shawn's obituary. Your courage is amazing. You may just save someone's life! I'm so very sorry for your loss. I understand. We lost my sister and brother in one year to this awful disease. Again, bless y'all!!
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April posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Love love love love love to each one who is affected by his death.
I lost my son age 28 last year to drugs in a round about way. Mostly it was a young 15yr old kid who had no respect for life, or people, who also suffers from lack of morals & integrity.
Be happy he is at peace. It's us who have to deal with the loss of the one we loved. Hugs & strength to you.
Thank you for using your loss to make others aware & urging people to step up & seek help.
Sincerely,
April Nastasi
NM
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Bonnie Sparks posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I just want to tell you that I'm sorry for the loss of your son and I think it's really good that you put it in the paper so other other people that are going through the same thing will know that it's okay to share what's happening my daughter also is a heroin addict and I pray every night that she gets up the next morning again I'm sorry for your loss thank you for sharing
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Cindy Lawver posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So,so sorry for your loss, may your memories comfort you at this time
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Mrs. Dayna Beyer posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I do not know Shawn Carter. I read his obituary though in case he was someone I knew or met. I hope this obituary is shared, not only to support Shawn's family and friends, but to also share the obituary in hope that it will save another loved one from Heroin, and bring awareness to other families. Thank you for sharing Debbie Wurth Stephenson - our prayers for Shawn's family.- Post Historian.
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Rest In Peace Shawn.
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Joann posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My prayers go out to his family...they say addiction is hard on those who suffer from it but it is just as hard or harder for those trying to reach out and save the addicted..rest easy he is at peace....
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Jo Ann posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I have worked with heroin addicts for the last several years and I share in your deep grief and loss. May God Bless you and your family and the Soul of your departed son.
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Donna posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My deepest condolences to your entire family. We are wearing the same shoes - I am so afraid for my son too, that he will be taken by heroin too. It has been a long battle, and one that will be fought every day for the rest of his life, however long that might be. As a parent, it has more than devastated me and our family. It has been going on for a long time. We wish you peace and some type of comfort to know that Shawn is no longer beholden to the devil called heroin.god bless you.
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Gene Waugh posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know Shawn, I saw this on FaceBook.
God bless you and your family.
I am 73 years old, and I drank very heavily until 3 years ago. Almost daily I thank God that I never got into drugs---I would never have survived.
Again, Blessings.
Gene
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Gail posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss,I also just lost a daughter september 25th at the age of 30 because if this horrible drug,,,my condolence an prayers for you all
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laura kingsley posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sad to hear of your loss. I don't know you but I know the story. My son is in the grips of an addiction to k2. It has affected every aspect of his and his family's life. I know the struggle you must have gone through, as we are going through it now. I pray for your family and ours.
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Terri Bovee posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I did not know Shawn. But I am very sorry for your loss. I wanted to say thank you to the family for adding the part about his addiction in the obituary because it may help someone, it may save a life. So many times people die of this horrible disease called addiction but the family doesn't speak of it. As a recovering addict myself I say THANK YOU! And God bless your family. May God give you peace & understanding. Love to y'all!
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John lally posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
you have our sincere condolences for the loss of Shawn. We lost our son Timothy this past January to a heroin overdose. Thank you for being so open and honest about Shawn's a struggle. Only through this openness will others feel comfortable to come forward and talk about their struggle. This helps to diminish the shame and stigma that individuals and families struggle with. We have started a nonprofit organization called today I matter. Our goal is to reduce the shame and stigma of these illnesses and support individuals in addiction and their families. I am sure Shawn was a good man and he comes from and obviously loving family. Do not let other people's comments diminish his character in anyway. Our thoughts are with you and this hour of severe sorrow.
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Kathy CT posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for your brutally honest words. That took real courage to write. I am so very sorry for the loss or your beautiful son Shawn. This disease takes so many good people and it does affect the entire family. I am sorry for your pain over the past years. Your son is at peace. I pray that over the next days, months, years that you too will find some kind of comfort knowing that Shawn is at peace. God Bless
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Kathleen Jallow posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart is touched by this young man's death. Far to young to leave this world. My prayers go to his family he left behind hurting and wishing they could have helped him. Just know it is nothing you should have or could have done that took him away. It was the evil drugs that held him captive and stole your child, friend and father. I thank you for the words in his Obituary. I will share this. If it helps one person it is priceless. May God heal your hearts. You knew him in better times he sounds like such a good man. Live with those thoughts as you try to forget the bad. God bless.
Kathleen
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Claudine posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss prayers for healing
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Kathleen jallow posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart is touched by this young man's death. Far to young to leave this world. My prayers go to his family he left behind hurting and wishing they could have helped him. Just know it is nothing you should have or could have done that took him away. It was the evil drugs that held him captive and stole your child, friend and father. I thank you for the words in his Obituary. I will share this. If it helps one person it is priceless. May God heal your hearts. You knew him in better times he sounds like such a good man. Live with those thoughts as you try to forget the bad. God bless.
Kathleen
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Deepest sympathy from Freeport, Pennsylvania.
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Christina Matheny posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
How courageous and difficult it must have been for you to be honest about Shawn's death! My heart and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow!
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Deborah Wynn posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Although I didn't know Shawn or any of the family, this touched me to my core. I too have a friend who's child has strugglyed with this demon heroin. I've seen how it can change not just the addict, but the entire family. I want to send you my heartfelt condolences, but also my sincere admiration for your strength shown in addressing this subject head on! May you find peace in the time ahead of you. God bless you all.
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Cheri blevins posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so so sorry this has happened and my heart weeps for all of you. If only words could heal. Thank you for your last lines- may the reach the next person in need.
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Mr and Mrs M Courtney posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So so sorry to read this. A good story with a great beginning and an unhappy ending. Please know that Shawn and his family are in our prayers.
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Mary from Indiana posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss, thank you for the painful honesty in the obituary hopefully many will see it and because of it find the help they need. Loving thoughts to each member of your family as they learn to live this new version of life.
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Mary from Indiana posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss, thank you for the painful honesty in the obituary hopefully many will see it and because of it find the help they need. Loving thoughts to each member of your family as they learn to live this new version of life.
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Cayley posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Praying for your family. May God provide peace and comfort during this difficult time. God bless you.
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Heart and prayers go out to y"all I didnt know him But this touched my heart, So many lives are taken by this devils drug, So sorry for ur loss
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Loretta posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Prayers sent to you and the family. I'm sad to see that so many young people are affected this heroin epidemic. As a nurse, my goal is to help others but sometimes we are helpless to the power of addiction. May God bless your family always
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Kathy Jones posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I did not know Shawn, but this came up on my Facebook and I couldn't not send you a message...I am so sorry for you loss of this beautiful young man...I know of this addiction problem from my stepson, he is a lucky and blessed young man who got away from it...we never knew until he was arrested. It has been 7 years since that arrest and his recovery was not easy, but he got through.
Shawn sounds like he was a wonderful young man who got caught and the fight out was just too much. I will pray for your strength and that in something, you will find comfort to help you through each day.
May God wrap his loving arms around you to remind you that you are not alone.
Kathy Jones, Chatham,NY
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I didn't know Shawn but I read his Obituary and just felt the need to say how sorry I am for your loss and to let you know that your family will be in my prayers.
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Karen Ockels posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
May God bless you as you go through this sorrow, I too had an addition God saved me and helped me get my life back. Such a beautiful obituary, a testament to your love for him. My prayers are with you. God bless
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Gods keeping to the family I am so very sorry for your loss.
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God be with you at peace as you grieve the loss of Shawn. His story is like so many others. I have need of prayer for my son also.
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Barb posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I don't know your family but was very touched by your story. You see, I have a step-son who is a drug addict and your story sounded extremely familiar. I appreciate you being so honest about your story and pray it will help others. I pray for my son and hope he will turn from his demons before it is too late. God bless your family and my sincere condolences.
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Sandy Farley posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know Shawn but I do know his story, I am a mother of 2 sons that have been involved with heroin one is clean from it now with the help of suboxone I have seen it destroy so much of their lives and I just expect any day to receive a terrifying phone call. God be with all the family, I am sorry......
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I am praying for your family. I traveled the same road 45 years ago and am blessed to be where I am. I will continue to pray for your loss.
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Debbie posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a daughter to this drug. I still have a son that's a addict. I pray that he doesn't end this way. Prayers to all of you
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Prayers for Shawn family...and friends.
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Destiny Perez posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss may God give your family peace and love in your time of grief....prayers for the family
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Rose Beale posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I've been with my soulmate for 13 years, after the first six months I was already lost hook line and sinker with him in my life. That was the first time and how I found out he had a past, the first time that I saved his (I'm an RN). I left him six months later I took him back and we did this four times. So his kids that live with his grandparents I didn't ask why, I started raising them so I'm very attached. Now they're in college. His family are enablers and they don't understand why I left him well it's not for them to understand somebody needs to do something about the hairline not only the heroin but the additives when they cut it up is/are the killers. I lost my soulmate, I'm 50 and I don't care what everybody says I will never fall in love again he was it for me. I am so so sorry for your loss I wish I could think of something we can do it they haven't thought of yet. I expose, snitch etc. that's all I can think of to do. My heart cries for you and yours.
My sincere sincerity,
Rose Beale
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Melissa McIlvaine posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm extremely sorry for your loss.
I hope that everyone reads your obituary what a message it sends..
I plan to share this from Missouri..
My thoughts and prayers are with your family...
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Vickie Durham posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry. I appreciate your obituary of your precious son. We have been through this horrible thing also with a cousin. His parents also brought attention to the devil, heroine. I pray for a world without these family destroying drugs. Love and prayers.5EtNL
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JeanneSpivey posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So very sorry for the loss if your son, daddy, brother, uncle and friend,may God comfort each of you and bring peace !
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Sending my deepest sympathies to the family from Indiana...
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Robin Bondurant Wood posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Although I cannot fathom what your family has gone through, I feel like this can and does happen to anyone. My prayers are with you through your loss. I'm lighting a candle for Shawn's spirit to go to the light. I hope your obituary for Shawn helps at least one person. Just know now you don't have to worry about where or with whom he's with. Shawn is safe now in the arms of God. My condolences to the family and friends. Thank you for taking the time to read this message. -Robin Bondurant Wood, NC
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Kim Chapman posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Thank you for seeing past your own grief to share your story honestly. I believe someone will read these words and they will make a difference. May love surround your family.
In sympathy,
Kim Chapman
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I light this candle in memory of your precious son - Shawn Carter. I pray this candle will light the way for those addicted to seek and find help to recover.
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Extending my deepest sympathies, from Virginia! Thanks for sharing your post in hopes that other lives can be saved. An awesome gesture. Prayers for you all, especially his daughter.
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Maryland Patty posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
May God be with the family of this young man.
My heart goes out to you... I myself lost my daughter to addiction... There are no words that i can say to stop pain but always remember God is with you and he will not give you more than you can handle... My thoughts and prayers are with you all...
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Wanda J. Henderson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
There are no words to comfort you. My heart aches for all of you. Shawn was such a handsome man. My grandson is also a Heroin Addict. I pray he will read this and learn something and get the help he so desperately needs. May God hold you close and give you peace.
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Joan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so very sorry for the loss of your loved one I pray God will will give you the peace you may be seeking. But I also want to say thank you for sharing the brutal & horrific truth about heroin which maybe more so than any other drug is stealing joy from its users and breaking families and communities apart; permanently. God bless you all
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Lisa Burch posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers for all of you God bless you
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Christine Paiva posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I just read this tribute and absolutely felt your loss. Too many young people end up this way because of this addiction. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Bev fox posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Although I do not know you, I want to offer my sympathy. This horrible drug is affecting many, way to many lives. It has taken a friend.
I will pray for strength.
Sincerely,
Beverly Fox
Hudson,NY
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Kathryn McGinnis posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My prayers are with the family. Being one who lost a sister last october to the same type of incident its hard for others to truly understand the greif the family suffers with
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God be watch over you and help you in the feature as you deal with the loss of this precious love one. In Jesus name Amen!!
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Chuck posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am sorry for your lose. I did not actually know Shawn or the family but I have a deep respect for your honesty in this and for you reaching out for others that are caught in the grips of addictions. God bless you and will be praying for you all.
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carlene gauler posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I do not know this family but my heart grieves for them. I lost my daughter in Jan. 2015 and I can understand your pain. May God comfort you all in his loving arms.
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Carm Merola posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I did not know Shawn but I wanted to reach out to you and extend my sincere condolences My young cousin passed away two weeks ago at the age of 21 from a heroin overdose so I feel your pain.
I will be praying for Shawn and for his Entire family during this very difficult time.
The posted obituary speaks volumes and I hope the right people will read it and act on it.
Prayers
Carm Merola
Willoughby Ohio
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My Prayers are with you. God is with you. So many are in the same battle. I do not know you but you are my neighbor. Everyone is my neighbor. My prayer is that someone will learn from your loss and that you will be held my the arms of my Loving Father.
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My prayer is sent your way as I don't know any of y'all, complete stranger but I know the struggles of being an addict. I'm sorry for your loss as I'm sure he was a wonderful person.
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Noreen S from GA posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I will be praying for you and your family tomorrow.
I know first hand how heroin effects not only the addict but the addict's family. I have twin girls who have been addicted for several years. The managed to keep clean for a short while, but always seem to go back to it. It is powerful enemy. It has stolen their lives, friends, and health. Many of their friends have died from overdoses, yet they still go back.
My only hope I have is that God will turn this around and that they will find the special purpose they are meant to have and walk forward with God.
Blessing, thoughts, and prayers.
Noreen S.
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Dinah Jones posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for sharing your precious one and reaching out to other hurting people. My heart truly hurts for your family and friends. May God wrap each one of you with arms of mercy and peace. I will remember you.
Dinah
Indiana
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Teresa Fallin posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. This touching obituary has reached me here in Salisbury, NC. Thank you so much for sharing Shawn's story, talents and struggles. This will help many people, both families and those facing addictions. May God bless you with peace. May Shawn now rest.
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Marjie Ashley posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Send my deepest condolences to your family. Addiction is such a terrible disease... I am a recovering addict with 11 tears Clean and Sober as of October 17 2016. It breaks my heart to loose another person to this devestating disease. May you find eternal peace. My prayers and thoughts to the family...my God hold you all close in your time of loss ❤️
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Gale McComas posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss!! My prayers are with you!!! I lost my only son Travis ....July 7th this year
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betty marrone posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
so very sorry for your loss, our prayers are with you and your family..
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Darrell L. Weaver Sr. posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
The transparency really made me view my own life and how I live! May God bless you and yours during this time! So sorry for your loss!
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My condolences to the family. May peace be with you all.
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Hope Foster posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I just happen to see this tragic obituary on facebook. I am so sorry for your loss. No words can express how much my heart breaks for his daughter and the rest of his family.
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Prayers for family and friends
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Sandy Van Fleet posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So very sorry that he lost his life to this terrible drug of the devil. My prayers to the whole family for peace. Thanks for sharing his story. Maybe it will save someone else.
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Rosanne Shea posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Please accept these sincere condolences from a stranger. It could have,been my son, or his best friend or any of a number of people close to us who struggle with the addiction. Bless you and thank you for your honest, frank story of your dear Shawn's struggle. May peace come to you all.
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Laurren posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. I wish you all peace and understanding through this journey of life.
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Mary Ann Gleason posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I read this about this beautiful young man and just want you all to know my heart goes out to all he loved and left behind! I too am still grieving for my Grandson I lost March 1st..he was just 29.. to Heroin. I have never heard of so many of our young children dying from this horrible drug till I lost our beloved Jordan. Please know that there are many of us out there feeling your pain, trying to get get people to understand it can happen to anyone. God Bless you and your family!!
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John C. Robinson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I understand this terrible situation all to we'll. I've lost a brother, friends, and people that I just know from family and friends. Prayers for the family and friend's, and guidance and strength to get through this and to bring understanding to those who are having or dealing with this type of situation that this family and other families and myself that went through and are dealing with the loss of a love one. In Jesus name I pray,amen.(I hope this worldwide problem get resolved some how everyone need's to help to end this crisis before it's too late. For some it's already to late for them. So we need to stand up and fight for those who have left us due to this evilness. Because we have other love one's and we don't want this to happen to them or us!!
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Debbie Fitzhugh posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your family's loss. I hope and pray his story of his short life and fight with drug addiction will inspire others to get help. You are a brave family. God bless you all.
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Kimberly posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
God Bless you and your family ....I can only imagine your pain and sorrow...Thank you for sharing ..I pray it opens the eyes of many others that are losing their world to Heroin....
Prayers sent for comfort and peace in your hearts,
Kimberly K.
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Susan Robertson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm sorry for your loss! I'm sending love and prayers, in your time of need ,sorrow ,and grief .God bless! You and my the Lord wrap his loving arms around you all!
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Janet Limanen posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Please accept my condolences. My thoughts & prayers are with your family at this time. I never met your loved one, but our son passed from an overdose as well. There are no words that anyone can say to make this any better or easier. May God comfort you during this time.
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Holly posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for your words muy heart and thoughts are with your family. I lost my cousin/ best friend at the age of 21 I honestly know what your feeling and it is horrible. But keep God strong on your life and hearts
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Joanne Witwer posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I feel deeply for your loss. I have been in your shoes for years and can only imagine how you feel, because I have imagined many times how I would feel if I got that news. My daughter, 29, an addict of 10 years, with a beautiful 3 month daughter of her own. Always trying to do the right thing and kick the beast. In and out of rehab, never being able to truly relax, I thank my lucky stars that she has given me a wonderful grandaughter who is a clone of her. I see my daughter as a baby every time I look at that little girl. My daughter is getting out of jail for the typical pv violation on October 30. We all hope this is the one, this is the time she will get it right. We all love her so much. My soul is tired, but I will go on, hoping, wishing, worrying and loving. Peace.
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Tina Whitlow posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am from Illinois and do not know the family. However, I do know the heartache that comes with drug addiction. My heart breaks for each and every family member. I applaud you for speaking out on this subject as it is a difficult one to talk about. My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you. God Bless You All.
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Jeff McKay posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Although I did not know Shawn personally, (saw this through my friend), I have worked with thousands like him in the field of addiction treatment. I want to thank the family for this honest obituary and not giving in to the societal shaming of this brain disease.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Shawn's family! May he rest in PEACE!
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Nita Jeffries posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
To the family of Shawn Carter,
I did not know your son. I read the obituary because someone I know shared it. It touched my heart deeply and my heart and prayers go out to you. May God bless you and give you peace, as Shawn has peace now. I commend you that you reached out to others giving them hope and a way to turn their life around if they need to. My conolences go out to you. May God bless you. Thank you for the courage and selflessness you portrayed in Shawns obituary.
Nita Jeffries
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Deborah posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for sharing this deeply personal part of your lives. My deepest sympathies to your family. God Bless you all!
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Samantha Vaughn posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
May the family of Shawn know that his story isn't in vein and god bless you all prayers for the family
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Carol Masterson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Heartfelt condolences to all who loved this beautiful, unfortunate young man. Thank you for sharing this tribute.
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Jackie Davis posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
To the family and friends of Shawn Carter:
I mourn the loss today of your beautiful child. I too lost my only daughter 5 years ago to an overdose. She was an addict for years. Although we tried everything we knew we had her only for a short time. I know that Shawn is with my Cindy now along with others like them and they are basking in peace and love together. Their suffering is over.
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Randy Abbott posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for your courage to be completely open and honest. I know how difficult it is to do that and pray that your family will find peace and strength to continue to fight this dreadful disease.
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Jody Telando posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am sorry for your time of loss. Thank you for sharing this story. May you find peace.
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Diane Snow posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I do not know your family but my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God wrap his arms around you and comfort you.
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Peggie Hurst posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for your families loss. I did not know this young man, but I can tell he was loved dearly by many. I applaud your courage to be honest about Shawn's life. I hope he has found whatever drove him to this horrible addiction and I hope he is truly happy now. His story will make a tremendous impact on many people who are in the same situation. Blessings to all of you.
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Debbie Steinfort posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Hi I'm so sorry for all of you and yours. This epidemic has made so many people and their families feel the same pain as all of you. I myself have gone through it with a couple of friends and their families and to watch it tear their families apart is so hard. It hurts to watch them go through all the things they go thru and the promises they make to themselves and their friends ad families thinking they can get out if the grasp of that hold themselves but unless there's help by those around them and understanding by ALL those who live & care for them they're going to stay under those constant promises,no matter how hard we pull and fight to try to help them they are going to be pulled back,unfortunately constantly being hurt no matter how hard they try to break out of it. And now with it being laced with fentenal(?)I'm sure that's spelled wrong,I'm sorry. We just recently lost a friend in July due to this constant fight so I do know what I am talking about.
Please know I am praying with ALL of my heart and hope that someday there actually will be a way for this to be taken more seriously when they reach out for help.
May God be with All of you at this time of pain.Much Love & Many prayers
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Claire Rowan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I did not know Shawn. I do not know any of his family or friends. I came upon his obituary on my newsfeed on Facebook... and I read it. Thank you to Shawn's family for being honest... for using their personal heartbreak and tragedy to reach out to others like Shawn. I pray that God gives you comfort, peace, strength and healing. I also pray that your selfless act of reaching out to others who struggle with addiction, results in others being saved. I did not know Shawn... but I do know he would be proud of you. God bless.
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Gina Tralongo posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
While I do not know Shawn or his family personally, I am so touched by their honesty. Opening up about this must have been hard, but loosing their son will be the hardest thing to ever go through. I wish his family peace and I pray that this epidemic of heroin will end. As a parent of two children this is my worst fear...thank you for sharing this and my prayers are with you all.
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Diane McDonald posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so very sorry that the evil heroine stole your loved one with is wicked lies. I'm hoping that your memories offer some comfort. God bless.
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Mary posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I also do not know your family but I am terribly sorry for your loss. I applaud your brave decision to include Shawn's struggle in his obituary and how it affected his family. Saying prayers for your family and those struggling with drug addiction.
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Kristi breheny posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss, he was a great guy!
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I don't know this man but, I read the obit, I want to 1st. offer my condolences to all that loved him, I want to thank u for not being ashamed to say he had a problem with drugs and that the drugs took his life, most family's won't do that, but, I am happy that u did , for it may save some ones else's life, I had a brother that committed suicide and it was embarrassing to say, it took me about 3 yrs. to start talking about it and if I can help one person from doing suicide , it will be worth it, so, my heart goes out to each and every one of u , and may God richly bless u all., Love, Rose.
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Margaret bostian posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Sorry for ur loss I don't know yall or ur son but sorry bout ur son
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Patricia Hill posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I as well do not know you or your family, but am so impressed at your honesty. May the writings you created today, not go to waste and save another's life in the future. I am also a Mother of a man who used , but he saved himself. The World does not like unpleasant issues like this, for more then 15 years I worked in the Community trying to get people to face reality. They did not want to listen and we are now paying all of the consequences in the Community. Thank you for your Courage and loving him enough to share the real story in hopes of helping others !! So very sorry for your loss !!
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Teri Hammond posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
What a wonderful tribute❤. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.
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Susan Elwell posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I don't know you but I lost my 18 year old daughter 3 months ago. I am sending prayers and love your way to find the peace you need to go on in life. I also want to thank you for being brave enough to help spread the word about addiction. May your beautiful son rest in peace and may you remember the good times that you shared with him❤️
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So very sorry for your tragic loss.
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Cindi H posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Wow! Instead of hiding this in darkness in shame, u the family brought the truth to the light. This will help so many. God bless u and keep u in his perfect peace. Prayers to the family & love ones.
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Petra U. Tubbs posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I never knew your son, but I know the story. I have an ex son-in-law with a drug problem, he has flat lined a few times, but by the grace of God pulled through. My prayers are with you during this very trying time. I wanted to thank you for being so outspoken and frank in the Obituary, it must have been a difficult choice to make, but the right one. You are not taking anything from your loved one by being truthful, but you are hopefully opening the eyes of other drug addicts, of what the outcome can be, parents can say those things, but that has not the affect as reading it from others.
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Carrie Stiffler posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Prayers to family and friends. May God watch over each and everyone of you as you are going through this difficult time.
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Carolyn A. Slifer posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My deepest condolences. My sympathy and prayers for the family. What a message to the world about the dangers and hurts of the drug,. What a testimony to the world. God Bless you Always in your loss.
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Sandra Rollins posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss he was a handsome man I know what you're saying about the drugs my x left his 3 kids and is in prison now drugs are killings our country our kids they worry about isis we are already in a war in our country it's called drugs that's taken lives and destroyed lives I hope you can find some peace I do pray for you and your family
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Lynn Walker posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss there are no words that can be said to heal your sadness and the ugliness of these decease and the heartache it causes the family. I lost my son last December also to Herion. I will be praying for all of your family for peace.
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Pam posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Very sad story of a very handsome man who lost his way. He must have loved strong and felt less than deserving than he should. I am sorry for this great loss of a dad son and relative. He can rest easy now. I believe he is at peace now. God ease your pain. When you feel the wind blow against your cheek remember him.
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Karen Kovalik posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Condolences to the family. I know first hand it isn't easy looking a loved one to addiction. My prayers are with you.
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Kimberly Pearson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss prayers and hugs
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Kimberly Love posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Hello family & friends.
I don't know any of you, I don't even live close to you, I'm in Ohio, but I too have lost someone to heroin. My 26 year old daughter on April 11, 2015. She also left behind a daughter, plus a son, now 3 & 5.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know no words will help ease your pain right now, I'm not even sure how I got through the funeral, but I did & you will also.
I could tell you so many wonderful things about my beautiful Amanda, as I'm sure you could tell me about your loved one but I felt compelled to write you, as a loved one, that you are not alone. We did not chose addiction for our loved one. If you're like me, you tried everything you could to help him get clean but in the end, the nasty heroin was too powerful to resist.
As much as people try, they just don't understand what we are going through. I found comfort in people who had been in my same situation, some of them strangers at the time. My email address is attached, I'm a great listener. If you need someone, please know you are not alone & can email me anytime.
From the bottom of my heart, I am truly sorry for your loss.
From a heartbroken mom in Ohio
Kim Love
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Melissa Kocisko posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for sharing your incredibly difficult story. My heart goes out to you and your family during this emotionally difficult time. May God's love bring you peace.
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Jana Yarbrough posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Praying for your family.
Jana Yarbrough
West Monroe, La
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Diana Holt posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart goes out to the people who are suffering!! May God give you peace.
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Jan Harper posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you so much for this tribute to your son and also taking time for your grief to think of others you can help. Families like yours can make a difference. So sorry for your loss. It seems Shawn was a wonderful man.
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Amanda shepherd posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Your words are so true. I'm sorry for your loss but I must brag on how you have encouraged others thru this hard time. Your strength is inspirational!
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Sue Gallagher posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Somehow Shawns obituary showed up on my Facebook
Page. Everything happens for a reason I guess. I'm
Trying to figure out the reason I lost my son still. I did not know Shawn or his family, but I know what they are going through. I lost my son 7 months ago, he was 25. My heart goes out to all of you, especially his Mother. Just like Soccer Moms, drug addict Moms "get" each other. From one Mother to another, I can't grasp this pain, it's getting harder everyday. I go through the motions of life but really I'm numb. Shawn sounded like an amazing loved man. I'm sorry all you have are memories now. Shawn is finally at peace and does not have to worry or feel that he is dissapointing his family anymore. That thought is what allows me to go on. Things like this put life into perspective, I don't sweat the small stuff as much. Family means everything! Shawn was not a "looser", "junkie", he was a person who made a bad decision that took over his life. He was a person. He had feelings. He had a heartbeat. He was loved. Bless you all.
Sue Gallagher,
Mother of Eric Gallagher 9/24/90 - 2/15/16
Glen Mills, PA
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Suzi Leigh Miller posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss of Shawn. We lost our Vinnie Krasiejko form Burlington, CT 2 weeks ago from the same horrible heroin fetinal. prayers go out to you..
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Tamara R. posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thoughts, prayers, and sympathy to the family and friends left to go on. Drug addiction affects all who know the addict and sadly drugs have more "reasoning" power than humans. May God bless and comfort you in your sorrow.
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Megan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My prayers and condolences go out to his family and friends. Especially his little girl. This obituary moved me so much. I hope it will inspire others to fight as well.
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Heidi McNeeley posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thank you for your courage in discussing Shawn's drug addiction and cause of death. Your bravery will save the lives of others. The picture of Shawn and his story will be forever in my heart. My prayers are with all of you.
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Debbie Owens posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart truly hurts for all who loved Shawn. I have expected a call as such for 17 years. My precious son is an addict also. I do not know you all but it doesn't matter...my heart breaks with you. Praying comfort that can only come from our Heavenly Father.
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Shawn Adkins posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
First and foremost I and terribly sorry for your loss.....I too battled addiction for many years in the form of alcohol and pills. I am one of the lucky ones that WON the battle. Thank you so much for sharing this story. I ended up getting locked up and taken away from my wife and kids for about a year and it was a huge wake up call! It's actually what got me clean. While locked up I wrote something I would like to share with you. Again sorry for your loss.
Dreams/
Remember that night your kids needed food
But you didn't get high so you was in a bad mood
You lied to your girl about where all the money went
And you know all to well where it all went
Your family's more important than any drug.....Right?
But what about the argument you started last night
The night that caused it all
That took them all away
Your house is now empty
And you have nothing to say
While you were out looking for dope
She still saw that glimmer of hope
Hope of a life
With no drugs involved
And she found just the way
To get that problem solved
She tried to warn you
Time and time again
But you just wouldn't listen
You just couldn't say "when"
Between an empty home
And a soul that feels hollow
Now you know
How that pill feels to swallow
The alarm goes off
The family's already awake
Thank GOD it's a dream
For everyone's sake
So take the time to think
What if that dream was real
You need to stop and think
Just how your family would feel
It's NEVER too late
To get a fresh start
As long as it all
Comes from the heart
So next time you think
About chasing that high
Before you leave
Tell them all "bye"
You need to make a choice
How your life will be
Before it's too late
And that dreams A REALITY
-Shawn Adkins
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Donna Simpson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so deeply saddened by your loss. I know how devastating it is for the family! I lost my 24 year old son two years ago and of course it has changed our lives forever! I continue to be anger that somehow this drug continues to poor into our country and steal more and more young lives. I will keep your family in my thought and prayers!
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Prayers for the family from one addicts parents to another may god be with you ,
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denise reynolds. posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know him, but I have been very much like him. My heart goes out to all of his loved ones! Plz don't judge! We are good people who make bad choices! Addiction is a disease!! Just like diabetes! The wrong choice of what you eat or amount of insulin you give could determine your fate!
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denise reynolds. posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know him, but I have been very much like him. My heart goes out to all of his loved ones! Plz don't judge! We are good people who make bad choices! Addiction is a disease!! Just like diabetes! The wrong choice of what you eat or amount of insulin you give could determine your fate!
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Toni Mattin posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
THANK YOU ~ THANK YOU ! ~~ For having the courage to tell the whole story about Shawn ~ I have fought addiction for the last decade and have lost many friends to this horrible disease ~ I am proud to say I live in the solution now and not the addiction - I pray more families like your, would tell it like it is - An just remember '( It's what he did - But not who he Was !) Sending Love and Prayers to you all ~ and Thank You Again~
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Kelly Hermann posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Sorry for your loss.I hope he is at peace now..Feels no more shame..Wish the best for his family.
I have been thru this with my X"S not to long ago & it's heart breaking..
Once again sorry for your loss.
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Linda Hager posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart goes out to you during this sad time. Thank you for sharing Shawn's issues with addiction in order to hopefully reach others with the same issues. Hugs and prayers for comfort and peace to you.
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Lisah posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So very sorry for your loss. I'll be posting this on my page to spread the word. Thank you for your courage to put it out there.
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RIP Shawn.
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Debbie posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I don't know your family but after reading this I am feeling your pain and sadness for your family.... Your baby boy and beautifull son...I'm so sorry for your loss.....
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Heather Smith posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am praying for your family. My heart aches for yours and the void this precious young man left. Thank God he also left a legacy of love, joy and a blessed baby girl as his life's lengthened shadow. You don't know me but I am a counselor and felt let to send you a message after reading his story. You have my email and if you ever needed to talk I woulf be more than happy to provide my number. God bless you and keep you. May his comfort and love be poured out on your hearts and minds. Peace, love and many prayers, Heather
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Debbie Pearson posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so very sorry to hear this. I know first hand the sadness, hopelessness and helplessness of a loved one's battle and demise at the cruel heartless hand of addiction. God bless and comfort you, and know that he is in a most wonderful place. He is with our Father, the giver of everlasting life. He is complete, alive and well today. No more pain, sadness and suffering. He will be there to greet you when you get there. That is a promise from our Father, our God.
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Margaret LyBurtus posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss I didn't know your loved one but I want to thank you for the message you sent out to others about the dangers of heroin and other drugs.I pray that your message save someone's life and that you have peace in knowing that you may have.
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Rhonda Jones posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Shawn will now be free of the hold heroin has had on his life and is now with our lord. Prayers for the loved one's that have to deal with him being gone. God bless you all.
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Kim posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Heartfelt condolences to your family.
Addiction is a horrible disease that takes far too many young lives.
As a person in recovery myself, I understand how drugs and alcohol speak to you, telling you "they" can solve all the problems in the world.
His obituary was a painful reminder that this is a deadly disease.
I pray someone reads this, sees themselves in the words, and reaches out for help.
Again, sympathy to the family.
Kim
Fort Wayne, Indiana
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Michael posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sry for your loss. I admire the courage of the family for sharing the reality of the disease that claimed This precious man's life.
This was shared with our son who is 35 years old and just five months in to recovery. We pray that your loss will help motivate him even more.
God bless you and comfort you.
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Robert Jones posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Your openness is what is needed as hiding these tragic losses doesn't help those in crisis
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Prayers of peace and comfort
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Tammy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss! I also lost a son at the age of 20, 15 years ago to a drug overdose. It was a patch called Phentynol and then a daughter 1 year and four months later passed due to a car accident. I so know your pain. I wish there was no such thing as drugs but in this world we live in we have and deal with some very bad things. My heart aches for you all and I will keep you in my prayers that God will give you all peace and comfort in the coming days. months and years!
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Vicki Shipman posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
There are those of us who know your family's pain. To lose a Mother and a son is almost unbearable. Please know that you are not alone. Your son is free now. Do not weep for what could have been, only tears of joy for the good times. Thank God for saving your son and rescuing him from his demons. I like to think God needed them more than we did, to fight the good fight. I know your pain. In time it will lessen a bit. Live and love for those who remain. They will glean their strength from you. I pray unceasing for your strength, courage and peace my friends.
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Mira posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Writing this obituary must have been difficult for you however the love you put into it shouts to the readers the pain you are dealing with. How sad it is that drugs have become so powerful and so self-consuming to the user. I did not know this young man nor you. I can feel your pain. Take comfort that God will hold him and he will be whole again.
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Angel Forrester posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I wanna say I'm so sorry for your loss it so sad how herioin took someone so young and had so much to live for and I just want you to know he looking down on you everyday he with each and everyday again my condolences
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I so sorry for ur loss
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Tammi posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Praying for you and your family. Bless you for using your pain in a way to deliver a deep meaningful message to others. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Welcome to the universe! Enjoy your journey of enlightenment...
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Jenni unruh posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
May you find comfort in your time of sorrow. I did not know Shawn personally, but heroin has devastated my world of friends as well. "The afterlife of Billy Fingers", was a tremendous blessing that helped ease the heartbreak & lift the veil of the unknown...
Keeping your family in heart & thought while Shawn is in the loving embrace of the universe
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Joyce rosado posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thanks for your honest story, awareness of this horrible disease is imperative, I am truly sorry for your loss
From a woman in long term recovery
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Shanna Lawrence posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My heart aches for all whom loved him. Thank you for sharing his life with us and now his unfortunate passing. I pray that someone in the midst of their addiction or even thinking of trying heroin reads this. God Bless you.
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Rebekah Morgan posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so very sorry for your loss...love and light and healing prayers sent to Marlee, Kelley, Harry, Levi, Saebryn, James and the rest of Shawn's family that loved him so.
- Rebekah Morgan from Las Vegas, NV
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So so sorry for your loss. Addiction is a battle thats never won because it's never over, you have to fight it the rest of your life. I'm sorry for what all the family and friends had to see and endure through his battle. I hope somehow you find a little peace knowing he is no longer struggling and fighting that horrible battle. Again I am so sorry. NGU. When times get tough and things get rough remember NGU....Never Give Up.
May Peace Be With Each & Every One Of You. I light this candle in memory of everyone who has lost their battle against addiction.
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So so sorry for your loss. Addiction is a battle thats never won because it's never over, you have to fight it the rest of your life. I'm sorry for what all the family and friends had to see and endure through his battle. I hope somehow you find a little peace knowing he is no longer struggling and fighting that horrible battle. Again I am so sorry. NGU. When times get tough and things get rough remember NGU....Never Give Up.
May Peace Be With Each & Every One Of You. I light this candle in memory of everyone who has lost their battle against addiction.
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Sandra Deans posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I would like to say that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I did not know Shawn or any of his friends and family. I want you to know that you have amazing courage and I am so glad that you have reached out, to more than you know, to help others through being honest and forthright about the ugly truth of heroin addiction. This is a horrible, horrible monster that is running rampid in our society. Heroine is not like those in our society, it has no preference of gender, race, social standing, sex, religious believe, occupation, or income bracket. I have lost a person I loved to this monster and the more awareness the better. Thank you for reaching out. May your bitter pain be lessened by the sweetness of your memories of him in his better days.
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Janet posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your family's loss. My family has also been through the struggle with addiction. I have 2 children battling with that demon. Your obituary was very beautiful. God bless you and your family.
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April posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Although I didn't know Shawn,I'm praying for the family...the obituary broke my heart to learn of his death,I have a friend who is a heroin addict and I love her and pray for her daily....again I'm sorry for your loss and thank u for sharing... God bless you
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Shirley Hughes posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
So sorry to hear about your loss. I'm from Alabama and do not know you or your family. But I have family members who are or have been addicts. Praying for family.
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julie pipkin posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry to read of the death of this young man.i live in ashland city Tennessee and we have lost 17 of our young lives this year to heroin overdoses... this is a small town but a huge problem all over the world, I pray for your family and for this young man's soul...
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Karen Hernandez posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Im am very sorry for your loss! This is too close to home! my son is 30 and has 2 children. he is a drug addict also of crack! Im praying for your family! God bless
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Debbie posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I didn't know Shawn but have lived the same loss, you see Oct. 13, 2006 an accidental drug overdose took away my son as well, he would have been the same age as Shawn. I am so sorry for your loss. My only advise is to keep your eyes fixed on God and to seek group and or private therapy, and the support of good friends and loved ones, I'm sure you all have been consumed with trying to save Shawn from his horrible tragedy as I did for my son, but now you all need help picking up the pieces for your own survival. My only peace now is knowing my son is in the arms of his Savior and he will never suffer any more and he now has the peace he always sought. My heart goes out to you all and I will pray for peace and comfort. May God be your constant peace and strength.
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Sheryl McMonigal posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I did not know your son but I definitely could have been the mom who wrote this obit. My son too is a heroin and meth addict. Only by the grace of God has he been able to overcome his addiction and has been clean for a couple years now. He tried everything but God for a while and finally after two 1 year stints in jail he finally gave it to Jesus. Nothing before that mattered, not his two beautiful kids, not his parents, not jobs, not going to prison, not losing his girlfriend or home, NOTHING! He would steal and lie. Rehabs didn't work, incarceration didn't work, but the Lord did. God is bigger than any demon! Before he got straight I too was planning a funeral, I had already give up on my son. I'm so very sorry for your loss and thank you for your bravery in the midst of your pain. Your family and his child will be in our prayers.
Nikea Stone posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My prayers are extended to this family. May God give you strength for today ,hope for tommorrow and peace for the days ahead. I commend you for your transparency in hopes of helping some other family, with such sacrifices the Lord is well pleased.
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Sandra posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm no one to him- a stranger. But I am so sorry for this loss!
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Melissa Wiseman posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I am so sorry for your families loss. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers. I don't know your family. I just happen to see Shawns obituary and it broke my heart. Especially for his young daughter. I pray his obituary will touch many people and especially the one's who have dependency problems.
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Dorothy Lowe posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm very sorry for loss. I will pray for peace for your family. I would also like to thank you for bringing to light drug addiction and additionally for the last part of his obituary. Directing other addicts to help was very unselfish and commendable of you.
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May this candle stat light forever to honor your life. Rest easy.
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Tracey Giacomi posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Sending my very deepest condolences to the lose of this young man. I am a recovering addict and myself know how cunning and baffling and powerful. At the time we don't realize the thief in the night will rob us blind some do recover others lose. I pray for god to comfort u all and his memory carry on for the wonderdul person he is. May you find comfort in all the happy memories you have of your time with him. Rip young man. May you fly high in gods kingdom and surround your loved ones with ur presence and love.
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Darrell Doerschuk posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
My wife of 21 years went home unexpectedly at age 49.I will not say, I know your loss. I have survived many great losses in my life & do understand pain, bewilderment, numbness, rage, depression and too many other things some or all of you may feel as your go thru these dark days. If you know Jesus He will Never leave you. Try to read His Word as much as you can. Surround yourselves with those who loved him but Celebrate his life rather the simply mourning his death. We are praying that the Holy Spirit guides you into the peace Love & Joy of Jesus. You are not on a time table. Grieve at your pace. When ready a Christian grief support group will help. I love you all, Jesus loves you even more. Sincerely Darrell Doerschuk a prison minister an friend of Pastor Greg & Renee's
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Misty posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss ...thank you for having the courage to publish this obituary I think you affect more lives then you ever thought possible for people to read the pure true words from a family that has taken such a great loss but yet still trying to reach people in need of hearing you can get help is amazing and Thank you again sorry for your loss ....
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Sandy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 9, 2016
I do not know your family but wanted to say I am deeply sorry. I am mom and I just can't imagine..xxoo
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Katie posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I have lost many friends this way. Unfortunately some addicts are taken by their addictions way before their time.
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Edna posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Please accept my sincere condolences.I never knew your loved one,but after reading his obituary I felt sadness and pain for him as well as his family.May Shawn find the everlasting love he desperate desired in Our Heavenly Father.Rest in Peace young man-God Bless You All.
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Barb Waltz posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. In sharing Shawn's story may you find peace it might reach someone in need.
My prayers to his daughter and family.
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Sandra Mowry posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry to read of your loss. This is the most powerful obituary I have ever read and as hurtful as it is, I hope that this writing will help someone else before they are written up as an obituary as well. RIP Shawn. Too young to become an angel but God has plans for you. Thoughts and prayers for your family members.
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Emily posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
We just lost someone very close to us to heroin on September 30th. A young man also 32 years old who was so very talented in music and so very loved. His service was a couple of days ago and it filled the entire church. So many were affected and so many feel this same pain that you are feeling now. We are heartbroken and devastated. This has to stop. There have been far too many lives taken by this horrible drug. Thank you for sharing your story. This struck me when it came by on my newsfeed because of the similarity of our situations. I did not know Michael or your family. But having just gone through this, I deeply understand your pain and I will be praying for you with all my heart. Love in Christ, Emily.
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Kim Rhone posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I'm also very proud of your strength in sharing the story of Shawn's life & battle with heroin.
The more people that reads this the greater the chance, just maybe one family will learn about the struggle. For that I praise you. You're family will be in my prayers.
Kim
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Terry Malack posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear about Shawn. Drugs and alcohol are nasty and will take your life, I've seen too much. I'm in AA 23 years and don't drink!!May God give you peace and love, and comfort in this time of soeeoe!!! Prayers for family!
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Rhea posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
This made me very sad. I lost my best friend oct.13 2015 to the same drug. I am cery sorry for your loss as he was the same age as my friend. This drug is prejudice and does not discriminate. I still struggle to this day. I will pray for all of you as you try to find peace. God bless
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Shea Mitchell posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Sending love and prayers to you all. Continue to take one day at a time. GOD got you all!
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Loris Dean posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heart breaks for you. I have a granddaughter with an addiction to methamphetamine and I know how hard it is to watch. You were very honest and brave to write this obituary. My God give you peace.
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I can understand you pain. I lost my daughter the same way. May God give you peace.
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Sara Ann Lynch posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for the loss of this young man. It is so hard to lose a loved one, but especially in this way. I will have all of his family and friends in my thoughts and prayers! I pray that anyone reading his obituary, that may have an addiction, will let it wake them up to the dangers of it and reach them so that they will get help! God Bless you all!
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Rose Hedrick posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I can understand the pain you are feeling. I lost my daughter the same way. May God give you peace.
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Carol posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for sharing the harsh reality!
So very sorry for your whole family. I understand the pain you are going through.
I had a brother. ...same thing 8 yrs ago.
If they only understood the pain and devastation it causes. Maybe your story will touch a life, maybe many will be touched I pray!
So sorry for your loss.
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Nancy posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heart grieves for you all. We have two sons & a granddaughter on herion. Both
my sons servived this horrible addiction but
God was merciful & answered our many prayers & prayers of others. My granddaughter hopefully is recovering from it now. It was a miracle for our sons. I pray for all your family that you will not blame yourselfves & you will find peace in our Heavenly Father, He cares & sends His Love. . . . . .
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Sara Ann Lynch posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for the loss of this young man. It is so hard to lose a loved one, but especially in this way. I will have all of his family and friends in my thoughts and prayers! I pray that anyone reading his obituary, that may have an addiction, will let it wake them up to the dangers of it and reach them so that they will get help! God Bless you all!
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Amanda borror posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for ur lost this has touched me by what all it was said at the end I am a addict and try fighting this everyday I know there is help out there it's like I want it and need it and I just don't reach out for it I try doing it all on my own I have a baby and two older children as well we just lost my older twos dad three months ago from herion as well I promise them I will be here for them that I will not let it take me but god knows the truth it's hard I don't want my family to hurt like u all r and how we still r today to know my daughter can't talk about how she feels or even go to school cause of her dad passing it's like the divl has me and won't let go. I ask my husband that is now in heaven to help me everyday so now it's to where I'm asking to go to rehab and to get away from this place called hell. I'm so sorry again for ur lost just wanted to reach out to u and tell u as well thank u for the end of this it helped me
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Charles Moore posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
We've never met. I don't know Shawn. Please forgive me for intruding. I do know that his story has grown all too common among all nations and yet, is unique to him. I do know death and loss and my heart greaves for your loss. When you want to share something with him and you realize you can't, share it anyway.
May you find peace and comfort, forgive him, forgive yourself. Anger will only cause you more pain if held onto.
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Bonnie K. posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
God bless ur family that is a very nice obituary... I was in tears
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Louise Maynor posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am praying for the family in this time of trouble. You did a very brave thing by describing the toll the drugs take on not only the user but everyone who loves them. I feel that others might be helped by the way this obituary was written. I have never seen one like this. Again may God give you a peace that only he can.
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I didn't know Shawn, but this obituary was heart breaking. I am so sorry for your loss. I have 2 nephews dealing w/this same problem... They need prayers too. I will pray for y'all
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Shavonne pruitt posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know the pain you are going through as I lost my son in March 18, 2016 to this devil. My heart and prayers are with you and your family. May god help you through this very difficult time. Rest in heaven Shawn.
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Rodger Bloor posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heart cries out to the family! Lost my 32 year old son the same way in August! Know he is at rest now!
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Debbie posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss . The struggle is real !!! I pray for his story to touch someone's life and change it. Praying for the family.
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Nicole posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My boyfriend and soulmate is a heroin addict in recovery. These obituaries bring me so much pain, I weep for you and your family from the depths of my heart. May your loved one watch over you and also other addicts so that they may find their way.
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Rhonda posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My condolences to the family. You do not know me and I did not know Shawn. But I just read his obituary and I was so touched by it. This was the first one I have read where it was mentioned someone was a drug addict. I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for your family. Thank you for being honest. God Bless
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I don't know Shawn but I know many with his story! Nothing I can speak would ease the oIn of your nightmare. Please know there are many people praying for your family, and his Daughter. Gods love!!
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Karen Roberts posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Your son's obituary was shared on my Facebook page by a friend. I did not know Shawn, however, i know how difficult heroin addiction can be as i lost my best friend and love of my life 15 years ago. I was devastated. I wad so angry i couldnt grieve for a few years. Heroin took a wonderful man from my life and continues to ruin the lives of many, especially those that remain to cope after the loss occurs. I am so sorry for your loss and i know nothing i write can ease your pain. I just wanted to share that you are not alone and say i am so sorry. I will keep your family in my prayers.
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Edith Smith posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I am most positive that this may be my words about my sons death. I also had 2 sons trapped in the heroin addiction. Although they are clean for now, it is a life time struggle. I am an ER nurse. My heart sank with every report that an OD was coming through those doors. Will this be one of my sons. My heart hurts for your and your family. I know first hand, what addiction does to a family. My prayers are going up for you, and your family.
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Joni Newberg posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am praying for you and share the feelings of so many who ha e messaged you.
As parents, we want so ,u h for our children. For them to be taken by the demon of addiction is so beyond our understanding.
What you have done by sharing Shawn's story is beyond words. God bless you.
I am a retired school nurse and know that there are so many that need to hear your message and may they be positively impacted as this spreads throughout the Internet.
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Susan Claassen posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. Thank you for the story of his life. He obviously was a good person that got involved with a demon. I will share Shawn's story with my family. My heart hurts for you.
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Sandy Branch posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I do not know your son or your family.I do know the pain he endured battling addiction. I am a recovering addict with 8 years clean.This broke my heart reading ,too many good people are lost to this disease. May God comfort ya"ll during this time
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I didn't know Shawn, but this obituary brought tears to my eyes. I pray for you all
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Mary Lou Widrick posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
To the family of Shawn, I don't know you and I didn't know Shawn but I just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss. It's exceptional that you would say what killed Shawn and his struggle with the drug, heroin in the hope of being able to save other people from this same path. To his beloved daughter never forget your daddy and the love he had for you and don't ever hate him for his addiction. God Bless you all and take care.
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Jamie Fielding posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family and friends of this beloved man. Addiction is a terrible trait and not his fault. I like to believe that he is now free of all addictions and strains. May you all find peace in your heart.
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Kathy Hannam posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so profoundly sorry for your family's loss. I am also in awe of your courage to tell the world what took your beautiful son, father and life partner. Families often hide the truth and perpetrate the lies and carry the shame their loved one left behind. To shine the light on the problem, the addiction begins to heal the family. Alanon and Narcanon family groups are available to you all.
May God bless you and your family.
Kathy Hannam
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I send all my prayers and condolences to all the family! May God give you all peace and comfort.
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Wayne B posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Beautiful and meaningful Obit
Thanx for the honesty
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Karen Tillia posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss....may he rest in peace and may your family find peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers....
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Sending love to your family. I did not know Shawn but herion took my brothers life 5 and a half years ago at the age of 29. I admire the words your family wrote in Shawn's obituary; perhaps those words will save someones life. I am saddened and sorry for your loss. May the happy memories appear when you need them the most.
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Denise posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved Shawn. May the love and good times you shared help carry you through this difficult time. I didn't know Shawn or his family but wanted to thank you for sharing Shawn's story of addiction. I pray that by sharing his story you save someone else's life. It's commendable how you've tried to use your unimaginable heartache to help others. May Shawn now rest in Paradise.
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Prayers for the family.
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Bonnie Meacham posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I do not know any of you, family and friends, but my heart goes out to you and I grieve as if he were my beloved grandson. Over the years I have watched and participated in the sequences of events leading to the death of a loved one because of narcotics. A few times I have been able to intervene and help the victim and family get the help needed but too many times I could do nothing .. Please do not blame yourselves and/or others involved. Please get help to get thru this. Cherish your memories and reinforce your strengths.
May i repost this beautiful and tragic tribute to some people that are going thru the same sequence of events that Shawn and all of you have gone thru? Perhaps reading this may convince someone to get the help needed and save a life .
Hugs and prayers to all of you always.
Bonnie
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julie shepherd posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am a parent of a heroin addict . I lay awake every night hoping and praying that I don't get that call that what has happened to your family has happened to mine. My daughter is a beautiful, young , 22 year old that made the mistake of trying that horrible drug and now it has a hold so tight on her that even the love of her mother can't get her to stop. She has tried to stop but only to keep from hurting those that love her. She has to want the help and only she knows when that will be. My heart goes out to you and I commend you for being so honest in the obituary. It truly touched me. My God bless your family . My prayers will be with you always.
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Donna casko posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your loving family. As the mother of a heroin addict myself, I know the devastation this disease can cause. Sadly you are paying the ultimate price - the loss of your beautiful boy. Thank you for posting this amazing tribute of his life. Thank you for sharing without shame and thank you for encouraging those who are in the throws of addiction to seek help. I hope you find peace.
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Shannon Cowan posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My deepest sympathies to the entire family. I am in recovery and it breaks my heart to know this disease is still taking lives. Thank you for the obituary, I know that wasn't easy to write. Hopefuly Shawn's story will save someone else's life. We are all victims to this disease of addiction. I pray for his child and the family.
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Sara posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
A very brave message designed to help other who are suffering. Thank you. My heart breaks for your loss.
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Emily Welch posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know your friend, son, brother, father, but I can tell he was a lucky guy to have such an amazing family who has written the most genuine obituary i have ever seen. I have lost many friends to drug overdoses and so many times, for whatever reason, the families try to avoid what really happened... and there is no reason to hide it, or pretend something else happened. Its not fair to your loved one who was in pain and was ill. Drug addiction is an illness, just like cancer or heart disease. We don't try to hide from heart disease and cancer... we raise money to for research and to help those suffering with these horrible diagnosis, why? Because more research for a cure needs to be done, and those suffering with the illness cannot always afford the treatments.... Well... addiction is a disease, more research does need to be done to find adequate ways to treat it, most of those suffering from this disease cannot afford the treatment needed for this disease... maybe if more families would share such a beautiful and tragic story when a loved one is lost because of addiction and overdose, more people will become aware, and addiction would be added to the list of diseases we we come together to try to help cure....so thank you.... I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep you all in my prayers. I know you dont know me and my opinions really don't matter for anything, but your words, your story matters to me and to my loved ones lost. Thank you so much!
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Judi posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. It's such a shame that drugs are the things that take so many young people. I pray that his daughter and family understand what a struggle it is for addicts! God bless you all - Prayers and love to all. Shaun Rest In Peace, you were and still are loved very much
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Nicole Turner posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My deepest condolences, I absolutely love the obituary, it is nothing but the truth and I sincerely believe that for some people the truth will set them free. Prayers to the surviving family members. Gone but never forgotten!.. R.I.P Shawn
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Pat Hamilton posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I think it is a wonderful thing you did reaching out to other people with a drug problem. May God bless you for your compassion for others who suffer from this terrible scourge.
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Cynthia Thomas posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to y'all. I'm so sorry for your loss, it's heartbreaking. Drug addiction is horrible thing to deal with. May the good Lord be with y'all during this time of need n help you with any struggles. God bless you all. May Shawn R. I.P.
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Marcy Kelley posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss , may god give your family the strength for today and the days ahead . I didnt know Shawn but the struggle is real , my son is a recovering heroin addict and I know this could be me laying my son to rest . I want to thank you for what you shared in his obituary , so many love ones are in denial . If this obituary helps one person then it was well worth you sharing Shawn story . God bless and I will be praying for strength and healing .
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Emily posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know your Son, but I do know what Heroin will do to a family. My dad has a 9 month Christ Centered Drug and Alcohol Rehab Center. We will make sure that we pray for your family and especially for his precious daughter! I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you! I know there is nothing that can be said to ease your pain, but I will be praying for you. And thank you for speaking out!
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I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers for the family and friends
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God bless you and your family. No one should have to bury there child.
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Mary posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Although we have never met or did I know your son, Thank you for being so brave in writing this obituary. My son is a drug addict and his life is being ripped away by drugs. It's so hard to watch a life be taken. He overdosed on weds but the medics were able to revive him.
I feel your pain. The message has to get out.
I'm praying for you and yours!
Thanks for sharing.
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Jordan posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I do not know Shawn or his family but came across this obituary. Thank you for sharing this story about addiction. I will be praying for his family, his daughter, and everyone that is left behind. God bless you.
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Renda posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Your family is in my prayers. I am inspired by the obituary that you were courageous enough you writer and publish. It's time for people to stop seeing just the abuse, and seed the person. Those who fall victim to drugs never voluntarily "chose" that as a life to live. The were lied to and lured by drugs with the things they always, more times than not, searched for; love acceptance and the absence of pain. May your family begin to heal as you mourn the loss of this precious young man
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Julie Grimes posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heart aches for you and his little one will be in my blessings and joyful prayers. Sorry your family had this journey as well. Columbia, Mo
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Joanne Radley posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I want to send my condolence. To every single person In Shawns life. You do not know me. I have read so many death notices. But this touch my heart and soul. It was a beauitful tribute to Shawn and his struggles. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
"In time let the memories find you comfort"
Joanne Radley
Clayton, NY
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Linda Laurange posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for the loss of someone so special; at the same time I am grateful for your beautiful obituary which I will share and which I hope saves at least one other beautiful life.
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Tabitha Weimer posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Prayers for the family. The obituary was beautifully and truthfully written. God Bless
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Kat Risley posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for so bravely outing addiction as the killer it is, even at a time when you most need and want to remember him before he became trapped in it. This epidemic is stealing so many lives away, and it's beautiful that you would try to help others when dealing with such a loss of your own.
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carol lynch posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
i didnt know shawn but i am so sorry for your loss and i do know your pain. i lost my precious daughter to a prescription drug overdose from a pain clinic dr. who owned a pill mill. God be with you and your family.
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Sandra George posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know your family nor do I know the deceased. I do know how addiction takes.. I'm so sorry for such an early loss. How so much was loss. You and all involved are in my heart,thoughts and prayers. Sending my love your way. May God bless and surround all involved in His love ,comfort and guidance.
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Valerie Madden posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family.
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I am unknown to your family and son but I know how hard it is to have a loved one struggle with addiction. May god bring you peace and strength. I am sending love to all of you.
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M Weber posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am terribly sorry for your loss. It was shared on Facebook as how, I found out. Thank you for sharing Shawn and your family's story. I hate however the circumstances! I am sure it is painful but admire you for doing it if it may help one person from ending up in the same fate.
May God comfort and provide strength to each of his family members and friends in the days ahead.
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Katrina Ray posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your lost. I will pray for him and his family
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Laura Poynter posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Y'all are complete strangers but I applaud how you worded his obituary.
I have a nephew who is headed in the same direction.
May God hold your family in the palm of His hand and give you strength in the coming days.
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April posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for your lose but so grateful for your obituary that will touch many.
My prayers are with you.
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Tom Rossi posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I did not know Shawn,but I know his story. I've heard it so many times over the past few years but always in whispers. I can't begin to understand your pain. I just want to thank you for being honest in his obituary. So many people hide the fact that heroin stole the life of their loved one and by doing that the dangers of this drug get sugar coated. I hope time will heal your pain as Shawn finds his way to Heaven.
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Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am praying for your family. I appreciate your honesty and tackling his addiction head on. Reading obituaries like this makes your heart hurt. But if it saves even one person from ever trying heroin or any drug for that matter, it was worth it.
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I extend my sympathy to the family.May God Give You Comfort thro these trying times
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Angie posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
This is an amazing tribute to Shawn. I do not know him personally, just read what someone else shared. I feel your pain in every way as my step sister has been an addict all of her life. She has lost friends, family, 4 chidren, her freedom, as she is currently in jail AGAIN. She was offered a plea to go to rehab and has just started in a 18 month inpaitient program ( she has walked out of all the others) at least we know where she is and that she is still alive. Im sure you have imagained this call for years. I am so sorry to hear about Shawn, but I admire you sharing his story to hopefully save someone else. Prayers for healing for your family.
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Dwanna posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for such a beautiful obituary about your son and what life did to him. Praying for your family.
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Melinda Rowland posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers. There is a compassionate friends website that may help you with the grief. It is compassionate friends.org. Go to the tab that says online support.
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Stranger in Texas posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Watching and living with a loved one with this behavior is heart wrenching. I have a young son the same way. My prayers going out for your family.
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Ivalou Womack posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am sorry for the loss of your precious loved one. But I think you for sharing this beautiful Obituary with everyone. God be with your Family during these hard times. I don't know you.....but I love you.
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louise d. larry posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Sorry for your loss. I feel your pain everyday. I have 2 of my own boys doing the same thing. I don't know where to turn sometimes.
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Kelly Vran posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My condolences to your whole family, may you move through grace and love during this difficult time. Thank you for sharing your son's story. Love & Light
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Angela posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for beginners so honest.
Praying peace and comfort at this horrible time.
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Kayte Spurlin posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I lost a brother to addiction as well as an uncle and numerous friends I'm so sorry for your loss mayGod keep you and comfort you always
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Jamie posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know you but I pray for your family. His obituary was beautiful and others should take note that the world needs to know why such a young person was taken too soon. Again my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
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Jason posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My deepest condolences. I didn't know Shawn, I don't know his family. I don't know anyone who knew him. However his memory is finding it's way into the hearts of many. Thank you for your honesty. Shawn sounds like an amazing person. And obviously a wonderful family.
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Kelley Hellman posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My deepest condolences on the painful loss you are living with. My daughter,Kathleen Alexandra, also died from an overdose in. April. Her loss has left many shocked and at a loss. Katie was an addict. The surprise was she struggled but was fighting her addiction. We hoped her 8 months of sobriety meant she was in a good place. She worked out daily, had over a thousand followers with her workouts, was paid by several work out clothing companies, either in great, or in clothing. She had an additional 80k followers on her make up/glam squad. Again. Getting paid for doing something she loved and was passionate about. She had just signed a large modeling contact with a clothing brand (national) We foolishly thought everything was going to be ok. She made her psychologist appointment to get her vivatrol shot, spoke with her therapists about her PTSD, her depression and anxiety seemed to be managed, she wasn't taking the drugs she has to help her with her dark times, again, we were all tricked . Heroin is a nasty demon. One lady time. Try this. It's the BEST high you'll ever have. Muy husband and I worried out. Katie texted to see of we could drop her at the train layer that afternoon. She loved us, couldn't wait to adore us the plans for our birthday party Asst the end of the month...we arrived home an hour later, she was dead. The coroner report came back 1 month later, she didn't stand a chance. Between her long time of sobriety, and what she thought was heroin, fetenal/morphine. Or beautiful Angel was called back to Heaven.
My heart goes out to you the family, friends(real friends, not the good time party friends) He is finally at peace. You can finally sleep. Minute to minute. Don't try too get through this, just live minute to minute.you'll never get over this or through this. Just keep living minute to minute. You will find how to survive in your new reality. In here if you want to talk. I know. We are still living, minute to minute. This month mashes 6 months, and she would have turned 24 1/2 on the 25th. Peace be with you. Cry when you want to. Shout or pray when you need to. It's ok.
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Elaine Parks posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
God bless your hearts. I wish all of us would have the strength to be open and honest and share what may very well save ONE life by doing so. This effects every family whether we keep it secretly hidden in closet or public. May God's peace and comfort be with you and again, THANK YOU FOR SHARING. I will certainly see that members of my own family read this, for they too have a similar story.
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Bobbie Denson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry about your loss. I will be praying for your family. My son is about the same age as this young man he is fighting the same demon. I worry all the time about him. I hate drugs so many good people lose there lives to them. May the Lord watch over his daughter and comfort the family.
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Susan posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm crying reading this and I didn't know your son, but it could have been written about my son
We love the people they were before their addiction, and I always believed my boy could triumph over heroin if he had willingness and accepted help. Sadly he never took advantage of anything offered
He too has a beautiful daughter, but even she isn't enough to make him want to live a sober life So grateful we have their children to hold onto but so sad these little ones will grow up without their dads.
I admire your honesty in sharing his story and pray that Shawn has found peace and that in time, you may also
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Yolanda Chrystal posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for being so brave in telling his story. Our cousin, Sammy Dean, just passed away from an accidental heroin overdose as well about a week ago. He had the whole world in the palm of his hand and the heroin overtook it all. We HAVE to talk about it and ban together and try to help this younger generation affected by this horrible drug addiction. May you take comfort in knowing that your honesty and candidness and story may help others. Unfortunately we know the pain you are all suffering. Prayers to your family.
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Jenny Watts posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for your honesty. Prayers for everyone involved.
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Richard Ford posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
May God Bless Shawn and his family at this sad time.
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Stephanie Reed posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I've never met Shawn or his family but I'm all too familiar with his battle. I applaud your honest and willingness to share his story. I pray his death is not in vain and may save the lives of others. May all of you find love and peace in your time of sorrow. God bless and watch over all of you, especially his daughter.
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Kathleen posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know you, but I know it took incredible strength to write this and if your candidness causes one person to reach out for help it is a blessing. God bless Shawn. I wish you strength and happy memories to carry on without him.
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Monica posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I do not know you, but became aware of your tragic loss through Facebook. I am so devastated to hear that another precious life was lost to this horrific disease of addiction and that herion took hold of him.
My prayers go out to your family, and may God's peace and love surround you through this inexplicably painful time. I have seen the power of addiction, and it's truly traumatic.
I hold the utmost respect for you in not only honoring the life of this young man, who is my age, but to bring awareness of the tragic realities of drug addiction in a candid yet respectful manner. I truly believe your transparency will ignite reality for other users, and even if one life is saved, it is worth it. Despite the fact that you lost a precious life, utilizing his legacy with intention to bring reality is so selfless and incredible.
My family is currently facing tremendous turmoil with a family member abusing crystal meth, and it's devastating watching someone you love so deeply follow a downward spiral that you cannot stop.
It's obvious what a wonderful person Shawn was, and how much he is loved. Remember the good times, and know that you have done wonderfully by him and his legacy. May you find some comfort in that, and may God be with you as you grieve the loss of a wonderful young man.
Love and prayers to you all from Texas.
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Tina posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
May God give you all the comfort you need at this time. Prayers for you all. I hope he is at peace. Such a hard thing for everyone.
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Someone else's mom posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you to the family for your openness and honestly. May God hold you close as you come through this.
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GOD BLESS AND MANY PRAYERS TO Shawns FAMILY & Friends~ I PRAY that when some people read and hear your words they listen ~!!!! ~And after they read and hear your words if they are addicted PLEASE GET HELP~!!! LIFE IS A BLESSING !!!
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Jeane Hunter posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Drugs are destroying so many families and our country! I hope that your words in his obituary touch someone to make a change in their life and not end up like Shawn and so many others. May you find some peace, and God Bless you all!
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Robin posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss, I didn't know him but I know his disease well. It took the life of my father years ago and found it's way into mine later. It is devastating and I just want you to know that I am praying
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Letha Crouch posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know Shawn, but I know a lot of people like him. I pray you'll find comfort and those people will get the help they need. God bless you all.
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Nicole ostrander posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry about Ur lost... my prayers go out to all his family and friends and I'm the feeling of it I am a recovering her I on addict and in my short journey so far I have lost so many great friends to the addiction... God is wit this family and Shawn is wit God... he is not in pain anymore and no Moore suffering... got will keep him close always and forever
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Betty Summers posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know you. I didn't know Shawn, but every family has a Shawn. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Let God hold you firmly in His grasp during this time. You are not alone.
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Carol posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I do not know your family. But felt the need to comment. What a beautiful tribute. I'm sorry for your loss. It's so very sad. And the out pouring concern for drug addictions. God be with you all, family and friends as you mourn. Gods blessings.
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Linda Dattilo posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
This is so sad! I see this on a daily basis, and feel pain every time I see someone die from Heroin! Mostly, beautiful young people that have lost their lives from this dangerous drug.
Let his Guardian Angel take him to heaven, where he has no more pain.
May God be with his family and ease their pain.
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Carol H Benino posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My thoughts and prayers for all! I lost my 23 year old niece to an accidental herion overdose. Time will ease the pain God's blessings!
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Brook Jones posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So very sorry, my deepest condolences. He always had a smile, and I pray for him, and you all. This is devastating.
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Patricia Martin posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know what you are going through but I do know what it's like to have a child as an addictt. Thank goodness she got in a lot of trouble and is currently in a 2 yr program to hopefully get her life back on track. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Veronica Smith posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I didn't know Shawn but reading his story has touched me. I'm soo sorry for your loss. he seems like he was a good guy who just made a bad decision. praying for him and his family. May you all find peace knowing he is with our father. praying for you all in this time of grief.
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Mark forrest posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Sorry for your loss.. heroin is a monster! Of the worst kind!! It destroys your life until it takes it.. Shawn may u rest in pease now know more pain bro.. my prayers go out to your family and daughter!! I lost my mother and little sister to that crap.. I feel your pain .. I wish nobody had to deal with that..
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Karie Eagleston posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heart felt sorrow for all family and friends is deeply felt.
At the age of 35, I too lost my husband to an accidental drug overdose. I was expecting his first child. It's been almost 23 years now and I still feel the pain your feeling.
Prayers for comfort and peace I pray that each of you left behind to carry on the journey of life.
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June Bradford posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My prayers and condolences for family and friends. God bless you all.
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susan turner posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you!!
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Carol Preston posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Wabash, Indiana
I don't know you all but am touched by your words. My sympathy;
Thoughts and prayers. We have 13 grandchildren. This is a grave concern.
Please know you will continue to be in my prayers.
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April buchko posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm sorry for your loss of such a great young man n father. The life he had will be remembered always. God speed Shawn
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Cheryl McClure posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very deeply sorry for your loss.
A Beautiful young life with so much potential.
I pray comfort for each of your hearts and that the Lord will strengthen you everyday.
The Lord is with you.
Sincerely,
Cheryl McClure
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Andrea Sells posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I just felt the need to pray for your family. How brave and selfless of you to put Shawn's story in his obituary. I'm truly sorry for your loss. A very good friend buried her 25 year old daughter 3 months ago. She died from an accidental overdose of heroine. Since that time I've known of at least 6 young people in her circle to die of the same thing. I also know of 9 people in that circle who have been saved and are getting help for their addiction. While it won't bring Shawn back, I pray and believe that his story will help save some people who are suffering. I pray that God blesses and comforts your family during your sadness and loss.
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Trisha Jones posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I didn't know Shawn, nor do I know his family. But I, too, love a heroin addict. Thank you for being so candid in his obituary. I'm not ashamed of my addict. This is a horrific epidemic that is wiping out a generation! Thankfully my nephew sought help and has been on Suboxone for 23 months and has been heroin free the entire time! But my heart breaks for your family as I have planned my nephew's funeral many times in my head. I am in recovery myself, with 16 yrs clean and sober. I am doing all I can to inform addicts and their families about Medically Assisted Treatment. With opiate addiction it is our best tool. My condolences for the loss of Shawn. He sounds like he was a wonderful man. I will hold your family in my heart and I will fight this horrific battle til the day I die!
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Michelle posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for sharing this loving and frank ttibute to Shawn. It's obvious he was someone with a good heart who was dearly loved. There are too many Shawns out there; maybe by sharing his story someone will ask for help. God bless you all.
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Angel greer posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't even no this family but this has touched my heart I have been through my kids on herion to at one point ..thank God they over come it I will be praying for you and ur family
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Rose Rogers Daniels posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Lori I went to school with u at Southern I am sorry for your lost. I admire your family for posting this. God bless you and yours . In my prayers
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Renee Clare-Kovacs posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray for comfort for you in this time. I also hope that your message helps save someone who might end up listening to the voice of herion or another addiction that destroys their life.
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Barbara Stewart posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Please accept my condolences to your family.
Our family is dealing with the same issue that took this young man since life.
My nephew is a Herion addict. Has been for 6 years. He too has lost his family, wife and 4 little girls, etc.
His father and mother continue to try to save him but only he can save himself.
Our entire family send you our love and understanding.
I pray for you all.
God rest this young man soul.
Barbara
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Jean Hurst posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Iam so sorry for your loss. I have 3 family members addicted and I am scared of this happening to one or all of them. I am praying you will somehow find some sort of peace. you have my prayers and sympathy.
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Tracy Cruz posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Our families dont know one another but I am an addict like Shawn. Thank you for sharing his story. Your pain will not be on vain, thank ypu for reminding me what I stand to loose if I allow drugs back into my life. I send love & prayers to your family and everyone affected by this horrible disease that is largely ignored by society.
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Catherine O posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
A friend of mine posted Shawn's obituary online. What a beautiful tribute to Shawn's life. I did not know Shawn but I know his struggle. Shawn's struggle with the disease of addiction is over. He has shed his diseased body and his soul rests in the loving arms of his higher power, clean and serene at last.
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kerry lynn posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
so very sorry for your loss.. Facebook has made this possible for us to connect. My prayers will be with you thru this journey. Friends in Christ
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So sorry for your loss, and hope that God puts a blanket over your situation. That he may work his way into your heart and provide peace. The HE may use his army of angels to surround you during this time and fill you with support and love. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
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Marie Reynolds posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So very saddened about your loss. May God bring you comfort and peace.
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Leigh posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
so sorry for this loss, I hope it helps at least one person to get off drugs, the street herion is cut with so much other stuff you truly dont know what you are injecting, even horse tranquilzers, RIP
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Annette Swinford posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm sorry for the loss of youth to something so unimportant. Drugs take so much from the world. It's a terrible waste. I'm sorry he didn't win the battle. God bless his family. His fight is over. So many others are still fighting. I pray for them all. I'm very sad
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Larry L Lamb posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for y'alls loss. Love and prayers sent for all of you.
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pamela soares posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know the family but my condolences to them. lost a son at 28yrs of age to drugs. And no its not easy but please get help it does help some. My prayers to the family. May Shawn R.I.P.
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Peka posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I feel your pain and loss.
How kind, thoughtful and brave of you to write this beautiful obituary.
His daughter will truly hold it close to her heart and soul forever.
Thank you for sharing as I am sure you made an impact and likely caused a turning point in someone's life.
God Bless You .......
Peka
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Pam posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
May God be with you and ease your pain. And God Bless you for sharing such a powerful message. How hard that must have been. In your own grief you are helping others. Rip Shawn.
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Peka posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I feel your pain and loss.
How kind, thoughtful and brave of you to write this beautiful obituary.
His daughter will truly hold it close to her heart and soul forever.
Thank you for sharing as I am sure you made an impact and likely caused a turning point in someone's life.
God Bless You .......
Peka
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Robin Riley posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My son is an addict to drugs also. He's in his 30's. My condolences go out to your family. Praying for you all. God Bless.
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Tamara Jett posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. That was one of the most touching obituaries I have ever read.
Thoughts and prayers are with this family in your time of need.
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Wendy maglio posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
May God bless you and bring you comfort and peace swiftly. May your beautiful son rest in peace...no more pain.
I am a stranger, I never met your sin or family. I just randomly saw this post and was compelled to reach out and THANK you !!
I just cried my eyes out for you as I know the pain you will now endure. We just lost my little brother last St Patrick's day..
The obituary you just wrote could have been my brothers.....word for word. He was a cook a carpenter and Jack of all trades. Loved to make his family laugh and smile and also a heroin addict =(
I am so proud of your bravery in posting the truth of his death instead of silently sweeping it under the rug as my mom did. She was more worried about her reputation in the community....how sad.
It's people like you that are helping ...this epidemic NEEDS TO END !!!
Wishing you all peace, love and happiness always.
Wendy Maglio
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Jeanne posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My heart goes out to you for you loss and what might have been. Hold on to the good memories and folks still here. Know the bravery of your story going public may help someone else in trouble or help someone reach out to a troubled soul. Not a family friend but a fellow human I feel for you and thank you for your truth.
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Jennifer Brammer posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Dear family,
I do not know you, nor did I know Shawn. Yet, I knew Shawn bc I was once Shawn. My name is Jennifer and I am a recovering drug addict. I have had once lost everything that you shared Shawn lost; everything that heroin took from him. The difference is that it was not heroin for me, instead it was Oxycodone and Roxycodone. Regardless, it took everything from me - numerous times.
I was blessed by God to live when I should have died; I was blessed by God when he sat me still in prison for 21 months. This was when my life changed...I am now a believer in Jesus Christ, I am sober and I am a licensed Counselor in the state of Ky. - I am so honored to say that I work in a residential treatment center for women in Louisa Ky. I am their Counselor, their advocate, their cheerleader, their support and awesomely so- their sister in Christ.
I say all of that to say that I am so very sorry for the loss of Shawn- he was a handsome man who was also described as a man full of life, whose love for life radiated within him - from the inside out. His light to be extinguished by the disease of addiction is such a shame. I can't express how appreciative I am that you shared his story online and I pray that his life be a testimony to help others achieve recovery. God be with you in this time of loss.
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Beth posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm very sorry for the loss to your family,such a devestating senseless loss. I hope and pray thecandor in this obituary helps someone see what they are doing to their loved ones and seek help. Bless all of Shawn's loved ones.
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Tara Lawson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for you loss it is so much harder to accept when it could have been avoided. I would just like to say that I love the addition to the obit. It is very heartfelt and so true. May he rest in peace and beginning his new journey clean. <3
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Debra weber posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
You have my deepest sympathy. This disease of addiction is so epidemic. I understand your loss and your struggles to understand this horrible disease and great loss. May you hold the good memories. I thank you for honest and sincere obituary on his life and struggles. I will share. Should your words save just one life or more, than your son's death will have helped others. My sincere prayers to you all
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BARBARA WITT posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So very sorry to learn of a special man's death. Thank you for publishing a beautiful message. I read it on FaceBook.
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Debbie G posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I didn't know Shawn but this Memorial was posted by one of my friends on Facebook. What a beautiful Memorial it was to read brought tears to my eyes. My sincere condolences to Shawn's family and I hope anyone reading this that is struggling with addiction can get the help that they need. God bless you.
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Darlene posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss...we are losing too many fine young people to the evil drugs...
God be with you all....sending prayers
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Jacquie dunevant posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Don't know your family but your story and addiction have touched my life. So sorry for the loss of a beautiful life to this awful drug. May God lift your family up in comfort and ease your heavy hearts.
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Sarah fontenot posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss and grief you feel is like no other and no one can make it better only the lord and time will heal your pain but amongst your pain I must thank you for taking such a heroic move and taking your grief and turning into someone else's life changing experience. Thank you for allowing him to help past this life. Thank you for opening up your heart to help another life. Thank you for being someone's guardian angel. I pray that the lord gives you the strength you need to get through the rest of your life without your loved one, but know in your heart that his life will carry on by his story saving another person.
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pam posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your family.
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Linda Miller posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I didn't know your son. I only saw this. I am so sorry this drug took your Shawn away. It promised him the world and gave him nothing. There is nothing I could say to help ease your sorrow. I am so proud of the way you took his death to hopefully save someone else from this. You-all are a strong family. What a way to witness! May your strength give you comfort in the days ahead! Hugs and prayers!!
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Patricia posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for your honesty concerning Shawn's death. I do not know your family and unfortunately never met Shawn. What a brave and wonderful family you all are to encourage addicts and their families as they usually suffer in silence. May God bless you. Best, Patricia
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LaCrecia posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know you but I am so sorry for your loss will be keeping you all in my prayers
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Margaret Vasquez posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Prayers for your family and thanks for having the strength to share with others the circumstances. The more we share how heroin affects many many families the more we have hope.
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Faye Fields posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for all of you. I am an Aunt of a heroine addict she is 22 years old. I pray everyday that she ill win this struggle before we have to write her obituary! I am going to pass this on to her and hope it will change her life because nothing else has not even her 4 year old. Love to you all and prayers from a stranger who can relate to the struggle and expect the same out come for my niece if her life does not change.
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Prayers for such a postivite life to end so suddenly. Prayers for comfort for the family.
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Travis Decker posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. Drug addiction is a horrible thing not only for the individual but for thier family. Far to many times the addiction takes over and nothing else seems to matter. Prayer for your family in this time of tragedy and loss
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rip it could have been me i to was a addict thank god i got clean.
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Grace Howard posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for your transparency, hopefully it will turn someone around who is on the same tragic path. My prayers are with you and I wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time ♡ thank you for your selfless act of trying to reach out to others even in your time of mourning. You must be an extraordinary family ♡
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Rebecca posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know you, and I didn't know Shawn, but my prayers are with your family. Thank you for your brutal honesty in his obituary. As a society, we aren't being honest enough with our kids. We aren't being truthful in sharing the definite knowledge that drug abuse kills people every day.
Please know that Shawn's life had purpose. We are each charged with making this world a little better after we leave than it was when we were still here. By being so honest in Shawn's obituary, you have ensured that other young people know the hard, cold truth about the outcome of drug abuse.
May God bless your family.
Rebecca
Tennessee
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Cynthia posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Beautifully said! I do not know you but please accept my condolences!
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Rue posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for your courage to share this during a painful time. I pray that this dialogue continues and opens the eyes to all that suffer through this family disease. My prayers are with all of you.
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Coree Baker posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am sorry for your loss. You don't know me, but I wanted to say thank you. Thank you for caring enough about all of us to bare your soul, and share to save lives. May Love and peace find your family, and may remember those wonderful stories you have many times, with laughter and joy.
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Karen paxton posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My condolences to your family. I too have laid to.rest my niece this past week. 35 years old is too young. She died to of a drug overdose. This was her demon that killed her. If only they realized how this affected us just maybe they would be here today. Our memories will carry on. We now are left raising their children. It's not fair to them. They.lost parents and we pick up pieces.How does one tell a child they are gone. I'm sorry for the pain.
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Lisa posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that this honest, heart felt obituary helps to save even one life. If it does then this young man will have not died in vain. God bless those who knew and loved him.
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Monique R Savage posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story so that others may get help. I hope God will bring you comfort and peace in this time of the most horrible loss a parent can suffer. No one should ever have to bury their child. God bless you and your family.
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Anna posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So very sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.
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Benita posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I didn't know him , but I am way to familiar with his story. I too have lost young ones too soon. I pray God will bring you some peace and know his struggle is over God bless each and every one of you
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Timothy Forrester posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your lose: drugs is telling People I can make you feel good about yourself, and I can make your People's leave; but what it doesn't tell you is that everyday you use me I'm going to destory your life each and every day. And your family and friends will hat you, but the drug use'er is crying out for help. I am sorry that a young man's life has ended so soon: but I'm praying for his family, loved one's, and friends. But always remember the good that he has done in his life.
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Sandra Robinson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I did not know your son, dad, nephew,sibling or friend but I can tell he was very loved. We fight the same battle in our family with our daughter. You are not alone. We are not alone. Thank you for sharing this beautiful memory. my prayers for your family will continue. May god give you strength.
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Suzanne Coltey posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your sadness, and the pain that I know you've endured trying to help Shawn survive his addiction.
I am currently blessed that my boy is six months clean off heroin. I wanted you to know how much I appreciated your honestly in Shawn's final message. I'm sure it will help others who struggle remember there is hope.
I wish for you peace. Don't ever forget how much he loved you.
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Cindy Burdette posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Prayers for you all. Thank you for disclosing his cause of death. So many times people don't. I also have a daughter fighting heron addiction so I know that it takes far too many lives, far too soon. People don't know the devastation this causes. It's heartbreaking fit the family to go through.
Thank you.
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Meliss posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I don't know Shawn, I was so inspired to read the obituary it really takes faith and selflessness to put that out there with the heroine addiction so you can educate others about addictions and the dangers involved. I will be praying for healing for this family. May God bless each and everyone of you...
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In memory of your son! Just know your family is not alone. Prayers for peace & comfort...
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Heather posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
As a mother of a day by day sober addict, I feared this day for my 21yr old son. Your family is in my prayers. May god bring you peace....
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Kathy Page posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I did not know your loved one but I applaud you as a family for this message that you have given to all who read his obituary. I pray that someone will read this and enter into rehab for help. I am very sure that Shawn would love for just one person to be saved from the hands of heroin! My thoughts and prayers are with you all during the coming days. May God bless you all.
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I am praying for Shawn's family. Hopefully your tragedy will be someone else's angel and help their situation. May God be with the family and that He will give each of you the strength you will need. May Shawn rest in peace now that his battle with drugs is over.
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Mindy Robertson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss, but thank you for being so blunt and honest. I hope if any thing good can come from this, that a person reading this will see themselves in this and get some help.
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Linda Polk posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing in life is worse then losing a child no matter there age they are still your child. My prayers are with you and yours.
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Joan Gehlhausen posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thank you for sharing Shawn's story. May God hold him forever.
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Mr. & Mrs. Peter Egleton posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. Please except our condolences!B n P a B
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Mary posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. I just lost my brother, age 37, to an accidental overdose as well. Praying for your family
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Kristin Pleasant posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I do not know your family, but I am praying for you tonight. My brother is an addict. A different drug has him enslaved, but a drug nonetheless. I'm so sorry for your pain, and I pray that out of this tragedy that God's name is glorified. I pray that your loved one's story saves a life. At least one. I selfishly hope that it could be my brothers. Prayers headed your way! Jesus lives you and God bless from TN!
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Deb Kallam posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Shawn but read his obituary. Prayers ghla
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Mallory Ahern posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
To the Carter Family you are in my thoughts and prayers. May your Rest In Peace Shawn.
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Juanita Webb posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
I do not know you or did I know your son. I am truly sorry for your loss. It is so sad that this drug has taken over our town's and destroyed a lot of families and has left families in great sorrow. I am hoping a lot of those people who are addicted will see your open honesty as what happen and seek the help they need before it is to late. My deepest sympathy to you all. I pray that God will give you all peace and comfort in this difficult time. God Bless.
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Lisa Johnson Keith posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Oh, dear family and friends...How my heart aches for you...My prayer is that God will lift each of you up physically, emotionally, mentally, relationally, and spiritually! I ask God right now to send you His Comfort and His Peace that passes ALL understanding! Please post my favorite anchor verse...Psalm 28:7 "THE LORD IS MY STRENGTH AND MY SHEILD...MY HEART TRUSTS IN HIM AND I AM HELPED...!" Thank You so very much for sharing from your hearts about Shawn's struggles! What a wonderful blessing each of you are! And when you pray each day, will you PLEASE REMEMBER MY PRECIOUS SON PAYTON WHO HAS BATTLES OF HIS OWN...
IN HIS LOVE,
LISA JOHNSON KEITH
112 ADLER LANE
GOLDSBORO, NC 27530
CELL# 1-919-750-1810
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CALL OR WRITE ME ANYTIME!!! ♡♡♡
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Dana Parrish posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
This is an eye opening obituary. I'm so sorry for your loss and I as a parent in a similar situation hope to God that I don't have to write a similar obituary. May Shawn rest in peace and may his family now rest their minds and sleep at night knowing his battle with drugs is over and he is now in the arms of God.
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tammy atkins posted a condolence
Saturday, October 8, 2016
i am a recovering meth addict. i am 7 months clean. i just wanted to say how very sorry i am for your loss. my heartfelt prayers go out to his family and friends. prayers and love. tammy m atkins
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Sydney Bourne posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Dear family,
So very sorry for what you are going through right now. I wish you strength for the journey ahead and a huge Thank you for being so candid and open in your darkest of times.
I too lost a son 8 years ago to suicide at the age of 19 and my heart sank when I read the story and saw the striking resemblance.
Bless you Shawn. Your smile and eyes are a window to your soul! You and Dalton are "Free Birds Now"
Prayers and peace for your family and friends. May you find comfort in your
memories!
Sincerely,
Sydney Bourne
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Jean Cale posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I know you are devastated. We lost our Michael Shawn to an overdose December 22, 2010. Shawn would have been 31 October 1st. He loved his son, Michael, so much. I pray that God will wrap His loving arms around you all and give you peace and ease the pain in your broken hearts. God bless you all.
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Frank and Monica Rossi posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Thank you for having the courage and strength to have written this excellent obituary.
Obliviously for the love of Shawn as well as for those who knew and loved him and even those of who never came to know Shawn yet are touched and grateful to have read this heartfelt wrenching obituary and its intentional warning!...hopefully heeded by many,many.
We send our heartfelt sincere sympathy, prayers and love to all of you experiencing the devastating aftershock of this triage but actually avoidable much too early death.
Your published photo of a smiling, handsome loving young man certainly now with the promise of a bright future is what enticed me to read an obit I may have avoided.
We hope the memory of happy and loving times spent together cheerfully a with Shawn will in a reasonable time surpass and replace your present deep sadness.
God's choicest blessings in abundance always , all ways!
With prayers and love,
Monica and Frank Rossi
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Terri Willis posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
At this time Words people.are just words,This is the hardest
Thing a family goes through,if they haven't been through
It ,they don't know how you feel,what your thinking,
And asking what could I have done differently. I've been
Thought it,I still after 3 years still ask myself that question.
I will keep your family in my prayers and pray God puts
His arms around you and your family to bring you
Comfort.God bless your family.
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Melissa posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So very sad to read this.. However it is brutally honest. I thank you for that! I too have several family members who are unfortunately addicted to heroin and I pray everyday that their lives don't end like Shawns.
My heart goes out to his family and friends.
May you always keep close the good memories that you all have shared with him.
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Deb Eskridge posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Powerful and very eloquent. I am sorry for your loss and pain
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Renee M posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Thank you for sharing such an intimate glimpse into your lives and the tragic consequences of addiction. As a recovering person, I have attended the burial of many friends and family members. Your brave decision to name the killer may save someone's life. May God draw close to you and give you comfort.
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Katherine Schofield posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure the loss of his young life mades. An impression please accept my deepest condolences. God bless you all.
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susan posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I do not know you but you have my deepest sympathies along with my admiration for telling others about the what pain you have and are going through. May God give you comfort and peace
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Melinda Davis posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so extremely saddened by your loss. This obituary is the most honest story I have ever read. A beautiful life ended way too soon. I lost a dear friend about 6 weeks ago to the same horrible outcome. Praying that your loving memories continue to bring a smile to your face. God Bless.
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Cathy Neal posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So very sorry for his loss and the families loss. Addiction often comes with a high penalty/again so sorry
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Kathy hodge posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So sorry . praying for family my daughter is addict. God comfort each and every family members
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Dema McBride posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So sorry about Shawn,and for your family. Drugs are the worst,they think they can handle it,but it handles them. I think you are right for telling that he died from drugs,hopefully that will help some other family. I know he will be missed. Again I'm so sorry. Dema McBride
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Carrie Bendickson posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Shawn, your smile will remain in our minds and memories. You will be greatly missed. Please say hi to Mom and let her wrap her arms around you and keep you safe. Until we meet again we love you.
Aunt Carrie
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Donna cecere posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Very honest obituary. Understand somewhat your loss as my wonderful and talented nephew, DANNY fought the same battle and died at 22.
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linda posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
i am so sorry for your loss. My family deals with this issue daily and its like a waiting game. my prayers are with your family and i pray for God to let you find peace.
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Rich Hickman posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My condolences to the family and friends, addiction is an awful thing.
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Donna Bright posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My daughter entered rehab for alcoholism last month. Addiction strikes every family and does not respect anyone. Your family has shown great courage my getting this word out that addiction can and does kill. I am sorry for your loss and I will pray for your family.
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Sheila posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I feel your families pain. My son also died from Heroin OD 1 yr ago. I pray for strength for the family and friends that he left behind.
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Eric Arvidson posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Condolences on the passing of your loved one. His struggle is done, yours is truly beginning. Carry on in faith in God. May He comfort you now.
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Paula cole posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I do not know this man personally nor the family, but the obituary touched my heart.
May God bless his family with strength through this tough time..
Thank you for creating the obituary that it may help and touch the lives of someone with an addiction.
God Bless!!
Paula Cole
New Carlisle, Indiana
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Sherry Sesco posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss and I'm in awe of your comments in his obit. What you wrote may save someone's life. May God bless you and comfort you through your heartache and pain I have also lost my son in an auto accident. I know your pain and I hope you get comfort from all of us sending you prayers and love
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Lee Anne posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss, I have seen the destruction that Heroin brings to this world and we alway hope for the posts that show these young people have beaten the Demon that haunts them.....I wish that Shawn would have know his worth after Heroin took him from you...my sincere condolences :(
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Sue Brooks posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
To Shawn's family, You don't know us, but we wanted to reach out and offer our condolences in the loss of your son. In Shawn's obituary you demonstrated so much courage in publicly addressing the cause of his passing. Your words were compelling and a great gift to the community. Six years ago our son, Eric, died by his own hand at age 37. Like you, we decided to address the reason for his death openly. Losing a child is devastating, and we wanted you to know that we share your grief and appreciate your candor.
Sincerely,
Sue and Al Brooks
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Jamie Jones posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Shawn or your family. But I have also lost loved ones due to herion in the past year. Sending prayers
Sincerely
Jamie Jones
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I am very sorry for your loss. I commend you for your courage of honesty, that may save someone else from choosing this path of destruction. I am a funeral director and grief recovery counselor & see drugs destroy so many lives. My prayer for this sweet family is peace & healing.
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So sorry for your loss. Prays for your family.
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Sharon posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Beautiful obituary, but very sad, my prayers for the family and friends
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Samantha Santos posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Truly, truly, truly I am sorry for your loss.
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Bob Casini posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
When I saw this post it touch me in so many way I can't explain. I don't know Shawn or his family, but there has been so many of our children being taken by this evil drug. We lost our Son to the same evil that you did, way to early. He was the same age, 32.He served as a Marine for four years and I thought it was behind us, he did struggle with it for a long time. He came home to visit for a week, which I am grateful we had that time together, but then one day he was gone, just like Shawn. My heart breaks for his family and there are no words that I could say to make it easy. My son had one of the most beautiful smile, just like Shawn. Know I pray for him and his family. Our lives changed that day forever. My God take him to Heaven and give him Peace along with my son Rob. May the Peace of the Lord be with them and Shawn's family. God Bless.
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April posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. So tragic, and so I pray for his parents & family. Please preserve and grieve. Although you may never fully heal it was not the creator who did this. We all have free will.
James 1:13
Hope~ Rev 21:4
Please read , and endure.
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Kelly McDermott posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My deepest condolences! I lost my 21 year old daughter to heroin in March!
I feel your pain and know the profound loss of a most beautiful soul! Shawn sounds like an amazing young man!
I publicly shared that Celeste, my daughter, died from an overdose and I applaud you sharing the painful truth as well.
We must bring the dialogue forward to fight this cruel disease!
Surround yourselves with people that are loving and supportive for now! Allow yourself time to grieve.
When you're ready, join in the fight.... To save our loved ones from this evil.... There is so much work to do!
Wishing you and your family love and peace as you negotiate the pains of grief.
I promise it gets s lil easier over time !
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Drew H. posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I'd like to send my condolences to the family & friends of Shawn. I did not know this man but his obituary could have easily been my own 3 years ago. My thoughts will be with you as you all travel this difficult road. With much love, Drew H.
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Sheila Greer posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Am so sorry for your loss. Life without our loved ones is hard, but thank God that he has built into our hearts this little thing that helps lessen the pain one day.
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Keah Patterson posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so sorry to all those who loved Shawn. I don't know you, but I know your pain. This is such an amazing and important obituary. Addiction is something that needs to be talked about, and I believe sharing this openly will save someone.
Much love from PA.
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Diana Center posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I didn't know Shawn, or his family, but this obituary has such a beautiful request despite the pain I'm sure they are all going through. Thank you for trying to help others and for making a difference. Your love for Shawn shines through this tribute. I am deeply touched and am praying for your peace and for the end of addiction on our planet.
God bless
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Praying for your family.
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Betsy myers posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so very sad and sorry for your loss of such an incredible human being. I pray this beautiful obit will touch all the lives it should. He sounded very brave, kind and loving.....and it takes a special person to write such a profound and honest obituary! God bless you all....hold each other close and mend fences and live your life joyously knowing how much he loved all of you and that the drug lied to him....just like it does to all of us. Grateful to be sober today and many previous days...but, always remember that we are all an arms length away!
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Betsy myers posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so very sad and sorry for your loss of such an incredible human being. I pray this beautiful obit will touch all the lives it should. He sounded very brave, kind and loving.....and it takes a special person to write such a profound and honest obituary! God bless you all....hold each other close and mend fences and live your life joyously knowing how much he loved all of you and that the drug lied to him....just like it does to all of us. Grateful to be sober today and many previous days...but, always remember that we are all an arms length away!
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Tammy Carter posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My prayers go out to all of his family and friends. I didn't know your family member, but I know someone struggling with addiction. Thank you for reaching out to so many during this very difficult time.
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Susan & Tom Barker posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am sorry and saddened for your loss! My prayers go out to your family especially your daughter. I pray that where you are now you are at peace and find love, acceptance, and comfort in God's arms. May he take all your pain away and your life here will never be forgotten!
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Tammy Yoder posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I'm truly sorry for your loss. I do not know you or your son. But I to fear I may e on your shoes someday with my one daughter. I'm sharing your story on my Facebook wall in hopes it saves my daughter and maybe more. My heart breaks for you all. Tammy Yoder
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M J, Keesee posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
God bless and comfort you in your loss. Thank you for sharing your story! I hope and pray it will help another!
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My daughter Erika died in the same way about 4 years ago. The pain and agony that heroin caused has torn our lives apart. She lives in heaven as an angel and I look forward to the day when we can all be together again. God bless your family.
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Laura Bjornson posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I'm saddened by your Shawn's death. The disease is a tough one. Prayers, love, hugs for your family. I lost my brother 10 years ago. I'm blessed to be 17 years clean/sober by the grace of God, though I have no idea why. May he rest in peace now.
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Laura Bjornson posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I'm saddened by your Sean's death. The disease is a tough one. Prayers, love, hugs for your family.
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Debra posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Prayers for this family. May God be with y'all and comfort you..
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Rachel Crouse posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I'm sorry for your loss. I unfortunately understand the loss of family through addiction.
May his life story help someone change their story.
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M. R. Sidwell posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Dear Family & Friends,
I wanted to share my sincere condolences for the loss of your Shawn. I stumbled across his Memorial on Facebook, have no connection as family or friend, yet I a truly appreciate your honesty and courage in sharing his story. I pray the Father above wraps his arms around all who cared for Shawn and blesses them with comfort and strength.
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IM sorry for your lost my god be with you an your family
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John Ford posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My condolences to Shawn's family and friends. I'm one of the lucky ones that found recovery and have been clean for over 10 years. I know personally the devastation that addiction has on not only the person dying from it but also all who love and care about that person. The only person that could have changed this tragic ending was Shawn and only Shawn. Many times loved ones feel that they didn't do enough or could have done things differently and maybe he would have survived. Please don't get caught up in this false belief just try and understand you did all you could do, ultimately the responsibility of the outcome falls on the addict. God bless all of you and RIP Shawn God will put the heroine in its place!!
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Joann Messick posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My heart breaks in reading about the loss of this wonderful young man. I,too lost my step-son to this drug. I hope and pray for an end to the senseless loss of lives.
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Wendy Currie posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am very sorry for your loss.
My 19 year old son died 4 years ago from an accidental overdose. It is so tragic and so eipidemic. It is difficult to see the big picture and how to help, but being upfront about how your son died will reach someone. You are brave.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Claudette Borey posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
You don't know me but I wanted to offer you my condolences...and tell you that this is one of the most beautiful tribute to your son and beautiful obituary I've ever seen and read... hope you find comfort in knowing that I'm sure you've helped at least 1 person...that's takes very strong people..
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Cindy Eanes posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I don't know this unfortunate person or his family nor do I or any member of my family have an addition like this but I want to take a minute commend the writing of this obit. I commend the family and funeral home for including the cause of death and the comments of what his addiction took from him. I hope this helps others before it is too late for them to over come this terrible life. I pray that God will bestow peace on the entire family during this very difficult time.
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such a powerful message from such a tragic loss thoughts and hope for the family
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Betsy Rodecap posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Bless you for having the courage to talk about the addiction that took your Shawn. I am confident that you have or will save the life of someone else's loved one.
Peace
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Mario Trabulsy posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I don't know you but I know much of your plight and my heart goes out to you with love strength and healing that only those who have walked a similar path can know. I am so thankful and greatful for your bravery and honesty in the obituary you wrote. My prayers for healing your family and the lives of the living who suffer with this terrible scourge on humanity, family and society.
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Norma Arndt Newman posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So very sorry for your loss, drugs terrify me because they are so available to the young people. May God be with all of you.
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Rita Damrell posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
May God be with all of you at this time. I pray your message will help someone else who has this problem. I wish all of you peace in your hearts from God and always know no matter what it isn't your fault. In my thoughts and prayers GOD BLESS!
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Sharon Girardi posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
You do not know me but we share a common bond. Heroin is taking hold of my son as well. Right now he is battling back and is clean however I know any day he has a weak moment heroin can win and I've written his obituary in my mind over and over again. I'm very sorry for your loss and I commend you for your strength as it takes much strength to write this information in your sons obituary. May God bring you peace knowing your son is no longer suffering and he is now at peace with the demons that lived within him. May the comfort offered by your fault and friends at this difficult time make it a little easier to bear and may you always remember the son you raised and not the son changed by heroin. God bless you and your family.
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Debra Cummings posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
A friend of mine posted Shawn's obituary on face book, so I read it. This is one of the most profound obits I have ever read, written form love and frustration and for others to "hear" the torment of dealing with a loved one using drugs. We have had to deal with loved ones hooked on this life changing
junk" in our family, it isn't easy. I want to wish you my most sincere condolences and hope that one day the pain of losing Shawn will ease. Please take good care of each other.<3
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Bonita fraley posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Sorry for your loss.
A grateful recovering addict
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Rest in peace and God bless.
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Judy Bell posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am deeply sorry for your loss. This obituary came across my Facebook page. I did not know Shawn, but the way it came across on Facebook I just had to read the obituary. It was very powerful. A year ago I lost someone I care deeply about due to drugs. I intend to share this obituary with my Facebook page and hope people will read the obituary and hopefully if it saves one life it will be of help to someone so their family doesn't have to go through what yours did or my friends family! GOD bless you all & you will be in my thoughts & prayers!!!! Judy Bell
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Scott Dempsey. Voice of truth outreach/ ministry posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss ! I will continue to to fight on in his name and others like him ! I'll be praying for your family and I ask you to encourage others to speak a kind word of encouragement to others struggling with an addiction , one kind word could save a life ! God bless!
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Rest in peace and God bless.
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Lydia posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Thank you for the honest and beautiful remembrance of your son. So many times strangers read of a persons passing due to overdose and pass it off as if the "world is less one druggie". You have put a real life face to the devastation drug abuse causes. Your words will save lives, I am sure of it.
I thank you for your courage in sharing.
Blessings to you and your family as you grieve.
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Cathy Bostic posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss and your honesty, Prayers to your family...
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Claire Beutler-Cruise posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My deepest sympathy to you, Shawn's family and loved ones. Thank you for your honesty and forthrightness in telling his story. So many families are mourning their loved ones along side you. I work at a funeral home. We see this epidemic too regularly. May you find comfort knowing that your refusal to be silent may spare another's loved one life.
I leave you this poem which has been helpful to me when I buried loved ones, albeit for different causes:
True Words
You will not always hurt like this
These words are true
If they do not reach your heart today
Do not reject them
Keep them in your mind
One morning, not tomorrow perhaps
But the day after tomorrow
Or the month after next month
One morning, the dawn will wake you with the inconceivable surprise
Your grief will have lost
One small moment of its force
Be ready for the time
When you can feel for yourself
That these words are true
You will not always hurt like this. – Sascha, of Wintersun
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Cathy Bostic posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss and your honesty, Prayers to your family...
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Jennifer fawcett posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I didn't know Shawn but I read the most beautiful obit
I just want to say, I am so sorry for your loss.
Sending prayers to all of you
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Eva Pinder posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss, but thank you isn't even enough for the words you have written in his memory...May God be with all of you.
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Broken hearted mom posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I was so moved by this obituary. I didn't know Shawn or anyone in his family; but I too lost a son to an accidental overdose. He was 26 years old and it will be three years in January. It was a total shock to me. He was beautiful inside and out and had just received his bachelors degree and had big plans. I still hide the cause of his death because there is such an ugly stigma associated with drug use. Shawn seemed to be a great person and fun to be around. I wish I had some words of encouragement but losing a child is horrific. It will get a little easier with time, but when the reality hits, the pain is still crippling. I read a lot of books on grieving; it's nice to know you're not alone. Keep your friends and family close. I'm sorry for you loss.
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Mark Cooper posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Thank you for sharing the truth so openly.There is healing in that!Prayers!
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So very sorry and the family is in my prayers!
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Donna posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with this family! May God be with you and make it easier I know death is never easy but it hits hard when it's the young people, no I don't know this family I just wanted them to know they are in my prayers... God bless everyone.
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I hope your openness about Shawn will help others to seek help! Drugs have ruined too many families! Sorry for your loss! Peace.
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Tonya Porter posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with the family !!! So so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your story about addiction there is so much in this world today !!! God bless your family !!
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Heather Badger posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I would like to send my condolences to shawn's family and friends. I have been down the same path that he has traveled. And seeing obituary's of follow people so young truly breaks my heart. I wish shawn's story would've ended differently, but seeing reminders like this keep me strong and let me know that everyday i chose to say no is one more day i am promised to see my loved ones. His story is a harsh reality and my deepest appoligizes are sent to each and everyone of you who are saddened becasue of losing him. I am glad you guys wrote some of his story out so others may be able to see the realities and hopefully find some help if they are struggling. My condolences again and sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.
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Natalie Gray posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so sorry for the death of your son Shawn. Your obituary for him really touched me. Your honesty will probably save some lives and help families talk about this horrific problem.
I wish you all the best. I know that you will never be the same, and that your grieving will last forever, but so will your best memories.
Take care of yourselves.
Natalie Gray
California
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Karen posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I've read this obituary and am so sorry for the devastating loss for family and friends. I pray for your healing. Your honesty in this may save another person and for that you are brave. My heart goes out to you ... may the Lord touch you and give you peace.
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Shelia posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. But Thank you for putting this out there. It may reach someone and help them. God Bless.
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annie gibbons posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My daughter is a heroine addict that is in recovery now for 7 months. We live in the shadows, feel judged, judge ourselves, and are in fear of losing our loved ones every day. We are so proud of the hard work our daughter is doing to live a sober life, but fully understand that she has a disease that constantly tries to tell her brain that she doesn't have it. Thank you so much for sharing Shawn's story. It reinforces that we are not alone. My heart breaks for you. My thought's, prayers and healing energy are all I can offer.
xo
Annie
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for being brave and sharing your family's struggle with this nightmare heroin epidemic. I couldn't have said it better. I'll be praying for your family.
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Karyn O'Miller posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost my son David to an accidental heroin overdose three years ago. He was 33 years old. Our families lives are forever changed. I wish I had words of comfort for you, I don't. Just know that your family and Shawn Michael are in my thoughts.
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Betsy Berglund posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Prayers for his loved ones left behind! People don't realize what a horriable drug this is and how much it is in epidemic proportions in the area. People of all ages fight this addiction everyday! I too hav a family member who has struggled for years to stay off it. She has gotten called back repeatedly. Praying she doesn't go back this time Thank you for being so open and honest. People need to see this more often! Much Love and respect to you and your family!
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Sybil Haddon posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My deepest sympathy to all of Shawn's family, but especially his mother and father. I know the death of a child is the most earthshattering moments you will ever experience, as I have experienced it myself. Please know that I will be lifting you up in highest prayers. Thank you for sharing so honestly about Shawn's death. I am a recovered addict who daily seeks to help other addicts find their way out of the grips of addiction. Again, I am so sorry for the loss of Shawn.
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Cherisse Young posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Your words are a beautiful haunting warning to others. I hope someone who needs to see those words see them and hear them. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and hopefully Shawn will be a angel to guide those who need help to the right places and people that can give it them.
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Julie Landry posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Prayers for your family and thank you for your bravery in sharing his story.
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Sandra posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Im sorry I didn't know this young man. I cannot express to you how sorry I am for your loss and how I equally admire you for your generous heartfelt desire to help others at such a horrible time in your life. God is good all of the time. Prayers for your family.
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Jane Beaugez posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I didn't know Shawn or any of you, his family, but I send my heartfelt sympathy to you all for such a loss as this great looking young man. Oh my, what an in-creditably handsome man your Shawn is.
I have no way to sufficiently express to you how I admire your courage to share the circumstances of Shawn's death. It took boldness on your part that is not describable; a boldness that is very rare. Most of us would never tell such truth if we'd lost a loved one in this manner. YET you have shared your hearts and with doing so you have reached out to "many" who know the painful road you've walked on, as a family. AND I think you summed up your reason for sharing openly, at the end of the obituary, by the encouragement you gave for those with addiction of any kind of substance killers, trying to get them to seek help.
This is a thoughtful, beautifully written tribute to Shawn and to all his family who loved him.
May the Lord be very near to you all at this time. I am truly sorry~~~
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I'm very sorry for your families loss, may he rest in peace.
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Permelia posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
My heart breaks all who love Shawn. He was a handsome man wirh a smile that is undeniably
Warm and Loving.
I want to say how touched I am reading his obituary.
You are so humble and giving to honestly express the circumstaces of his passing.
No doubt it could save lives.
I am sorry that I did not have your courage and unselfish intent. I have emmence respect for you.
Thank you and God Bless.
Permelia
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kathy harper posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
First and foremost...I am so VERY sorry for your loss of this precious man.. he sounds like a wonderful guy...I am SO THANKFUL that you added the drug addict and what his problem was...I HAVE NEVER SEEN that..it is NOT something to be ASHAMED of..we all need to share this and stick together..GOD BLESS YOU...HUGS...Kathy
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Dawn Medley posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I don't know you all but my prayers are with I have a husband and son who suffer with addiction it saddens me to see this happen. My prayers go out to you all during this time. May God give you peace.
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Keryn Whiyr posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
Thank you for your btave and ttuthful memorial to your son. My Sean Mykle died of a herion od almost 3 years ago. He was 22 and, like your Shawn, a beauticul addict. I am very sorry for your loss.
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Lori Manjourea posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2016
I don't know your loved one this came across my Facebook feed and just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss ,such a tragedy, I will keep you all in my prayers again my condolences to the family
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Lorraine Newton posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Addiction is a different name for cancer, the disease takes those mercilessly. Remember this man as he was before his brain was sickened by cancer..remember this man as trying to fight off a terminal illness. Rest In Heavenly Peace.
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Christy Dickey posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
May God's Blessings & Healing bring you Peace through this devastating time!
God Bless you all!
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Becky posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. May God give you a special comfort and peace in this difficult time.
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Linda M Pilon posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss.My heart goes out to Shawn's family. I do not know you but I am grieving with you to lose someone so young when he life was just beginning. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
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SOAR Natick posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
SOAR Natick sends our deepest sympathy on the loss of Shawn.
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Karen McCarthy posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for your tragic loss of Shawn...Thank you for sharing your heart!
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Not sure how to put in words how this hit me,my Best friend and Best Man at my wedding was taken also.Always a sweet generous ,kind person.Why is it that this drug takes the souls of people so innocent? A cowardly drug that is disguised as a reliever of pain and sorrow.So So sorry for your loss.Thank you for such a brave posting!!
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Toni Trono posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I do not know any of you but I am so very sorry for you loss. Your pain is reflected in your story of Shawns life. I hope by telling your story more people will become aware of this horrific epidemic and anyone in that dark place will find the light. May you all begin to heal and find peace.
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Brittany posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I just lost my older brother to a heroin overdose last Friday. I send my deepest condolences to your family! May you know you're not alone in this terrible journey. :( thoughts and prayers are with you.
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sharon posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss to the horrible disease of addiction. I am a counselor and this disease is taking too many of our loved ones. May God wrap his arms around you in comfort of knowing that your boy is finally at peace without this dreaded disease anymore. God Bless you all.
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LaVon posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I don't know you, but I know the hurt and devastation you are feeling..as I am going through the same thing with my son.
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers
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Laura from Cape Cod posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am sorry for your loss. Shawn's photo popped up on my Facebook feed. When I saw it was an obituary, I decided to read it to see what happened to him.
Your honesty and love for Shawn and others is appreciated. Thank you
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Lori Vitali posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I lost my son in August to an overdose. I pray for strength for you
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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I'm very sorry for your loss..I lost a very good friend a few months back due to a heroin overdose.
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Jeanne Miller posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Prayers and hugs to you loosing your son. Addiction is beyond me. I lost my 19 year old son Justin Wescott at the age 19 who went to school with your son. My heart and prayers are with you. I am feeling your pain.. thank you for making the addiction outcome so real. It wasn't known back in 2002. Hugs and prayers❤️
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Katherine Schwab, LMHC posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I heard of Shawn' s story through Facebook. I wanted to express my deepest condolences to everyone who knew and loved Shawn. As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, I have gotten to witness the devastation caused by addictions of all types including heroin. I applaud you for being brutally honest about the struggles he faced due to his addiction, as well as the reason he passed away. Hopefully you have opened the eyes of at least 1 person, so that his death will serve as an incentive for someone to travel a different path.
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Rae posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I do not know you, or the gentleman that has tragically been taken from your lives, but I pray for peace for all of you. I am addicted to opiates, recently relapsed, and fully believe God is the only reason I wasn't taken. My condolences to all of you with heavy hearts.
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Ferne Avery Chase posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I did not know this wonderful person that hides behind that smile but I know the pain of the loss. I know the pain of losing a child, of losing a sister, of losing a mom and dad and of losing a nephew to suicide due to drugs. My heart aches for each of you and my prayer is that you will be able to remember all the good and happy memories he left in your hearts in the days months and years ahead and that you all make sure he is never forgotten and that his death is not in vain. Sending hugs and prayers
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Susan Hurford Williams posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I once met a charismatic, handsome 20 year old man who should have had everything going for him. BUT he had a $900 a month heroin habit. I never asked him how he supported his habit. I didn't want to hear the raw details.. He was in an institution because he had tried to commit suicide. I am sorry for the waste of Shawn's life. My heart goes put to his family and friends.
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Joan Salvas posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
This is so sad but how wonderful to share his struggle. God bless him.
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Anita Collins posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I didn't know Shawn or his family but I am sending my sincere condolences to all of you. This awful drug has taken away a loving person from his family and friends. RIP Shawn.
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Barbara Crawford posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
As you desired, this obituary was shared locally (Chester VT) on FB. I too will share your brave words at this time of unimaginable loss. I am so very sorry for your loss and can only hope your true life words of warning will save others from the horrors of addiction.
May you find peace over time.
Thank you!
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Lisa posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. This scourge has taken too many, too young, too tragically. I will share his story and keep praying that we can make this stop.
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Sandy Spadafora posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My heart goes to you for your loss. So, so sad. He was taken much too soon.
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Sue Alexandre posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family in this time of sorrow.
Shawn will be sadly missed. May you R.I.P
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Jenn posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for being brave and putting this all out there. It is time to humanize addiction.
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Randi Holland posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am very sorry for your loss. This drug is killing wonderful people and breaking up families. Thank you for announcing how your family member died and urge people to get help. - From a step mom who lost a beautiful daughter.
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Bernie posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. It is horrible to lose a child. I want to thank you for writing such a wonderful obituary and sharing how Shawn died. I am the mother of an addict and, although, my son is still alive, I lost him years ago to this horrible disease. My thoughts and prayers go out to Shawn's family.
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Patti H posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
What a powerful message. So very sorry for your loss.
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I am sincerely sorry for your loss. I pray that your heart and soul will find peace and comfort during this difficult time. I too have lost family members and friends to this and other drugs. My heart breaks for every one who loves this young man. Especially his daughter. May God’s Grace give you strength during this difficult time.
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Tamissia Hayward posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I'm sorry for your loss. I to lost family and friends to drugs. And I want to thank you for writing the most beautiful tribute to your loved one. I feel most people cover up the reason for the death of there loved ones. This was an inspiration. I only hope that others can learn from this. Accepting the problem is the first step to fixing the problem.
Thank you . And my god bless you all.
R.I.P. Shawn.
Tammy. From Enfield CT. Xxx
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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I did not know Shawn, but his family is in my heart tonight.
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Deanna posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My thoughts are with you during this heartbreaking time. I am an addict who lost my baby sisteer to this baffling disease. Honestly, I was surprised to see someone be this honest. And, for that, I thank you. As, I'm sure most addicts would agree. Because, hiding the problem will never result in a solution. I will be praying for you and your family. Again, thank you for being one of very few, to remind us that this disease is fatal.
Sincerely, Deanna
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Sandy posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your candid obituary. I pray that Shawn's life will save another.
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Beth posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Thank you for being brave and honest and sharing what really took your lives one's life. I hope by sharing the truth that some addict will get recovery. They just need to accept help because you can't do it alone. I'm lucky to be in recovery.
Sorry for your loss. May God heal your family.
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
I didn't know Shawn, or anyone in the family; but his obit is shared on fb.
I merely wanted to say thank you for your understanding of drug addicts, and thank you for the wonderful obit.
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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Levi & Harry. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Shawn. We will always remember his beautiful smile and kind heart. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Randy & JoAnn Dusharm, Cape Coral, FL.
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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To the family and friends of Shawn, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most tragic time. RIP Shawn
Lisa Lafountain
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Mary and Jane Coolidge posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My heart is broken tonight. Shawn and Levi stayed with us after their mother passed away. I truly loved them and was saddened when they left our home. (but never our hearts). Over the years, we have looked at pictures of them and hoped they were safe with their aunt. Please Levi call me sometime. Buddy and I loved and enjoyed you boys. My number is 253-653-0615. With sadness and love.
Mary and Jane Coolidge.
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Debi posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Sending sincere sympathy to the friends and family of this young man. It's terrible what drug addiction does to families, prayers being sent to all his loved ones.
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Mark posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I didn't know Shawn or your family. I am sorry for your loss and as someone who grew up in an addicted home, this obituary touched my heart and is a poignant reminder to all about the devastating effects of addiction. Thanks for sharing your deep pain in such a way that maybe other families won't experience this same thing with their child or family member. God Bless you all in this time of such immense grief and sorrow.
Mark, Essex, VT
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Alan Botula posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I didn't know Shawn, but I wanted to offer my sincere condolences for your loss, and my thanks to you for your courageous honesty on the cause of his passing. Perhaps this will save a life.
Alan Botula, Essex Junction, VT
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Marie Dobbs posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I did not know Shawn, But I know how devastating it is to lose a loved one to a drug overdose. My prayers are extended to the entire family and may God wrap his loving arms around all of you during this most difficult time <3
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Lisa Lafountaine posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
To the family and friends of Shawn, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most tragic time. RIP Shawn.
Lisa Lafountain
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Anne Pierce posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My prayers to Shawn's family, and thank you for delivering a powerful message within his obituary.
Anne Pierce, Colchester, VT
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Linda Donovan posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
So very sorry for your loss of a son, brother, father and friend. Heroin is absolutely terrible and is impacting so many families now a days. We here in Richmond have started an Opioid Task Force and are trying to make a difference even if only one little bit at a time. So sorry he could not have been helped and saved from this awful disease of addiction. Our thoughts are with the family and friends during this yet again terrible tragedy.
Linda Donovan, Richmond, VT
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Carolyn Steinmetz posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. We are praying for your family.
Carolyn Steinmetz, Colchester, VT
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Heather posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Rest in peace Shawn. Thank you for sharing his story. Hopefully it will help other families who are going through similar issues.
Heather
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Danno posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I do not know this man, but what a waste of a handsome young man with what started out as a wonderful life, and, a smile that could light up a room.
Whoever wrote this obituary. Thanks so much for the last two paragraphs. Telling it like it really is. I am not an addict, but for all of you, that teeter on the edge, READ this and let the fear of common sense talk you out of something so very stupid.
R.I.P. Shawn Carter,
Danno
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Sue posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Laurie, Levi and all Shawn's family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Sue
RIP Shawn
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Susan Choquette posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I was so sorry to hear about Shawn. You are in my thoughts and prayers. He was the apple of your mother's eye. Her eyes would light up any time she talked about Levi, Shawn or the rest of her kids. Take care. Love Sue, E. Liverpool, Ohio
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SusanTammaro posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
May Shawn rest in peace . Thank you for the beautiful obituary. My thoughts and prayers are will you all..
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Joe fritze posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My son died in march from an accidental overdose of fentinal and codine. He was 24 years old. He had suffered from croins disease and was having trouble sieeping. He died at home inhis room. His death tore are family apart. You are in my prayers.
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Shadae Holmes posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My condolences goes out to you and your family members. I know that this is a very trying time for you all and I will keep you in my prayers.. God has a plan for us all , it may not make sense to us at this time but keep your faith in the good Lord, I pray that God ease your pain.. I'm sorry for your loss..
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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So sorry for your loss!
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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R.I.P.
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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May he rest in peace, god bless his family.
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Michelle posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so very sorry. My son suffers too. May God grant you some peace.
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Tammy Black posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Thank you so much for sharing your family and Shawns story, it very well may save many lives. You all are in my prayers, may God give you peace. I'm sharing this in Murray, Ky
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Christy Hamlin posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I read Shawns obituary through facebook. It touched my heart as well as many others. Ive never met him but ive met his decease. 4 years ago meth took my whole family including my 4 children whom Im no longer allowed to see or have contact with. Ive been sober since. I say that to say I understand the struggles this family has faced and youll all be in my prayers. Im so sorry that he lost the fight with addiction. Peace be to your family.
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Evan Anderson posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Sorry, I tried to give me condolences about seven times just now, every time I enter the code it rejects me. Not important, please give Shawn's family my condolences. +
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Tonya posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss! I do not know y'all or Shawn, but I thank you so very much for sharing his story. As one who knows others struggling with battling this addiction, I can not tell you how Shawn's story will affect them, but I believe it will. Thank you again for being strong enough and willing to share the truth about the tragic loss of you loved one. I pray the Lord be with you in this time of sorrow and that He comfort and strengthen you in the days, weeks, and months ahead, in Jesus Name.
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Linda Garrison posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
My dearest sympathies to your family. As a mother of a son with SUD I would like to thank you for you candor and bravery in the way yoy spoke of your son and his illness in his obituary. I pray for your hearts to mend as best they can in knowing he is no longer having to battle those demons. L
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Justine Wharton posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I do not know you or Shawn. But I know heroin, and the heartbreak and devastation it brings. Watched my now ex husband follow the same path. Destroyed our 12 year marriage, and our 4 children. Fortunately jail found him before death did. Again I am sorry, and I am humbled by your honesty. Lots of love and understanding coming your way. <3
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Chris posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I don't know Shawn and I don't know the family but I do know the pain of losing a son to this monster call Herion. I just want to say how sorry I am for your loss and how much I admire the obituary you wrote. May God bring you comfort at this difficult time and for the years to come. God Bless.
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Rhonda posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I do not know Shawn or his family. Someone shared his obituary on Facebook because it hit home with her as her young son also passed away from an accidental methadone overdose.
I just wanted to extend my condolences to the family and friends of Shawn and say how brave and courageous you are for sharing his illness with the world because if it helps just one addict, then his death can stand for something! His smile is stunning and there's no doubt he literally up rooms with it! He carries on in this life now through his daughter.
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Cyndi Strand posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I am proud that you spoke up. My son too died from drug intoxication. His drug of choice was heroin or any other opiate but he got to the point where any drug would do. Fight the fight in your boy's memory. We need to spread the word. Bless you and a big hug to you. I know how you feel.
Cyndi
Manhattan Beach, CA
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Prayers for you all and his little girl
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Jane Mack posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I'm so very sorry for your loss of Shawn Michael Carter. While I didn't know him, I saw this posted on Facebook and wanted to extend my thoughts. I pray this tribute to Shawn will touch someone in need of recovery. This was beautiful to read and could help someone make the decision that would change their life and their future....to live a sober life. Prayers to all Shawn's loved ones.
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Paula Crowe posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Shawn I will miss you very much. You were a great guy and a good father. You made me laugh so many times. I will see you on the other side my friend one day and we all be happy, joyous, and free. Love you buddy. My heart and prayers goes out the family.
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Anne Springer posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I did not know Shawn, but wanted to offer my condolences anyway and tell you that is the most courageous and truthful obituary I have seen in some time. I also want to say, for anyone in the grip of addiction, that my late fiance was someone who others thought would never be able to break the horrible hold it had on him. Yet he did, and afterward was able to have a good relationship with the two sons he worshipped and with me. There's hope. Reach out for help. Never, ever give up.
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Kaylin's mom posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I didnt have the pleasure of meeting Shawn but Im all to familiar with how heroin steals our young. May the road ahead bring you kbowledge at least that youre not alone in this sadness. Big hugs, kaylins mom
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Ann Chagnon (Metivier) posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Harry, we grew up together on Spring St! I am so very sorry for your loss :( Thoughts and Prayers to you all! R.I.P. Shawn
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Libby posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
You do not know me but thank you for being brave enough to talk about herion
My son died of the same thing
Here is a giant hug and prayers going up in your behalf
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Jeanne Oldakerwillelma@aol.com posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my son last year and for family, especially the mother, it's the hardest thing to bear. I did not know him, but I understand the horror of losing your baby, as they are always your baby. Had my son cremated, his ashes are home with me and wear some in a heart-shaped locket so he is always with me. Oive and Blessings to all left behind.
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Taz posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I did not know Shawn but he sounded like a wonderful person, what a better way to give him such a send off hopefully this will enlighten others with addictions of all kinds, drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, all of it. My husband life ended with the abuse of alcohol and cigarettes at a young age. I firmly believe but it's up to the individual when enough is enough. So sorry the family in the end are the ones that suffer and hopefully others will learn from the unfortunate fate of Shawn. I teared up after reading his obituary, I don't even know the man, but what a wonderful smile he had and hopefully his daughter will have wonderful memories.
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Nicole posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I don't know Shawn or his family. But I came across this obituary about him. My husband who was 42 died of a heroin overdose as well. I am touched by Shawn's story and his story has blessed my heart. Thank you for sharing. And my deepest condolences to Shawn's family and friends.
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Sheila Young posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for you loss. I want to personally thank you for your honesty regarding Shawn's illness and his passing and your desire to help another person with addiction. Too many are gone too soon. May you find comfort in your family and friends. <3 Sheila
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Sheila Young posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am so sorry for you loss. I want to personally thank you for your honesty regarding Shawn's illness and his passing and your desire to help another person with addiction. Too many are gone too soon. May you find comfort in your family and friends. <3 Sheila
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Dottie posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I am a substance abuse therapist and though I never knew your son (I wish I had because he sounds like an amazing man) his story could be that of any of my patients. On their behalf and the behalf of all who struggle with addiction, thank you for your honesty in Shawn's obituary. For letting people know what heroin took from him, for letting people know he was a wonderful person with a miserable disease, for not allowing the stigma and shame of addiction to keep you silent. I am deeply sorry about Shawn's death and I pray your memories of the man he was will help carry you through this horrendous time.
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Melissa posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I'm so very sorry to all of Shawns friends and family and all who loved him.
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Randy and JoAnn Dusharm posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Shawn. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time Rest in peace Shawn
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
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This is a beautiful, honest and touching tribute to Shawn. Thank you for this gift. This beautiful truth will will save lives. I am so very sorry that the tragic part of this truth took his. My love to your family. May you find peace in the comfort in your community of support.
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Dale Sanders posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
So sorry. Lost our son Heath to this terrible addiction. He was 32 as well and left 2 little girls on April 15,2013. Please know you are not alone and contact us if we can help. Prayers for strength and comfort.
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Nanci posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
First and foremost I want to say how sorry I am to the family for your loss. I did not know Shawn but I have also never read a more beautifully written obituary. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Islene Runningdeer posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Deep sadness about the loss of this young man. And profound thanks to his family, for sharing his and their story so honestly at a time when many people need support through the horror of addiction.
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Tracey Comstock posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
I never had a chance to meet Shawn but unfortunately I have met heroin addiction. My life has been very similar to his. I want his family to know I am very sorry for your loss. I also want to say I am positive he loved you all very much. I have also had the pleasure to meet sobriety and I have to say reading these I thank God everyday.
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Amanda Mills-Brown posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your beautiful Shawn. I lost my brother to heroin in April of 2015 and am familiar with your pain, although everyone's pain is so different. I pray that you are able to find strength during this time, that you find a shoulder to cry on and that Shawn's smile stays in your hearts forever.
God Bless you all.
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Carol Saunders posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
As I read your words my heart was touched and I wanted you to know that your strength in posting is a gift to all reading it. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I pray that God will hold you in His arms throughout this difficult time and the days to follow. Carol in Florida
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Tony Hammond posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Shawn you are not alone. Sorry you where not able to give a final good by to friends and fam. You will be missed.
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Stacey posted a condolence
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Prayers said for your family. May Shawn rest in peace.
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His obit has gone viral. Just wanted to light a candle for him. Peace be with you.
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A Mom posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I am saddened by the weekly obituaries of handsome men and beautiful woman, dying of overdoses. The obituary was beautiful and my heart breaks for his family. I hope this can save another life dealing with addiction. God bless.
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Robin Copping posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I did not know Shawn, but he sounds like a wonderful person. I am so very sorry for your loss of this handsome young man. As a long-time nurse and advanced EMT, I have seen this way too often and I share in your grief for a life taken too soon. May you find some comfort in the good memories and times shared. My deepest condolences to you all. Thank you for sharing Shawn's story, maybe at least one life will be saved..God Bless..
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Keira Gann posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
To the family of Shawn. I did not know Shawn or your family but I know your story because it's so familiar. I appreciate your honesty in this obituary. I hope that even one person can read this and find the hope and help they need. Thank you thank you thank you for making Shawn's life continue on in the best way possible. My condolences and love to all of you.
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Maeve posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
Blessings ,prayers and much love and healing to Shawn's family.
God bless you.
Maeve
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Patricia Muskus posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
My deepest sympathy to all his friends and family. What a beautiful young man---gone to soon. I am Trish Muskus's grandma I will pray for you all and Shawn.
God bless you all.
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Karyn Lee posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. I was moved by his obituary, and I marvel at the strength it must have taken to compose it, Thank you for sharing his story, including his battle with the terrible disease of addiction. Best wishes to Mr. Carter's friends and family.
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Wednesday, October 5, 2016
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RIP Shawn always remembered and deeply missed. So sorry Bud.
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Scott MacDonald posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Though I did not know him, I know so many people in his exact situation, and the list is long of people that were taken far too soon that I care about. I admire your effort to be open in his obituary more than you know. I hope and pray that there are people that care about him that have read this, that think twice about using the next time. Again, I am very sorry, and may he rest in peace.
Scott
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Jennifer posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I didn't have the pleasure of meeting this young man but there are many other young that have passed way before their time.
I'm proud of the family for making such a sad but honest statement.
My heart goes out to all of his friends and family. Know you are not alone. Know there are many others grieving for the same awful reason you are. My thoughts are with you all.
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Kathy Richards posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I met Shawn when he would pick Marlee up at the same daycare my sons attended. He was always so kind and you could tell that Marlee adored her dad. I wish there were words I could say to help lessen the pain but only time and the strength of your family and friends will be able to do that. My heart goes out especially to Marlee and Kelly as they come to terms with the loss that this will have on the rest of their lives. Hugs to Marlee from Christopher & Nickoli and a Big hug and coffee to Kelly from Kathy.
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Marcia Ingalls posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
To Shawn's Family,
I lost my 55 yr old Husband in January 2014 to an accidental heroin overdose. I am sorry for the pain I know you are having to endure. Not only now, but what came before this ending.
That said, please know how much I admired the openness in which you wrote Shawn's obituary. I have not hidden the reason behind my Husband's death, nor had I had time to adjust enough to what had happened, to be so open and honest in writing his obituary. I was intent on memorializing the person he had been, not wanting to recognize the demon (heroin) that had taken his life. I did not want to give it any more power than it had already shown.
My deepest sympathies for your loss and all that has been taken from you, this part I totally understand.
I hope your open message will touch at least one life out there and prevent their family from experiencing what ours has.
Keeping Shawn and all addicts in my thoughts and prayers.
Respectfully,
Marcia Ingalls
Mrs. Daniel Ingalls
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Ellen Kelton posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
Although we don't know you, we wanted to extend our sincere sympathies for your loss.
Your courage in telling of Shawn's addiction will undoubtedly help others.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Ellen & Mike Kelton
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Sharon Davis posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
So Very Sorry for your loss . Peace & Prayers for you All .
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Faith Stevens posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I am truly sorry for your loss of Shawn. The misuse of drugs is in the forefront of the news these days. I'm sad that Shawn has become a statistic. Stay strong and fight the epidemic any way you can.
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Erin McGinley lit a candle
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
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I have very fond memories of Shawn as a child. Later, he would frequently stop in my shop in Essex, to visit and help me with various carpentry duties that I could not do alone - or it period. I will miss his lust for life and the lust for love he had for his family!
My condolences to all of his family members - I love you all, and share the same from The McGinley family.
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Andrea posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I did not know Shawn. But I know what it's like to love an addict. I know what it's like to have my loved one overdose-- thankfully, luckily, by some miracle, he didn't die. Not the first time, or the second , third,or fourth time. It was very close, but we were all spared that heartache. The heartache you all are enduring now. I have imagined that nightmare over and over again.... And I am so sorry that this is your reality. my heart breaks for all of you who lived him. I can understand the torment of watching your loved one slip away from you.... God bless you and I wish everyone peace.
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doreen carpentier posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
may god be with you all. prayers going your way.
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Lori lowell posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
My heart goes out to spawns entire family and friends . Everyday I work with addicts ,whether recovering or new , and I hope that the many that are struggling will reach out and seek help .. Love & blessings
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Rose posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
My heart goes out to Shawn's family and friends. It was a sad ending of a beautiful person. I want you to know that was one of the best obituaries ever written, I hope more people like me who doesn't know him reads this profound message. If it can help just one person Shawn life will go on in someone who has been saved from addiction. He looks and sounds like such a wonderful person, My condolences to all.
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Melissa Dayes lit a candle
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
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You are forever in my heart Shawn
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Muriel Brandano posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
Prayers and thoughts for the family!
Personally would like to thank you for the beautiful obituary! I hope it will help someone out there who is having that same struggle! God Bless!
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Wednesday, October 5, 2016
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I love you Shawn. You will forever be missed.
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Erica Viens posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I want to send my deepest condolences to the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss! All my thoughts are with your family
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Andrea posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
I did not know Shawn, but I know Shawn. As the mother of an addict, my heart breaks for you all. I hope that your memories of Shawn, before drugs robbed him from you, bring you some peace during this very difficult time. I thank you for allowing this tragedy to be the vehicle with which you encourage others to seek help. Only when the shame is lifted will we prevent more loss. I will pray for all of you during this very difficult time.
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Wednesday, October 5, 2016
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Wednesday, October 5, 2016
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To the many family and friends of Shawn, my thoughts and prayers and with you all during this most tragic time. RIP Shawn
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